Anybody ever let "The One" go?

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Is okay for her to get her back blown by a few guys while you go out on your playa phase or she should be on standby just waiting for you?
 

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I have..:mjcry: I have could rewind the hands of time
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Odds are you may never find a quality woman with those attributes like that again especially in this generation

However you could also meet a girl you love more.


Slippery slope though breh

But I always think if you have to contemplate whether to be with someone then you aren't meant to be together especially when all you can mention is that we've been together through so much stuff and your already a cheater


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Werent you in a situation like this?

Sorta. Nothing bad happened in our relationship, we just didnt mesh well enough. We dated for a year, I realized we didnt have a long term future, so I dumped her. Unfortunately, she was in love and convinced that I was her "the One" :yeshrug:

Was single for 3 weeks then my now wife hit me up on Facebook. :wow:
 

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Yea....we dated from 13-21 on and off. Always thought we'd miracously get back together :mjcry: We were still in each other's lives until about 25, that was when I cut off all contact. She was still trying to be in my life despite leaving me, marrying another dude and having his kid :dahell: We had the sort of thing where we couldn't be in a room alone with each other for long because our fake friendship would turn physical. But I guess it didn't mean much because she left me :mjcry: :yeshrug: I used to think no girl would ever compare to her and that Id always feel unsatisfied because no girl could live up to her then I met the one I'm with now and she made me feel things I haven't felt in a while :mjcry: She made me completely forget the first one. To the point that I feel nothing for Her. I just wanna do right this time. You really do only get 3 great loves in your life. I'm on number two.
 

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Time apart or counselling.

Time apart being single dating new people maybe you reconnect. Or maybe you don't and you both find people your more compatible with, or maybe you find out you made a big mistake and some next dide is like :jawalrus: thanks breh

Or you go to couples counselling and lay out every issue and try and work it out.

All I'm saying is the odds of finding s grounded chick no social media, loyal, loves you was with you through thick and thin chicks like these if your lucky you may only get once in your life.

Whatever decision you make, you have to think what do you want.

No man can serve two masters.

I've been on the other side of the coin a girl I loved and thought she was the one after vetting and learning from my firsg ex only to get played like a violin and it wasn't a nice feeling



She even told me she feels like I don't act like she's the perfect girl for me anymore.

I can honestly say she's also made me better. I can definitely say I am a better person having been with her these years. Its more than just the stuff we've been through.

But on the other hand, I don't want to sitting around contemplating if she's the one for me like you said.

I swear I never even thought of being with anyone else until I moved away. :mindblown:
 

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Is okay for her to get her back blown by a few guys while you go out on your playa phase or she should be on standby just waiting for you?
I wouldn't dare ask her to do that. If that's what she wants to do then so be it. Plus she has way too much self worth to do that. I'm not even saying I want to run through and smash a bunch of girls anyway.
 
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