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I'm talking to three right now
Obviously my situation is different tho being a single dad
Three though?
Go head playa!
AN ESSAY: WHY REAL MEN AVOID SINGLE MOTHERS
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Three though?Go head playa!
Indiglow Meta (R$G)
Ultra.
If chicks have kids, they also have food. When I was foul, I still did my thing w/ "chicks w/ kids". Some of that good tax bread, oh 
They good for fukking.
As far as a serious relationship though... nah
I have too big of an ego, when it comes time to have my own family, I want it to be MY OWN family. Not interested in raising another dude's kids. The only reason single mothers even a commodity in our community because these chicks know their value has fallen tremendously and so will fukk with a dude they would have turned their nose up to if they didn't have kids. Simps are OK with this because for the first time they have a woman paying genuine attention to them. How many dudes y'all know in real life have a lot going for them and can get women, but choose to settle for a single mom?
Shyt is for the betas who single childess women would normally laugh at. If you just fukking them though, ain't nothing wrong with that
As far as a serious relationship though... nah
I have too big of an ego, when it comes time to have my own family, I want it to be MY OWN family. Not interested in raising another dude's kids. The only reason single mothers even a commodity in our community because these chicks know their value has fallen tremendously and so will fukk with a dude they would have turned their nose up to if they didn't have kids. Simps are OK with this because for the first time they have a woman paying genuine attention to them. How many dudes y'all know in real life have a lot going for them and can get women, but choose to settle for a single mom?
Shyt is for the betas who single childess women would normally laugh at. If you just fukking them though, ain't nothing wrong with that
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O.T.I.S.
The Monk & The Mercenary
I agree with some of the article...
I know single women that are entitled, drama queens, dishonest, etc., and it has nothing to do with them being a mother or even having kids
Most women are single mothers because they decide to have kids with dudes that show all kinds of signs of being a deadbeat dad but it's ignored (I.e., Ciara/ Future) and do it without marriage
If 2 people can't make a marriage work and divorce well at least they tried.
Plus I've seen women who's BD was completely out of their lives, child doesn't know him or even like the nikka for shyt they've seen him do. My lil cousin is a victim to that but he's grown now and had father figures elsewhere.
Now I don't personally like dating single mothers because of the time thing. There's never a good time to do anything. If we go out, she needs a baby sitter (usually costs money) or we have to wait do some random weekend that they are not there. If I go to her place they're there being nosey and asking random questions. She's yelling at them or telling them to do shyt or they're fighting... Etc.,
Or you can't even have a phone conversation without her yelling or putting you on hold for random bullshyt.. Especially if they're young and multiple kids.
Plus BD might be around the corner ready to act like a bytch. I was on a date with one chick and we went to the movies and BD was there with her kid and a white bytch (). Dude got mad and started arguing with her in the parking lot then gave her the kid and left. I ended up meeting the child and we became cool
It's not always bad of course but that's what I think it is. It's just more to it than a typical relationship where 2 people can focus on themselves and building their relationship first
I know single women that are entitled, drama queens, dishonest, etc., and it has nothing to do with them being a mother or even having kids
Most women are single mothers because they decide to have kids with dudes that show all kinds of signs of being a deadbeat dad but it's ignored (I.e., Ciara/ Future) and do it without marriage
If 2 people can't make a marriage work and divorce well at least they tried.
Plus I've seen women who's BD was completely out of their lives, child doesn't know him or even like the nikka for shyt they've seen him do. My lil cousin is a victim to that but he's grown now and had father figures elsewhere.
Now I don't personally like dating single mothers because of the time thing. There's never a good time to do anything. If we go out, she needs a baby sitter (usually costs money) or we have to wait do some random weekend that they are not there. If I go to her place they're there being nosey and asking random questions. She's yelling at them or telling them to do shyt or they're fighting... Etc.,
Or you can't even have a phone conversation without her yelling or putting you on hold for random bullshyt.. Especially if they're young and multiple kids.
Plus BD might be around the corner ready to act like a bytch. I was on a date with one chick and we went to the movies and BD was there with her kid and a white bytch (
). Dude got mad and started arguing with her in the parking lot then gave her the kid and left. I ended up meeting the child and we became coolIt's not always bad of course but that's what I think it is. It's just more to it than a typical relationship where 2 people can focus on themselves and building their relationship first
BmoreGorilla
Veteran
Its nothing serious. Really only one I could see something serious with in the future but I aint ready for all that.
Just making sure me and my daughter are straight and things will work themselves out
Tropical Fantasy
Superstar
We only fukk single mothers juhearrrrrrd
MarloStanTrill
Banned
There are no lies being told here.
All y'all young brehs better heed these warnings.
If single moms see that you have a little bit of bread, they are eager to get pregnant with your seed more so than women who don't have kids.
I used to work with this chick who had a 1 year old, was dating this dude who had millionaire parents or so she said, even though the dude was kind of lazy, she got pregnant super quick after she snagged dude.
All y'all young brehs better heed these warnings.
If single moms see that you have a little bit of bread, they are eager to get pregnant with your seed more so than women who don't have kids.
I used to work with this chick who had a 1 year old, was dating this dude who had millionaire parents or so she said, even though the dude was kind of lazy, she got pregnant super quick after she snagged dude.
I tell people all the time...for a sane mind and sane life, NO SINGLE PARENTS EVER! 
I won't cuff em but I will *** em. 
In a perfect world people with children should only date other people with children. Let the rest of society who were sexually responsible (or lucky) create families out of planning, love and care instead. This dude sounds bitter and like one of my single homegirls who repeatedly dates ain't shyt dudes.
And single moms being damage goods is a misnomer. Seems like society rewards this type of behavior. Know of a person who was a mother 3x by different fathers and she found a childless, educated, home owning man who raised the kids as his since they were like 4 or 5. She also left him as soon as the youngest graduated highschool because she felt tied down and wanted to "do her" since she was a teen mom and she was still in her 30s and able to live life free. Feel sorry for the next woman who has to take on his bitterness and baggage from the years (time and money) he spent wasting with this chick.
And single moms being damage goods is a misnomer. Seems like society rewards this type of behavior. Know of a person who was a mother 3x by different fathers and she found a childless, educated, home owning man who raised the kids as his since they were like 4 or 5. She also left him as soon as the youngest graduated highschool because she felt tied down and wanted to "do her" since she was a teen mom and she was still in her 30s and able to live life free. Feel sorry for the next woman who has to take on his bitterness and baggage from the years (time and money) he spent wasting with this chick.
I've dated 3 single mothers in my younger life, and some of this is true 
The biggest thing is if the child is very young, the ideal situation is that she makes it work with the father of the child for the betterment of the child.
You have to realize that you are not the ideal situation
The last single mom I dated wanted a blended fam. The father was very much in the child's life but he had been in and out of jail for a decade. I was like "So Andre gonna be running down the court the court after making a shot and me and your ex are gonna be like "Good shot son!"
She was like "yeah why not?"
Having said all of that... I had no business dating so many single mothers if this was clearly an issue for me. I wasted their time
The biggest thing is if the child is very young, the ideal situation is that she makes it work with the father of the child for the betterment of the child.
You have to realize that you are not the ideal situation
The last single mom I dated wanted a blended fam. The father was very much in the child's life but he had been in and out of jail for a decade. I was like "So Andre gonna be running down the court the court after making a shot and me and your ex are gonna be like "Good shot son!"
She was like "yeah why not?"
Having said all of that... I had no business dating so many single mothers if this was clearly an issue for me. I wasted their time
