Another black man stating Men should always pay all the bills.

[Spade]

Yeah he simping. Nothing else to see here.

 

[Fillerguy]

Dammit, guess we got to listen to him.

 

[Umoja]

Breh's who feel backed into a corner by the whole "black men ain't shyt", "don't provide or protect" etc........end up like this, it's all a cry for acceptance and validation. They will talk all that provider talk and still get cheated and shytted on. Nothing wrong with being a provider if it comes from your own sense of duty but if it's to prove something to people who are determined to not be impressed by anything you do it is futile.

Nah.

That "us real bosses" is about shytting on other men so that they look good in comparison. Men like that sell lies and cheat.

 

[Jaguar93]

Black podcasts be recycling the same old topics

• 50/50
• Black men/women ain’t shyt
• Interracial dating
• What a Man/Woman should be doing in an relationship
• The table/the prize

 

[Jay Kast]

I pay all the bills but I wouldn't recommend it for other men, it's just how I choose to structure my relationships.

I have enough discernment to weed out the women who are users and only accept the women that are true givers in the sense that giving to/doing for others is what makes them deeply fulfilled.

These podcasters and influencers are masking their insecurities as alpha dog masculinity and projecting it onto their audiences.

 

[jadillac]

If you pay all bills and your woman don't do nothing (don't cook, dont clean etc) and only spends money, you're a complete simp and sucker.

But hey don't listen to me....blow all your money and don't save anything and when she leaves you with her bank acct phat and you broke, don't look sad

 

[MajesticLion]

 

[shopthatwrecks]

nikka tryin to talk his way into some p*ssy...never listen to a nikka who has a moveable hairline

 

[Kasper KArr]

I don’t got them problems. Quiet as kept, I’m rearranging @cheek100 mommas Toto every now and then and she pays for everything outta of her monthly check. Don’t got these problems

 

[The Guru]

Don't expect pre 70's gender standards from a man when it comes to money and expect a post 70's relationship for everything else.

 

[jadillac]

I dated a chick last year who is a medical doctor, i paid for some stuff and she (willingly) paid for some stuff. What's wrong with that?

These nikkas are just looking for clicks and sympathy chicks

 

[richaveli83]

I work with a lot of Indians(red dot), Filipina, and Vietnamese nurses and they don't be on this BS. The wife and husband both work and contribute to the household financially. I don't know why black people online still on this nonsense.

Spoiler

One star for posting podcast babble!

 

[O.T.I.S.]

How is it pandering?


At the end of the day if you living with a woman and you can’t hold down all of the finances, you either can’t afford to do it or she ain’t worth it so why be with her to begin with because you’re just using her.

Just because you can doesn’t mean you should.

Another thing these pandering ass nikkas and their defenders don’t tell women is that those type of men say shyt like this because they actually believe they can control a woman easier that way. Saw it with my older sister, seen it with a friend of mines now.

Idk, I’m not in a successful relationship so people can take it how they want. Imo, People should get it how they live and ride/die with the person they choose to be with through the good and bad.

My grandfather was a doctor and so was my grandmother. Both my grandmothers did not HAVE to work, but they did anyway to help us and the household accomplish more together. And they could stop whenever they needed to and felt.

And both of my grandfathers thought the world of them. They didn’t just sit on their ass all day watching soaps, doing nothing around the house, and still worked when they felt they wanted to (other grandparents were teachers).

And it’s harder to even do that now. I can.. a lot of other men can, but why limit yourself and your family by being lazy? A lazy chick is a red flag and most of these “I don’t want to work or pay for anything” chicks are just that.. selfish and/or lazy. What does she do to improve the household?

If thats what men want to wife up then cool. But they need to stop pandering to females by filling their heads up with false beliefs. I bet if you check that nikka page he selling something or scamming about something in some way.

Do whats best for your household with the person you want to die with

 

[AAKing23]

nikkas like this deserve to be dropkicked

 

[cyndaquil]

Wow what a bummer. He came into some money and tryna dirty mack everybody with these takes. If he was broke he'd be singing a different tune. All that is just bait tho he tryna catch some fish with his resources