AN ESSAY: WHY REAL MEN AVOID SINGLE MOTHERS

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I married a single mother,
I would say this is about 65% right.
You never get put first/check
Cancel dates at the last minute/check
Kid works against you/capital CHECK
Dr. Jekkell/mr.hyde/ half way check

My wife was always been honest from Day 1
Never felt entitled
Never felt like I owed her anything.
Baby daddy got departed when the was 2 so never had to deal with that.
 

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I married a single mother,
I would say this is about 65% right.
You never get put first/check
Cancel dates at the last minute/check
Kid works against you/capital CHECK
Dr. Jekkell/mr.hyde/ half way check

My wife was always been honest from Day 1
Never felt entitled
Never felt like I owed her anything.
Baby daddy got departed when the was 2 so never had to deal with that.

So would you agree it was worth it?
 

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I don't know if any of this is true. To be honest, a lot of this seems fabricated heavily. The only reason I haven't dated a single mother is because of my MOMS reaction. My father would probably be like :yeshrug:. But my mother is a whole different animal all together. If I choose to introduce my mother and father to a single mother I'm dating. I have to be 110 percent sure she's going to be my wife. There has to be no middle ground here. just thinking of my moms questions :merchant:


Lol...yes that was exactly my mother's reaction she was 1000% against it, my dad not much but he would never go against my mom.
 

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So would you agree it was worth it?

Yes, very worth we make almost 175k combined, but 2 houses, had 3 kids together, been together for 11 year been married for 8 so yes, very much worth it.

But

My situation is different.
Never had to deal with baby daddy he was departed looooooong before I came.
She's a hard worker, very smart, and extremely loyal and honest. Definitely someone you can build with.
 

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Yes, very worth we make almost 175k combined, but 2 houses, had 3 kids together, been together for 11 year been married for 8 so yes, very much worth it.

But

My situation is different.
Never had to deal with baby daddy he was departed looooooong before I came.
She's a hard worker, very smart, and extremely loyal and honest. Definitely someone you can build with.

Good for you bruh!:salute:
 

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Its a bytch with sperm that aint yours, why will be with a woman that aint got my sperm you know man, single moms good fukks though.
 

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I got into a shootout with an ex's baby daddy back in the early 00's when I drove her to pick up her kid from her ex's place.

She goes in the house, you can hear them arguing... and then all of the sudden this dude comes out on the porch flashing a pistol, waving it around and shyt..talking about "you ain't taking my kid!"..this nikka is beyond hysterical.:cosbysmoke:

Back then, before I mellowed out, I kept a 38. revolver on my person at all times and a 9mm tucked in the glovebox...as soon as he came out flashin and threatening, it really pretty much went all downhill from there.:snoop:
 

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Exactly! I could see the discussion between my parents

Father: Eh he loves her let it happen

Mother: :comeon: really Alfred

Father: :patrice: on second thought

Me: :skip:

Lmfao.......yes very much like that.

When mom's got me alone to talk to me she was like:what:

Then the second conversation after they bothed had talked
Mom's was like :martin:
Dad was like :whoa:

It got crazy, they offered to buy me a brand new car and everything...lol
 

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Lmfao.......yes very much like that.

When mom's got me alone to talk to me she was like:what:

Then the second conversation after they bothed had talked
Mom's was like :martin:
Dad was like :whoa:

It got crazy, they offered to buy me a brand new car and everything...lol


They really didn't want you to marry that women huh?
 
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