Any brehs ever had a "Chasing Amy" situation

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First woman i really dated after 15 years. I learned quick that you could not judge a book by its covers.

She had a good career, 2 houses, smart and sweet.

She'd also probably smashed a good percent of the people in the small town she grew up in, not to mention brehs from NYC (like myself). Did every drug imaginable in her party days ( including crack parties in the burbs), and just generally lived a wild life in her younger years.

I cant fron't, i wasnt prepared for that. I sabotaged that relationship every chance I got because I didnt know how to handle it.
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First woman i really dated after 15 years. I learned quick that you could not judge a book by its covers.

She had a good career, 2 houses, smart and sweet.

She'd also probably smashed a good percent of the people in the small town she grew up in, not to mention brehs from NYC (like myself). Did every drug imaginable in her party days ( including crack parties in the burbs), and just generally lived a wild life in her younger years.

I cant fron't, i wasnt prepared for that. I sabotaged that relationship every chance I got because I didnt know how to handle it.
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I should probably point out the purpose of this thread is if the girl had a fukked up past, but in hindsight she was worth keeping.

If she didnt seem like wifey material (while yall were dating) then thats different.
 

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I've never felt this way, BUT I could understand if people did. I mean sometimes shyt happens. My first "Pawg" was this thick ass white girl, and she use to be fukking around and what not, but we ended up talking and she would do shyt like come from like an hr or 2 away to come pick me up just so we can hang I didn't even have a car, met her family, gave me money, came to the hood to watch us record music. if i needed anything, etc...and I'd get drunk and call her all types of shyt eventually she was like fukk you. I don't blame her that was a$$hole type shyt. She would talk until her phone died just to make me sure she wasn't talking to anyone else. She even stopped being my friend. on some real shyt i miss her.

That shyt hurts when you find out :mjcry:




Happened to me in high school with my first gf :mjcry:



Has you questioning your whole existence and shyt. Having mental pictures pop up:mjcry:

Worst part is that you already had your issues while yall were dating. Now that its done/over its worse because at least she was with you. Now there's no telling what she's done without you so the mentally hurdles could take its toll if you get her back. At least it was a "fresh start" with you at the time. :wow:
 
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