Facts. Actually my eyes got opened on situations like this to where I’m a lot less judgemental. Im happily married and I would like to believe me and my wife would still be able to co parent effectively if something ever happened. But a good friend of mine literally bought a house for his new family (been with his girl 14 years and they was married for 2 and baby was just born). Bro she just woke up one day and left with the baby.
Ain’t even grab nothing. Just went back to her moms in Florida. I ain’t the type to blame women and know it’s 2 sides to every story. But she wasn’t even answering the phone or talked to him until like after 2 months when he finally heard from her. Bro even went down to Florida to try to see the baby and she wouldn’t give address and he wasn’t trying to hurt her or anything. He not like that. Talked to him the other day and bro es just defeated. Like she not willing to co parent with him in a productive way. Bro said in the saddest way that he don’t even got the energy for court with her and just gotta accept his L and move on. Bro had a beautiful nursery and baby toys still in his house. He moving because it hurt too much. So now I get I’m kinda blessed to be with someone I co exist well with. Because I see now some of these women really use these kids as weapons and don’t be willing to co parent and a lot of dudes just cutting they losses because they don’t have no body willing to effectively co parent . So I don’t judge either unless they got a stand up woman and choosing not to be in the kid life. He was a easy lick for a atl thot and he see that now