Am I dealing with a Bisexual? I need some advice

[King Karim]

muthafukka read what you wrote, you telling me this shyt is normal??? what man tolerating this bullshyt you that weak???

That's not my Woman.

 

[Sex Luthor]

It just sounds like you're acting like y'all are together and she's acting like y'all are friends. Nobody is just gonna drop their friends bc they hang out occasionally with somebody. This is relationship issues without the relationship. Relax b. It ain't that serious for both of yall yet

 

[Taadow]

why does her being a flight attendant make it a bigger red flag?

Flight attendants always outta town, they be getting that OT work.
Sometimes they be having Splackavellies in different places.

 

[Sex Luthor]

they aint in a relationship.

That's the key point of this story. He's falling for a chick he hangs out with sometimes and she's treating it like a friendship

 

[Killer Instinct]

You share that girl.

 

[ORDER_66]

That's not my Woman.

So keep it that way and dont even think this much into a fukking flake my dude dnt waste ya time. if anything the older i get the more angrier i am with women that waste my fukking time... your time is valuable and if she not giving up the buns or doing important shyt with you and or playing games i dont tolerate it. neither should you.

 

[Cyrus' Wife]

I think you're making too big a deal out of what is likely a harmless situation.

 

[King Karim]

It just sounds like you're acting like y'all are together and she's acting like y'all are friends. Nobody is just gonna drop their friends bc they hang out occasionally with somebody. This is relationship issues without the relationship. Relax b. It ain't that serious for both of yall yet

I'm not trying to cap myself up....But if i wanted it to be a relationship....It would have been....I'm the one who has been holding out more than she is, and the main reason is what I'm asking today.....She has gave me every sign and hint in the world that she wants me to take the next step.

 

[Sex Luthor]

preeciate the insight Fam....but I am certain that she isn't using me as a Beard bc I totally ghosted her a few years ago when me and my Ole Lady at the time got back together and I could tell it hurt her feelings.....Once we started back communicating, she wanted me to tell her why I ghosted her, and I did and was honest about it, she told me she understood and she forgave me....and she kept it 100 with me where-as many other females would have brushed me off....so im pretty confident I'm not the beard, but i'm not confident that she isn't Bi

You just gave the answer to your own issue. Women don't just forget stuff. She put herself out there and you rejected her like Dwight Howard in Orlando for another chick.

 

[King Karim]

So keep it that way and dont even think this much into a fukking flake my dude dnt waste ya time. if anything the older i get the more angrier i am with women that waste my fukking time... your time is valuable and if she not giving up the buns or doing important shyt with you and or playing games i dont tolerate it. neither should you.

I feel you...it's not that cut and dry....I'll just say this....if I got in a bind and needed a stack or 2, she'd be there.

 

[invalid]

but the thing that threw me off from her being Bi is that I've often asked her to come to strip clubs with me in Atlanta and she always refuses....that's like the one place I can never talk her into going with me, anywhere else and she is always down....she always would say "I don't wanna see no naked women walking around, that doesn't appeal to me"

If a downlow dude is in a relationship with a female and she ask him to go to a gay club with her, he most likely is going to refuse. He most likely is going to refuse because, although his girl may not realize that he’s secretly gay, he knows that if she get him around other gay dudes he might get clocked or she might notice patterns or mannerism that he might share with other gay dudes when he’s around them that she may have not have noticed before.

Same thing here.

Think about white passing black people. They cut off all contact and social interaction with black people when they are passing. White people may not notice that they are black but get them around other black people, they may start noticing that they share the same ‘features’ or black people will automatically be able to clock them as their own.

Your girl may be downlow.

I don’t see it as a big deal if they ‘choose’ to be in a straight relationship and even if they are cheating because the odds of them passing on a std is low as opposed to if the situation was flipped.

But personally, I can’t mess with no bisexual woman. My brother dated a female on the downlow and it fukked him up as he thought a lot of the issues that they had in their relationship was on him, when, in reality, it was really due to her being gay.

 

[ORDER_66]

I feel you...it's not that cut and dry....I'll just say this....if I got in a bind and needed a stack or 2, she'd be there.

nikka, ya wasting ya time playing fukking games, this aint moonlighting nikka

 

[Immortalized Outlaw]

She is a flight attendant, don't bother. She belongs to cities.

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Now I'm not sn expert in these things but you're coming through in your post as kinda immature.

If she is a lady you're just dealing with, treat her with respect, smash then go your own way. If you wanna know if she's bi, ask. Sounds like you like her, alot.

There's more that I could post but I think that's enough.

 

[King Karim]

You just gave the answer to your own issue. Women don't just forget stuff. She put herself out there and you rejected her like Dwight Howard in Orlando for another chick.

A text she sent me not too long ago when I was ignoring her for a few days after she ended our outing to go keep her friend company at the restaurant.


When we talked about it, she apologized and said she assumed I'd be cool with all 3 of us hanging out at the spot but ultimately I wasn't , so I cut her off for a few days