Ready,Willing,Humble
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why would I do that, we was young and in love, fukk a counselor, but maybe now its not a bad idea, I wish I was born in the 60's or 70's when black women knew how to act...their evolution has been wack
Any tips on how to deal with a lazy woman?
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why would I do that, we was young and in love, fukk a counselor, but maybe now its not a bad idea, I wish I was born in the 60's or 70's when black women knew how to act...their evolution has been wack
yep just dont
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Im looking for tips, I can get a fix for manipulation but its not that, IM trying to work it breh, Its not a divorce or stay together situation but its something I wanted to deal with
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like others said you are an enabler.....you need to put your foot down and have a good talk with her and dont let her off the hook when she tries to bring up your faults.....you need to explain to her that she is an adult and needs to act accordingly....also you and her are a team and all that shyt financially cant be on your back....she needs to pull her weight....if she storms off after that.....then good luck.....
It's a compromise man. If she's not being an adult and holding her own, There's not much you can do. Either you deal with it or push her by motivation to better herself. if not end it. Can't keep people around you that aren't progressing.
Counseling.
If she refuses to go, you at a dead end. I'm sure I don't have to spell out what that means.
ps. KEEP HER FAM OUT OF IT, THEY WILL NEVER SIDE WITH YOU. That's the worst suggestion I've read. wtf.
If she refuses to go, you at a dead end. I'm sure I don't have to spell out what that means.
ps. KEEP HER FAM OUT OF IT, THEY WILL NEVER SIDE WITH YOU. That's the worst suggestion I've read. wtf.
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Only advice I can give you is just go head and take that L breh. Get a divorce and move on with your life. She don't got kids by you and you're only 26. Worst comes to worst she'll get a couple dollars outta you, but you'll have your freedom and happiness.
And why the fukk would you marry a lazy broad? My gf has appendicitis right now, and she still cooking and cleaning
And why the fukk would you marry a lazy broad? My gf has appendicitis right now, and she still cooking and cleaning
Ready,Willing,Humble
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she dont get along wth them, they actually agree, so I get the "everybody is against me" angle,
I aint some soft azz niqqa but im laid back and aint with all that arguing sh1t, maybe we need to have an argument ...maybe i should com ein the house like "WHAAATTTTTTTT THEEEEEEE FUUUUUKKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!"
Only advice I can give you is just go head and take that L breh. Get a divorce and move on with your life. She don't got kids by you and you're only 26. Worst comes to worst she'll get a couple dollars outta you, but you'll have your freedom and happiness.
And why the fukk would you marry a lazy broad? My gf has appendicitis right now, and she still cooking and cleaning
You not letting her take a break in her condition?
I would stop cooking for her. No arguments. And the cable off too, if she watches a lot of TV. No explanations either.
Kenny West
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You are taking the first steps of either dropping that bytch or sharing that bytch.
Good luck
Good luck
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You not letting her take a break in her condition?
I would stop cooking for her. No arguments. And the cable off too, if she watches a lot of TV. No explanations either.
What do i look like cooking for her like some peasent breh..Lol niqqa i cant cook, thats another thing we eat out way too much, we do go the grocery store but we be buyin simple azz easy cook sh1t like frozen burritos and sh1t,
I havent had a proper home cooked meal since we left her parents'