Any dude that says he is happy in a relationship a straight liar

Scustin Bieburr

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This is the reason for all relationships.
The fear of being alone and everything that comes with that
Nope.

Fear isn't what motivates me to remain friends with people I've known since childhood. It's the fact that we can joke with each other and discuss topics in a way where we both walk away feeling like we've gained something. Its the fact that we can have each other's backs and help each other when we need it. There's a mutual respect for each other's beliefs and how we choose to spend our time even if we have differences.

Not everyone is an extrovert, some people are completely content to not speak with anyone for 6-8 hours a day--some people in fact look forward to the fact that they can do something that doesn't involve people. The most miserable men in relationships are the men who actually are this kind of person, but have succumbed to social pressure and fear to pretend to be someone they aren't. They've put themselves in a situation where they don't get to have that 6-8 hours to themselves and are struggling to convince themselves that it's good actually and they want that. Go 3 days without talking to your girlfriend and see how she reacts to that.

Meanwhile I have friends that I don't hear from or reach out to for over a week but when I or they send a text we can chop it up for a few hours and then respectfully leave each other alone. Most women can't do that and most women can't be in a relationship with a man in that way. I say most because I've met exceptions to that.
 

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If you posted this more than once, I haven't seen it.

But you are 100% right.

I've been saying that men are playing checkers, women are playing chess.

Men are born suckas.
They do a bunch of shyt they really don't want to do just to have access to a woman and have consistent sex.
shyts sad
It really is
 

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Nope.

Fear isn't what motivates me to remain friends with people I've known since childhood. It's the fact that we can joke with each other and discuss topics in a way where we both walk away feeling like we've gained something. Its the fact that we can have each other's backs and help each other when we need it. There's a mutual respect for each other's beliefs and how we choose to spend our time even if we have differences.

Not everyone is an extrovert, some people are completely content to not speak with anyone for 6-8 hours a day--some people in fact look forward to the fact that they can do something that doesn't involve people. The most miserable men in relationships are the men who actually are this kind of person, but have succumbed to social pressure and fear to pretend to be someone they aren't. They've put themselves in a situation where they don't get to have that 6-8 hours to themselves and are struggling to convince themselves that it's good actually and they want that. Go 3 days without talking to your girlfriend and see how she reacts to that.

Meanwhile I have friends that I don't hear from or reach out to for over a week but when I or they send a text we can chop it up for a few hours and then respectfully leave each other alone. Most women can't do that and most women can't be in a relationship with a man in that way. I say most because I've met exceptions to that.
That's cool.
Since you don't need to talk or be with her everyday, That's even more reason not to have a girlfriend/wife bro.
This is the point. You're limiting yourself and putting yourself in a box for no reason.
And you're trusting that she is doing the same.
Both men and women are not monogamous, so there's no reason to do that.
You can care about each other...hang out sometime, Txt and talk sometime... Have sex
but you should be able to do that with other women too. Cause I know you want to and she wants to too
 

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Why do us men put up with the abuse of women? Women are the sole ones requiring for a man to be commited to them. That’s abusive, he should have as many women as he wants.
most dudes can't get one woman and a lot of dudes are only pinning for one woman off rip.
 
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