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Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven
i never said that it was wrong anywhere in my post
said its a lifestyle choice
I'm not married or monogamous and leaning toward staying that way
but having multiple women is diminishing returns because if u need more and more how are you being fulfilled
you are trying to convivence yourself its okay
plenty of people have no desire to be with someone other than their partner
having one partner there is a level of intimacy you can't get being with multiple partners
of course people want to be around people that are like minded
if you don't smoke why u wanna be in a room of smokers
just like married people usually rather be around couples
Why should everyone conform to your way of thinking?
Ok let’s take it back to your analogy. And wrong you didn’t say. But you compared it to eating bad food and saying it’s not good.

Whatever food you eat, you still want more the next day. You get hungry again. And for me, steak and shrimp is my favorite food. But I’m not eating it every day. I’m not eating it, saying I’m satisfied, and then don’t try it at other restaurants and locations. Even if I found the best spot in the world, my daily happy hour spot, I still am going to want to go somewhere else ever so often.

This is pretty much the same with everything in life. Nothing is so satisfying you only want it once. Or one type of it. Same with sex. Same with women.

That’s why you have to FORCE yourself to not cheat. Yea you want that movie star. Yea you up when you see that thick girl half naked on tik tok. But you have to say “nah I can’t cause my girl.” Like you have to say “nah I’ll eat a salad”. You want that shrimp and steak tho


I’m not the one asking anyone to conform though. I’m saying people should stop judging others like they do. Someone tells me they are swingers and been together 40 years, most people will skip the 40 years to be disgusted at the swinger part. But be happy about a marriage where they don’t even know if it’s good or not
 

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just like people are shamed for being too conservative
there is more stability in a person with one partner
if have a different person give you a haircut every time you got one, it way different than having the same barber for years
if you have a new girl every time you hang out with friends they have to adjust to the person too
you really self serving with your thought process, your actions effect others
you can do what you want but people are free to have their opinions on how you move
I never even said anyone had to hang out. And isn’t it equally as selfish to be close to someone and then be upset YOU have to adjust to their happiness? If they are happy with their girlfriends and the girlfriends are happy, why would you be worried about yourself and the 60 mins at dinner?

Then you go and judge again. A person with one woman is more stable…. How you know? How you know what fukkery those people are doing? How you know they ain’t going through the motions? How you know he ain’t beating her ass every night?

But again, you see them at dinner a few times and it’s better for YOU so you deem him, her and their relationship as more stable. As if unstable relationships don’t exist.


I mean forget opinions. 50% of marriages end in divorce. How exactly is that stable?
 

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I never even said anyone had to hang out. And isn’t it equally as selfish to be close to someone and then be upset YOU have to adjust to their happiness? If they are happy with their girlfriends and the girlfriends are happy, why would you be worried about yourself and the 60 mins at dinner?

Then you go and judge again. A person with one woman is more stable…. How you know? How you know what fukkery those people are doing? How you know they ain’t going through the motions? How you know he ain’t beating her ass every night?

But again, you see them at dinner a few times and it’s better for YOU so you deem him, her and their relationship as more stable. As if unstable relationships don’t exist.


I mean forget opinions. 50% of marriages end in divorce. How exactly is that stable?
Most people get divorced because they live an American lifestyle, which means you have to basically kill your soul to never stop consuming.


I just wanted to make that point, don’t care for the rest.
 

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Don't blame God for your desires.

1 John 2:16 KJV
For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.
:dahell: This makes no sense.
 

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Ok let’s take it back to your analogy. And wrong you didn’t say. But you compared it to eating bad food and saying it’s not good.

Whatever food you eat, you still want more the next day. You get hungry again. And for me, steak and shrimp is my favorite food. But I’m not eating it every day. I’m not eating it, saying I’m satisfied, and then don’t try it at other restaurants and locations. Even if I found the best spot in the world, my daily happy hour spot, I still am going to want to go somewhere else ever so often.
Never compared being with multiple woman to food
I said "pleasure doesn't make something the best decision" and used food as an example
you are arguing a point I didn't make
This is pretty much the same with everything in life. Nothing is so satisfying you only want it once. Or one type of it. Same with sex. Same with women.

That’s why you have to FORCE yourself to not cheat. Yea you want that movie star. Yea you up when you see that thick girl half naked on tik tok. But you have to say “nah I can’t cause my girl.” Like you have to say “nah I’ll eat a salad”. You want that shrimp and steak tho


I’m not the one asking anyone to conform though. I’m saying people should stop judging others like they do. Someone tells me they are swingers and been together 40 years, most people will skip the 40 years to be disgusted at the swinger part. But be happy about a marriage where they don’t even know if it’s good or not
you are arguing points I never made
plenty of people don't have to FORCE themselves not to cheat because they want to be monogamous
people can have whatever standards they want :manny:
you are insecure if you are looking for validation of your actions from those people
 
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