Another black man stating Men should always pay all the bills.

[Commish]

Definitely pandering bs!

I'm NEVER EVER gonna pay ALL the bills ESPECIALLY for a woman who isn't my wife and/or is working full time!!!!!

I don't care if a man wanna do it. That's his $$ and his business!

But, all the "A man gotta this, that and a 3rd" 🗣 is OUT!!

Men..

There are some solid woman out there who would actuality give a darn about you. It may take time to find her, but she is out there.

Now, if you make a substantial amount of $$ and can afford to pay for everything and choose to do it, then cool.

But, if you are told what you gotta do as a condition of engagement, then that woman don't care about you and never will care about you!

I don't work hard and risk my life just to make someone else's life easier. Slavery as we know it ended well before we came out our mother's womb.

Y'all can do it, but couldn't be me! NOPE! *shrugs*

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Every time I see brehs talking like this, a big red flag flashes in my brain. I immediately think scammer. They have a get rich scheme or credit repair or crypto or classes that can make you rich.

 

[Heafcliffe]

That word "supposed" always rub me wrong.
Fukk on with all that.

 

[Cool Dr. Money]

Makes sense if they have kids but if not it’s just a status flex/lifestyle choice

 

[Whore D'oeuvres]

Once he said "us real bosses" I zoned out and stopped listening

 

[Breh13]

It's old school shyt but jobs, economy, and finances back in the 80, 90, 2000s are not the same.

A person can't work a regular job and build a whole family these days. It's no longer tenable unless you're earning serious money and not everyone is going to be earning serious money. Corps have also gone worse and worse and want wage slaves.

 

[Belize King]

Black podcasts be recycling the same old topics

• 50/50
• Black men/women ain’t shyt
• Interracial dating
• What a Man/Woman should be doing in an relationship
• The table/the prize

This tired, old, recycled shyt won’t be topics next year. Social media gives it and takes it away.

We need to be talking about unemployment, inflation, taxes and coming together to make change. Unfortunately that won’t get views.

 

[Piff Perkins]

Every time these convos come up they become a class signifier. These are not conversations that successful people have. Men who make six figures tend to date/marry women who make similar money. They combine income to juice their credit, buy a house, get tutors for the kids, and join a country club. That’s what the money is for: advancement.

Stop listening to frauds and clowns.

 

[Amo Husserl]

How these scenarios end in divorce court?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Exactly like I said

Note that they never say this in a room full of men. Only birds and bird facing platforms.

Great ass observation

 

[O.T.I.S.]

You making assumptions which is dangerous and ignorant.

The topic at hand is a forced 50/50 financial split. What you described with the grandparents was not forced.

You can’t knock men who chose to pay for everything. And you can’t assume the woman just sits at home all day or just spend.

Thats why I said to do what works for YOU AND YOUR HOUSEHOLD. Or did you not comprehend that part?


Talking about knocking shyt because I don’t look up to pandering ass nikkas like you seem to

 

[feelosofer]

It may be better to just disengage from this conversation it's just engagement bait and rage farming.

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

Women like that idea until you follow it up with also being the sole decision maker in the house. If I pay all the bills then I have final say on anything related to the house.

nikka

If I’m with a woman and she’s paying all the bills I understand the possibility she may bark on me, talk sideways to me or just have a day where she flat out resents me for no good reason..,and I’d have to eat that lol

Same thing with a boss
Same thing with your parents

Their way may not always be your way but it ends up being the way

Dogs & kids are the only ones that get free rides