Am I dealing with a Bisexual? I need some advice

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If a downlow dude is in a relationship with a female and she ask him to go to a gay club with her, he most likely is going to refuse. He most likely is going to refuse because, although his girl may not realize that he’s secretly gay, he knows that if she get him around other gay dudes he might get clocked or she might notice patterns or mannerism that he might share with other gay dudes when he’s around them that she may have not have noticed before.

Same thing here.

Think about white passing black people. They cut off all contact and social interaction with black people when they are passing. White people may not notice that they are black but get them around other black people, they may start noticing that they share the same ‘features’ or black people will automatically be able to clock them as their own.

Your girl may be downlow.

I don’t see it as a big deal if they ‘choose’ to be in a straight relationship and even if they are cheating because the odds of them passing on a std is low as opposed to if the situation was flipped.

But personally, I can’t mess with no bisexual woman. My brother dated a female on the downlow and it fukked him up as he thought a lot of the issues that they had in their relationship was on him, when, in reality, it was really due to her being gay.
Tell me about it...when I was younger, I was in a relationship with a bisexual Woman and it was one of the worst relationships I ever had and I told myself I'd never go into a serious relationship with another bisexual Woman again bc it's so much shyt you have to deal with.

Now some dudes don't care bc it's easier to get 3somes that way , but for my Main Girl, I don't want her Bi....for my lil skeezers, I don't care

Appreciate the insight...that makes sense
 

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If it bothered you that much, you should have dropped her after the hookah date.


But, never in life, should a man be jealous of his girl's relationship with another woman.
I started to but she legit my Ace and I was starting to feel bad for ghosting her again
 

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Now I'm not sn expert in these things but you're coming through in your post as kinda immature.

If she is a lady you're just dealing with, treat her with respect, smash then go your own way. If you wanna know if she's bi, ask. Sounds like you like her, alot.

There's more that I could post but I think that's enough.
No, please continue.
 

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Tell me about it...when I was younger, I was in a relationship with a bisexual Woman and it was one of the worst relationships I ever had and I told myself I'd never go into a serious relationship with another bisexual Woman again bc it's so much shyt you have to deal with.

Now some dudes don't care bc it's easier to get 3somes that way , but for my Main Girl, I don't want her Bi....for my lil skeezers, I don't care

Appreciate the insight...that makes sense

this was a chick that my brother was planning on marrying. after their relationship ended, he said he’s never getting married or having children. i told him he needed to get some therapy, that’s how much that relationship fukked him up.
 

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this was a chick that my brother was planning on marrying. after their relationship ended, he said he’s never getting married or having children. i told him he needed to get some therapy, that’s how much that relationship fukked him up.
Damn...she really did a number on him..
 

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How long until OP is in his whip doing stakeouts?

Hire a private investigator, breh...
 

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I’m a bisexual woman. Based on your posts yes there is a chance she is involved with this friend. On the other hand there is a chance that they’re just really close friends. The best way for you to find out is to just ask. But considering that you say this is not your gf, you may not be a priority to her the way friend is. If you want that to change, then pursue a relationship.

It sounds like you like this girl but for whatever reason your saying it isn’t like that, but if it wasn’t I suspect you wouldn’t have made this thread.
 

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A text she sent me not too long ago when I was ignoring her for a few days after she ended our outing to go keep her friend company at the restaurant.


When we talked about it, she apologized and said she assumed I'd be cool with all 3 of us hanging out at the spot but ultimately I wasn't , so I cut her off for a few days

You could have told her that when you and her spend time together you want it to be you and her.

Her friend kinda took the piss by still driving down knowing your chick would drag you along to go hang with her. Now nothing wrong with hanging with your chicks friend but she should have said she was hanging with you that evening and she'd see her tomorrow.
 
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