Im gonna tell you something crazy. An incredible thing in the literal sense.
I been with my man since we were 19 (42 this yr) and never EVER have i worried about infidelity. Both our phones wide open. Its crazy to me bc he definitely has options (hvm). Im vain enough to keep things right ofc, but still. I truly dont think he has that urge. The little issues we have definitely dont include other people.
I wish astrology was acceptable to discuss here bc im find it to be a fantastic shorthand for personality aspects. But, basically, there are some ppl more inclined to find the one they want and sit down somewhere. They
really be happy. I know, you dont believe me. But fr.
Like, we been having A++ porn star sex for over twenty years. Legit, sounds crazy typing it. My version of a love letter- yes, we still write love letters, kinda- is erotica in short story form and
i be writing real shyt that actually happened. Why would we
bother to have sex with other ppl?? Like, for what
purpose exactly
? 
How we got here is: 1. we both each other's type, 2. his sidebytch is his profession, not another woman, and 3. Im... not inclined toward a dead bedroom. Tbf, I spend a lot of time alone, but when we come together, it's
. I thank the big God and the miscellaneous little gods everyday.
(I didn't say this to, like, guilt you toward monogamy. Do you responsibly. I said it to say, all these men not out here hating life and feening for new p*ssy. Some are very pleased. Imagine you had your dream bad bytch walking around your house everyday. If you cant pick just one, use your dream rotation. Would you not be content?
)
Oh, and to the second quote, modern society is not traditional society. Youre more of an outcast for being happily married nowadays. Literally no one believes you, they think youre lying to maintain a facade of tradition. But theres no longer an incentive for tradition, so why would we bother to lie? Makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.
Ofc, men and women are different.
