Am I missing out in Good Black Women because I dislike weaves?

[MischievousMonkey]

Don't do it OP

After an argument you'll get back to your room and see this on your bed

Spoiler

And you'll get incredibly pissed

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Good Wives don’t wear weaves.

Thus saith the LORD

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Spanish and white women wear just as much weave. Can y’all stop with these anti black topics
This place is disgusting

Their weaves look like their natural hair. Black women aren't wearing weaves to make their hair look like this:

They're getting weaves to look like those spanish and white women you mentioned.

 

[motionlessZombie]

Fake eyelashes are the worst.

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

Also. Those type of women waste exorbitant amounts of money on hair, hair products, nails and other beauty product bullshyt that ain’t necessary.

Get a woman that keeps her natural hair fly, she’s confident and secure. Weaves hide so much insecurities and trauma. Marry a woman who can’t face you without someone else’s hair sewn into her head. That shyt is disgusting.

 

[Cᵣₐₛₕ&ₜₕₑCₒᵤₚ]

If this is a deal breaker for you stand your ground OP. You're giving a woman the ultimate compliment by saying you look better without any artificial enhancer. A chick that really regards you (and who is engaged with you) takes heed to what you're kicking. That simple.​

 

[The ADD]

I ended a 9 year relationship to a a very great woman a few months ago

We met after a girlfriend of mine passed away and she was going through a divorce. Shes older with me with two kids but i wanted kids of my own and at her age it wasn't wise(47).

So now I'm back out here on the dating scene

HINGE Is The Future Brehs

I‘m in DC so I doubt that’s the reason. I’m not ugly but I am a short breh. :francis: I’m 5’10 & decent looking but some say I’m #handsomegang but my lineup is overflowing Maybe it’s the way you take pics & you also need to swipe alot.

www.thecoli.com

But man its a mess and im not going to get into that right now. Ive never been a fan of heavy make up and weaves but they are in abundance out here and on these apps. I've met a lot of women so far but only clicked with one so far...but im struggling getting pass the weaves and heavy make up...am I wrong?

You like what you like or don’t like

 

[Kasgoinjail]

No

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

Their weaves look like their natural hair. Black women aren't wearing weaves to make their hair look like this:

They're getting weaves to look like those spanish and white women you mentioned.

Cosign...if it looked more natural then I would feel a bit different. Im cool with braids but weave with hair that doesn't even resemble yours is a no for me

 

[FromStLouis]

Don't miss out on a good black woman when maybe all she needs is a little support and encouragement.

 

[Bop Gun]

Too many of the women who wear weave, you will rarely if at all see them out in public rocking their natural hair.

A lot of insecurities reside in them. As many Black hair salons that exist, you'd think Black women would have mastered styling their natural hair by now.

 

[Yaboysix]

nikka...just tell her to NOT wear a weave...

 

[Thelonious Napz]

I'm sorry but women wearing a weave is the last thing I'm concerned about.

Fr tho! As long as shorty ain't got that James Brown mug shot action going on, It's all gravy.

 

[Astroslik]

i'm a woman...and i guarantee you we look and feel better when we have our "thing" right - for some women it's hair, others it's eyebrows, makeup, nails/toes, outfits, body, etc. yall gotta stop equating weaves and extensions to some lack of esteem when it's no more than having your shyt the way you want it.

and that pic does not look anywhere near out of place as an asian with a fro - that's a believable amount of hair worn in a way that women who straighten their own hair wear it. and if you mean natural as in not straightened, that world is full of extensions and weaves too

You’re telling men what they should/shouldn’t like if they think you look better without weave it doesn’t matter if YOU think you look better with it .

A lot of brehs don’t like weave. It is what it is. Men are the consumers of the product you’re selling.

 

[UpAndComing]

They're getting weaves to look like those spanish and white women you mentioned.

Hate to say it, but Black women who wear their hair like this look so buffoons

It looks so out of place and awkward