Any tips on how to deal with a lazy woman?

[JLova]

How do you marry a lazy woman ?

 

[CrimsonTider]

I'm pretty sure all this stuff was fact before you got married.

Why should she change who she has always been?

Why would you marry someone that you are not compatible with?

 

[MikelArteta]

Some actual tactics would be nice, not just the "throw her out" regimen y'all kick around. I'm married so I need other options, she don't clean, she gets a job for like 2 months and then quits cause she always looking for the right "one". She has talents but is too lazy to even use that....She wont cook like at all...well she tried and it was terrible so im cool with that, but at least learn to try. My pops said I should cut the cable off?

Maybe some lazy females on here can share their though process as to why they don't want to do anything at all for themselves? Or some fellas who have cured the lazy female?

Thank You.

if she doesn;t clean or cook then how does she eat? let me guess your the on whose cooking and cleaning

stop cleaning, and just cook enough food yourself, since she doesntw ork she won't want to live in a dirty ass house.

and yeah cut the cable off, cut her phone bill off, if she doesn't shape up file them papers.


let me guess she was like this befoire marriage but you thought you could change her eh?

 

[Ready,Willing,Humble]

Have you talked to her about it?

Yeah, of course, but she mad sensitive..like all women but times that by 20.
She gets defensive and starts talking about what I be doing wrong.

 

[Tom Foolery]

Yeah, of course, but she mad sensitive..like all women but times that by 20.
She gets defensive and starts talking about what I be doing wrong.

Hmmm. Does she have any family members that feel the same way you do? Perhaps you can approach her as a family to take the pressure of you.

 

[Erdos]

You've got to be positive about it. If she does something then compliment her "Oh this food is great".. "wow great job cleaning.. if she feels good about it then she'll do it more. If you just complain to her then she'll just get defensive and won't change anything.

 

[Ready,Willing,Humble]

How do you marry a lazy woman ?

I'm pretty sure all this stuff was fact before you got married.

Why should she change who she has always been?

Why would you marry someone that you are not compatible with?

if she doesn;t clean or cook then how does she eat? let me guess your the on whose cooking and cleaning

stop cleaning, and just cook enough food yourself, since she doesntw ork she won't want to live in a dirty ass house.

and yeah cut the cable off, cut her phone bill off, if she doesn't shape up file them papers.


let me guess she was like this befoire marriage but you thought you could change her eh?

Listen yall know the deal, ur at ur best when u tryin to impress, I was from a different state and we seen each other while we could... big mistake maybe? I had hurt myself and went on workers comp and didnt have enought to get our own place at the time so I moved in with her parents to get on our feet..another big mistake??

Her parents are great cooks so it never even struck me to check, I seen that was kind of lazy but I was young and deeply in love and I didnt care and it wasnt that bad too me

Yall have to understand I married her when i was 21 she was 22 ... way too young

She has had 10 jobs brehs since we been married...10

 

[Rawtid]

You had to know that hoe was lazy and a bad cook BEFORE marriage entered the picture.

 

[Gus Money]

Listen yall know the deal, ur at ur best when u tryin to impress, I was from a different state and we seen each other while we could... big mistake maybe? I had hurt myself and went on workers comp and didnt have enought to get our own place at the time so I moved in with her parents to get on our feet..another big mistake??

Her parents are great cooks so it never even struck me to check, I seen that was kind of lazy but I was young and deeply in love and I didnt care and it wasnt that bad too me

Yall have to understand I married her when i was 21 she was 22 ... way too young

She has had 10 jobs brehs since we been married...10

The bright side is you don't have kids. How long have you been married?

 

[Ready,Willing,Humble]

You had to know that hoe was lazy and a bad cook BEFORE marriage entered the picture.

When i met her she was on her grind taking mad classes at school, I hated college and always respected a muhhfukka who got their degree so to me that was good enough.

 

[Rawtid]

When i met her she was on her grind taking mad classes at school, I hated college and always respected a muhhfukka who got their degree so to me that was good enough.

Oh ok. Sorry for calling your wife a hoe. This may sound corny, but I think you two should go to counseling. Did you attend marriage counseling before you got married?

 

[West Coast Avenger]

you need to get out of that relationship bruh...especially if you are young....she already knows to bring up your faults to get out of the argument that you have with her regarding her lazy ass....she is manipulating you.....

 

[CrimsonTider]

This seems like a thread

 

[HoustonHeat]

Since we know she isnt working or doing chores, how does she spend most of her day? What are things she gets excited about or that motivate her? Also, does she have any resentment towards you?

 

[Ready,Willing,Humble]

The bright side is you don't have kids. How long have you been married?

lol 5 years