I have known this girl for about 6 or 7 years. We hang out sometimes and we have incredible chemistry. I mean incredible chemistry. We joke with each other, like similar things, and can almost finish each other sentences.
She's the type of girl that I have always seen myself settling down with. She doesn't smoke, drink, doesn't cuss that much, carries herself like a Lady should, career driven, smart and responsible....and she's a great cook. We obviously both like each other a lot and would like to extend the relationship to the next step,
but here's the problem, or rather, here is my problem. She has a female best friend that raises red flags for me. They seem to spend far too much time together. They use to live together at one point...my Lady friend, her best friend, and the best friend's ex-husband. She was living with them when she was in between jobs.
She's a flight attendant so her and the best friends are constantly going on trips together, spending their off days with one another, they starting growing dredlocks at the same time. They live about 50 mins from one another but hang out like they live 5 mins from one another. On her facebook, her best friend does nothing but tag her in their outings. Her Facebook timeline is filled with her best friend.
Like one time we were going to hang out and her friend called and she told her friend she was out with me.....The friend eventually drove up to the city she lives and and texted her......She then asked me to please take her back so her best friend wouldn't be alone.(Hookah restuarant)...So in other words, she cut our outing short to go hang with her Bestie.
Now I gotta be honest.....I'm starting to think they maybe they are bisexual.....I know they both have bisexual friends but the thing that threw me off from her being Bi is that I've often asked her to come to strip clubs with me in Atlanta and she always refuses....that's like the one place I can never talk her into going with me, anywhere else and she is always down....she always would say "I don't wanna see no naked women walking around, that doesn't appeal to me"
and from my experiences, mostly all the gay or Bi women that i've encountered LOVE strip clubs as much as dudes
What gives? Is she Bisexual and her best friend is also her "girl friend"/// Or am I overthinking this?
She's the type of girl that I have always seen myself settling down with. She doesn't smoke, drink, doesn't cuss that much, carries herself like a Lady should, career driven, smart and responsible....and she's a great cook. We obviously both like each other a lot and would like to extend the relationship to the next step,
but here's the problem, or rather, here is my problem. She has a female best friend that raises red flags for me. They seem to spend far too much time together. They use to live together at one point...my Lady friend, her best friend, and the best friend's ex-husband. She was living with them when she was in between jobs.
She's a flight attendant so her and the best friends are constantly going on trips together, spending their off days with one another, they starting growing dredlocks at the same time. They live about 50 mins from one another but hang out like they live 5 mins from one another. On her facebook, her best friend does nothing but tag her in their outings. Her Facebook timeline is filled with her best friend.
Like one time we were going to hang out and her friend called and she told her friend she was out with me.....The friend eventually drove up to the city she lives and and texted her......She then asked me to please take her back so her best friend wouldn't be alone.(Hookah restuarant)...So in other words, she cut our outing short to go hang with her Bestie.
Now I gotta be honest.....I'm starting to think they maybe they are bisexual.....I know they both have bisexual friends but the thing that threw me off from her being Bi is that I've often asked her to come to strip clubs with me in Atlanta and she always refuses....that's like the one place I can never talk her into going with me, anywhere else and she is always down....she always would say "I don't wanna see no naked women walking around, that doesn't appeal to me"
and from my experiences, mostly all the gay or Bi women that i've encountered LOVE strip clubs as much as dudes
What gives? Is she Bisexual and her best friend is also her "girl friend"/// Or am I overthinking this?
muthafukka read what you wrote, you telling me this shyt is normal??? 
what man tolerating this bullshyt you that weak???