Anybody else feel resentment towards their parents?

[wingzboy]

It's taboo to talk about it but damn, my parents ain't plan or nothing.

Everything I do I do without help which is fine but sucks some parents hooked their kids up.

The cold hard truth is if your parents didn't plan for you, you're pretty much fukked if you don't make it yourself.

I love my mom and dad but a lot of the shyt I'm going through now could've been avoided.




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[DrX]

our parents were indoctrinated themselves...so u can hate them too much...but ignore them tho....never take advice from your parents unless theyre successful...im at the point where i urposely do the opposite what my parents say, esp my mom....i love her but she live on mars....she have no idea what the real world is like

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

Whats the point of having a fukking family if you know you can't or won't do shyt for your kids? Ain't shyt cool about raising your kid in neighborhood where they can get bodied by a stray bullet at anytime, it's not cool to be unable to provide for your child without government assistance.

Spoiled? Entitled? People on this board be taking a real big game about "building a family" Y'all realize that the family doesn't end when all the kids are grown right? Fools want to talk about the this generation is that or that. But look at what the previous generation has done for us? People in this thread really talking down on giving their children tools to not just survive but to thrive. Apparently that's White people shyt.

You see me personally, I don't want to have children until I know I can do more than just the basics. Vacations, college funds, all that. If I have a family I want that Huxtable life.

 

[NoChillJones]

Once you get grown you should grow up. Life has no expectations. Dont put your failures on your parents. Once you get to be about 15 you are no longer ignorant to the world. You know what not to do and what to do. If your 30 and still blaming your parents for your own lack of growth then that is tell tale sign that it was you all along.....

 

[EndDomination]

Plus if you get good enough grades you won't need mom and dads help. Parents struggle to raise children, especially in this harsh world that hates us. I don't think it's right to be pointing the finger at them like its so easy. shyt happens in life. Like you said, if they taught you values and you grew well adjusted what more can you ask for? Not everybody can afford to have a will set up, properties, wealth for their children. Life is expensive as fukk these days. That's why you gotta hustle and not wait on nobody.

Or, don't have kids.
It's not hard to wait and save up until you can afford to set your child up for success as an adult.
If you can't afford to have a will set up, and to pass down something to your kids, you shouldn't have kids.
My dad set up small trusts for me and each of my brothers, bought us bonds, and started savings accounts for each of us when we were 5.
They made sure to check up on each of us through school, we got music lessons, good healthy meals everyday, etc.
That's the standard for a parent. If you can't do that you shouldn't have kids: point blank.

 

[Elle Driver]

Or, don't have kids.
It's not hard to wait and save up until you can afford to set your child up for success as an adult.
If you can't afford to have a will set up, and to pass down something to your kids, you shouldn't have kids.
My dad set up small trusts for me and each of my brothers, bought us bonds, and started savings accounts for each of us when we were 5.
They made sure to check up on each of us through school, we got music lessons, good healthy meals everyday, etc.
That's the standard for a parent. If you can't do that you shouldn't have kids: point blank.

But you also have to understand shyt happens.

 

[Kings County]

My cousin resents his mom cause she hasn't worked in over 20 years...I don't blame him

how do they make money then ?

 

[Ghost Utmost]

My moms was kinda silly the way she had two babies for the loser that was my father but I ain't mad.

I'm happy to exist.

She did what she could.

The rest is all me.

 

[womanareliars]

Your parents don't owe you anything. First of all they could've worn rubbers and you wouldn't even be alive. Second, they fed and clothed you and got you to manhood. Some initial financial help would've been great and it sucks that some get it and some don't but you're a man. Handle it.

 

[MF budz]

As long as they give you a house to sleep in, food to eat, and some clothes to wear then don't bytch. Acting like you need to be a damn trust fund baby.

What do you need a Benz and your tuition paid in full to love mom and pops?

 

[flea]

this sensitive fakkit doesnt let anything go

The daps I received shytting on this goofy wannabe down ass cac

 

[AlwaysLurkin]

how do they make money then ?

Welfare I guess...she's getting it cause she's depressed or some shyt.She even wanted 1 to quit his job cause she wasn't getting that much foodstamps.She has 1 under 18 but in about 3 years idk wtf shes gonna do.

 

[the cac mamba]

The daps I received shytting on this goofy wannabe down ass cac

zero

 

[Zero]

As long as they give you a house to sleep in, food to eat, and some clothes to wear then don't bytch. Acting like you need to be a damn trust fund baby.

What do you need a Benz and your tuition paid in full to love mom and pops?

It's some weak ass people on this site for real for real.

We supposed to be mad at our parents for not hooking us up with what they didn't have....we shouldn't have even been born if we couldn't have that silver spoon so to speak.

Some of yall really need to commit that...no one will miss you let you tell it

 

[flea]

zero

Take the cum out of your eyes and count again shyt head