Any of y'all ever dealt with a stalker or persistent threats IN REAL LIFE?

[Bobby Lashleys eyebrows]

I did, she probably would lurk my post on here and make up some false shyt about me til I file a police report, if I said some shyt. She was mentally ill so hopefully she killed herself by now. She was the worse most disgusting pos I've ever met. I regret that shyt til this day.

 

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@BlackPearl The Empress @Booksnrain @HarlemHottie @GoldCoastSaint @Boujee Bonita Braxton

Do y'all or any one of your friends have a history with this type of stalker?

I have. It's the reason why I became a proud gun owner.
After undergrad I did a lot of traveling and lived mostly by myself with a huge network of friends. For about a decade, I wasn't in one location for more than 2 years. Never really had an issue anywhere overseas.

Then I settled and became a teacher. Moved into a nice little apartment neighborhood in the US. A lot of older couples at first. Stayed for a year and no issues. Around the second year, I woke up and noticed that the deadbolt of my apartment had been dented like somebody had tried to kick in my door.
I called the cops and filed a police report. They filed it as a human invasion attempt b/c it was done at night when they knew I was home.
Luckily I lived on a high floor with a narrow balcony and they couldn't get enough force to kick it all the way in without falling off.

I was shook for a long time and some friends would come and spend the night with me but eventually I got tired of living in fear.


The second incident happened when I came back from hanging out with my friend and my door was covered in white handprints like someone had dipped their hands in paint and hit my door multiple times.

At this point I'm just mad b/c I'm tired, working 12 hrs a day as a teacher and masters student. Can't sleep, nervous, anxious, depressed.

Woke up and tires were flat.

So a good male friend from out of town stayed with me until my lease ended for a month and I moved.

Bought a 12 gauge and a 9 mm and I practice at the range. Got a English mastiff/boxer mix and now I sleep fine.

The thing about me is fear has an extinction limit at a certain point for me. After a while I get tired of it and when I get to that point I don't give a damn anymore. Live or die I can't spend my life looking over my shoulder. Whatever the case may be, if you gon take me out it is what it is. But once I get to that point, I don't want to survive...I wanna kill too b/c I feel justified. So I take all precautions but I was A okay blowing a head open like a ripe pumpkin if it came to it.

It can go fromto real quick.

 

[Bushmaster]

Damn that's wild

Do you have any idea who it could've been? Maybe some angry neighbor who wanted you gone?

 

[Take It In Blood]

That Black Mirror tech where ur able to block out a person's who existence needs to drop asap

 

[Bushmaster]

That Black Mirror tech where ur able to block out a person's who existence needs to drop asap

That would be too dope

 

[Dr. Acula]

I have. It's the reason why I became a proud gun owner.
After undergrad I did a lot of traveling and lived mostly by myself with a huge network of friends. For about a decade, I wasn't in one location for more than 2 years. Never really had an issue anywhere overseas.

Then I settled and became a teacher. Moved into a nice little apartment neighborhood in the US. A lot of older couples at first. Stayed for a year and no issues. Around the second year, I woke up and noticed that the deadbolt of my apartment had been dented like somebody had tried to kick in my door.
I called the cops and filed a police report. They filed it as a human invasion attempt b/c it was done at night when they knew I was home.
Luckily I lived on a high floor with a narrow balcony and they couldn't get enough force to kick it all the way in without falling off.

I was shook for a long time and some friends would come and spend the night with me but eventually I got tired of living in fear.


The second incident happened when I came back from hanging out with my friend and my door was covered in white handprints like someone had dipped their hands in paint and hit my door multiple times.

At this point I'm just mad b/c I'm tired, working 12 hrs a day as a teacher and masters student. Can't sleep, nervous, anxious, depressed.

Woke up and tires were flat.

So a good male friend from out of town stayed with me until my lease ended for a month and I moved.

Bought a 12 gauge and a 9 mm and I practice at the range. Got a English mastiff/boxer mix and now I sleep fine.

The thing about me is fear has an extinction limit at a certain point for me. After a while I get tired of it and when I get to that point I don't give a damn anymore. Live or die I can't spend my life looking over my shoulder. Whatever the case may be, if you gon take me out it is what it is. But once I get to that point, I don't want to survive...I wanna kill too b/c I feel justified. So I take all precautions but I was A okay blowing a head open like a ripe pumpkin if it came to it.

It can go fromto real quick.

Dogs can't be underestimated as a deterrent. My dog before he died would be stirred by the slightest sound and are way more alert to their surroundings than human ever will be. They'll let you know something is up long before you realize it. Not even have to be an aggressive dog. The barking is enough to make crazy people looking to do harm think twice.

 

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Damn that's wild

Do you have any idea who it could've been? Maybe some angry neighbor who wanted you gone?

I think it was my neighbors. Everytime I left for work in the morning and every time i came home there were about 5 dudes hanging out on the stairs.

A couple of them would try me and I was never rude but sometimes it's a tough situation to navigate. If ur nice to some dudes they take that as encouragement. If ur a bytch then you become a target.
Either way b/c I wasn't trying to smoke weed with strangers around my building, I think they thought I considered myself better than them or that I was stuck up...
It could have also been this creepy foreign dude in my building who was always greeting me with a "A woman like you shouldn't be living alone."

Either way if they had any clue where my head was on a daily basis, they wouldn't have bothered. I was severely depressed those years ago. I remember sometimes getting home at 2:00am and just staring at the wall and not even going to sleep and just going back to school the next day.
LMAO it got to a point where I was too tired to even be afraid.

 

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Dogs can't be underestimated as a deterrent. My dog before he died would be stirred by the slightest sound and are way more alert to their surroundings than human ever will be. They'll let you know something is up long before you realize it. Not even have to be an aggressive dog. The barking is enough to make crazy people looking to do harm think twice.

This is so true

 

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Yes

It started because I gave one of my PSN friends my IG and Snap *He was older than me, I was 16 att, he was like 25+)
At first he would DM me saying im cute and can he take me on a date and at first I thought it was cute/funny, but after awhile I got tired of it bc he would message me everyday and I thought it was creepy bc he was too nice to me like he would always say how beautiful I was and how pretty I was and good morning/good nite .etc and hope I have a good day and how I should wait to meet the rite one' and weird shyt like tht.. but I told him to stop messaging me bc I was gettign creeped out and then he started getting mad and saying that he was gonna pull up to *insert my adress:emojisc::emojicry:* and that he was gonna get his chance to take me on a date regardless of me saying no.:emojisc:
I blocked him from IG and PSN, but then he messaged me on a new acc saying he knew what school I was at and what time I left and what bus I rode and he was saying that he was gonna take leave from his job just to see me:emojisc::emojicry:
I reported him to the local police/sherrif office with help from my older sister and mom and to PSN and deleted my IG/Snap accs, turned off PSN messaging and have since been very secretive with who has my SM:rihreally:
I'm thinking of making a second seperate one just for Discord/PSN/XBL friends because I cant deal with creepy ass weirdos anymore tbh and I was already going through some things at the time anyways

It made me very scared that he knew exactly where I live bc I really thought he was gonna kill me or kidnap me or sumn:mjcrygirl:like I stg I would either try to ride with friends or get on another friend bus and let my momma pick me up from they house