Another black man stating Men should always pay all the bills.

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:scust: man these antiquated ideals are garbage this is 2025 not 1965... things have changed. economy is trash... we have to take care of ourselves. and IF your in a relationship you must freely combine both incomes just to survive these days BOTH partners must take care of each other. 1 person cannot do it alone!!! :birdman:
 

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Also, he definitely pandering only to black people with this shyt. Like the average HOUSEHOLD isn’t even making 6 figures here in the states. Thats with 2 people working.

Some cultures seem to recognize this. Panderers in ours don’t.

Thats an issue in itself, so why go around saying shyt like this if you know that? This is just a floss and selling dreams.

“I got my shyt together, look at what I’m wearing and how I talk. Women should want me or a man like me, and men should want to be me… if you wanna know how, subscribe to my 30 day course or buy my book and help me put more money in my pockets..”


Goofy shyt by goofy ass nikkas
 

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Just because you can doesn’t mean you should.

Another thing these pandering ass nikkas and their defenders don’t tell women is that those type of men say shyt like this because they actually believe they can control a woman easier that way. Saw it with my older sister, seen it with a friend of mines now.

Idk, I’m not in a successful relationship so people can take it how they want. Imo, People should get it how they live and ride/die with the person they choose to be with through the good and bad.

My grandfather was a doctor and so was my grandmother. Both my grandmothers did not HAVE to work, but they did anyway to help us and the household accomplish more together. And they could stop whenever they needed to and felt.

And both of my grandfathers thought the world of them. They didn’t just sit on their ass all day watching soaps, doing nothing around the house, and still worked when they felt they wanted to (other grandparents were teachers).

And it’s harder to even do that now. I can.. a lot of other men can, but why limit yourself and your family by being lazy? A lazy chick is a red flag and most of these “I don’t want to work or pay for anything” chicks are just that.. selfish and/or lazy. What does she do to improve the household?

If thats what men want to wife up then cool. But they need to stop pandering to females by filling their heads up with false beliefs. I bet if you check that nikka page he selling something or scamming about something in some way.

Do whats best for your household with the person you want to die with
You making assumptions which is dangerous and ignorant.

The topic at hand is a forced 50/50 financial split. What you described with the grandparents was not forced.

You can’t knock men who chose to pay for everything. And you can’t assume the woman just sits at home all day or just spend.
 

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I know im late, but this seems to be a trend amongst black men. :jbhmm:


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This is all I hear and see
 

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I would be ok until he said even if she made more. lol. If she was a stay at home mom ok
 

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All the bills?! :picard:

To each his own, but I think a man should cover the first few dates. As the couple becomes more serious, finances become more equitable...

But thats just how I move...
 
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