Anybody on child support?

[L. Deezy]

I'm not a baby moma and my dad was there, and what you just posted is a bunch of bs. Both parents are equally responsible for food, clothing, and transportation. The mother or father shouldn't have to pay more just because of living arrangements. Wear condoms if you don't want to be responsible.

*shots fired*

 

[Kalik]

My expenses for MY child. (copied Rockstar Mom format)

Haircuts every 2 weeks - I pay
Doctors visits every other month with copay - I pay health Insurance, whoever takes the sick kid in pays the copay (depends who they are with at the time)
School supplies - We go half
Food(weekly) - We both pay for separate households, they eat wherever they stay
Insurance payments(monthly) - I pay
Shoes (as needed) - I Pay
Clothes (as needed) - I Pay
Medications for when/if he gets sick - See above Doctor
Camp this summer - She will pay for camp BECAUSE she doesnt want them with me for 2-3 weeks (it would lower her child support during the year)
Basketball weekend - I pay
My older sons cellphone - I pay
All tech gifts (tablets, phones, NEW video games) - I pay
He has a savings (in his drawer) - I funded
He has a college fund that my parents opened - My mom opened
And ON TOP of this I pay the $670 CS a month...
and next year I start funding my sons 529 plan

Love my sons... it's just money

 

[Numpsay]

I'm not a baby moma and my dad was there, and what you just posted is a bunch of bs. Both parents are equally responsible for food, clothing, and transportation. The mother or father shouldn't have to pay more just because of living arrangements. Wear condoms if you don't want to be responsible.

When I return my daughter home, she doesn't come home with receipts from when we ate out, made groceries, when I had to fill up my car, or clothes purchased while we shopped and shyt. I am responsible for those things, when she is in my custody. I don't return her seeking half of the money I spent. Outside of clothes, I shouldn't be responsible for her mother putting food in her mouth or having enough gas to get them where they need to go. The fukk is she an adult and mother for if she can't be held accountable for being responsible enough to provide for her daughter in that manner?

This pass you all want to giving single mothers is sickening.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

My expenses for MY child. (copied Rockstar Mom format)

Haircuts every 2 weeks - I pay
Doctors visits every other month with copay - I pay health Insurance, whoever takes the sick kid in pays the copay (depends who they are with at the time)
School supplies - We go half
Food(weekly) - We both pay for separate households, they eat wherever they stay
Insurance payments(monthly) - I pay
Shoes (as needed) - I Pay
Clothes (as needed) - I Pay
Medications for when/if he gets sick - See above Doctor
Camp this summer - She will pay for camp BECAUSE she doesnt want them with me for 2-3 weeks (it would lower her child support during the year)
Basketball weekend - I pay
My older sons cellphone - I pay
All tech gifts (tablets, phones, NEW video games) - I pay
He has a savings (in his drawer) - I funded
He has a college fund that my parents opened - My mom opened
And ON TOP of this I pay the $670 CS a month...
and next year I start funding my sons 529 plan

Love my sons... it's just money

Good Father. nikkas in here counting pennies when it comes to their kid.

No one is saying that the mother CANT afford it. Its just that BOTH are responsible.

I been on my own since 17. Taking care of my self. I have a great career, and a lil side hustle. If I wanted to, I can chuck up the dueces to my BD and say fukk u we don't need u. And my son will STILL be more then good.

But he's a father that takes care of his, so I don't have to do that.

 

[Wild self]

My sons father is 6'5. Unfortuately he's been blessed with his father height.

People don't believe he's only about to be 5. Every time u blink, this nikka grows

Non stop. Just in December, he was wearing a 10. Its February and my mans feet done jumped to a 13.

13 size foot!? At the age of 5?

 

[Rockstar Mom]

13 size foot!? At the age of 5?

Yup! Children are NOT cheap since they continuously grow.

 

[Rawtid]

13 size foot!? At the age of 5?

Children's 13.

 

[L. Deezy]

lol.. junior size 13 Wild..

 

[L. Deezy]

never fails.. every message board Im on

CS gets the heated debates..lol

 

[Chris.B]

I remember one of my ex's in college wanted to have a kid with me because I was the only clean cut guy she had dated. I almost slipped up coz I loved that b!tch but I held firm and to date it's still one of my proudest moments in life so far when I look back.

I can definitely see why some guys slip up.

 

[SouthernBelle]

When I return my daughter home, she doesn't come home with receipts from when we ate out, made groceries, when I had to fill up my car, or clothes purchased while we shopped and shyt. I am responsible for those things, when she is in my custody. I don't return her seeking half of the money I spent. Outside of clothes, I shouldn't be responsible for her mother putting food in her mouth or having enough gas to get them where they need to go. The fukk is she an adult and mother for if she can't be held accountable for being responsible enough to provide for her daughter in that manner?

This pass you all want to giving single mothers is sickening.

I ain't giving no one a pass. Do you guys have 50/50 custody? I also said neither parent should have to substantially contribute more...meaning I don't have a dog in this race ( you are the one trying to give passes because you are a baby daddy). Food is a basic necessity for you child. Both of you should be contributing to that cost. You act like we talking about $200 hair dos. That is so pathetic.

 

[SouthernBelle]

My expenses for MY child. (copied Rockstar Mom format)

Haircuts every 2 weeks - I pay
Doctors visits every other month with copay - I pay health Insurance, whoever takes the sick kid in pays the copay (depends who they are with at the time)
School supplies - We go half
Food(weekly) - We both pay for separate households, they eat wherever they stay
Insurance payments(monthly) - I pay
Shoes (as needed) - I Pay
Clothes (as needed) - I Pay
Medications for when/if he gets sick - See above Doctor
Camp this summer - She will pay for camp BECAUSE she doesnt want them with me for 2-3 weeks (it would lower her child support during the year)
Basketball weekend - I pay
My older sons cellphone - I pay
All tech gifts (tablets, phones, NEW video games) - I pay
He has a savings (in his drawer) - I funded
He has a college fund that my parents opened - My mom opened
And ON TOP of this I pay the $670 CS a month...
and next year I start funding my sons 529 plan

Love my sons... it's just money

You pay for just about everything. That summer camp thing is trife. Does she work?

 

[Mountain]

When I return my daughter home, she doesn't come home with receipts from when we ate out, made groceries, when I had to fill up my car, or clothes purchased while we shopped and shyt. I am responsible for those things, when she is in my custody. I don't return her seeking half of the money I spent. Outside of clothes, I shouldn't be responsible for her mother putting food in her mouth or having enough gas to get them where they need to go. The fukk is she an adult and mother for if she can't be held accountable for being responsible enough to provide for her daughter in that manner?

This pass you all want to giving single mothers is sickening.

Kenya's right breh. I don't know anything about child support protocol, but in my opinion both parents should be equally responsible for every expense concerning the welfare of their child.

The costs you've just outlined such as food, clothing, transport, schooling e.t.c. are essential to the child therefore should be split equally between parents, however, I do agree that expenses that have nothing to do with the childs welfare should not be shared.

 

[head shots101]

Those who end up on child support are the lowest men in society.

Ignorance got to love it

 

[Numpsay]

I ain't giving no one a pass. Do you guys have 50/50 custody? I also said neither parent should have to substantially contribute more...meaning I don't have a dog in this race ( you are the one trying to give passes because you are a baby daddy). Food is a basic necessity for you child. Both of you should be contributing to that cost. You act like we talking about $200 hair dos. That is so pathetic.

I'm not giving anyone a pass. Food is a basic necessity for anyone. It should be in the household regardless. There is a reason they have the terms custodial and non custodial. A custodial has rights the non custodial does not. But then at the same time everything is 50/50 right. Wrong. The custodial doesn't fork over anything even when the kid is in the custody of the non custodial no matter the time frame. I have my kid the whole summer. Do you think I seek out any type of support from her mother. Should she be responsible for half of the the expenses for our kid those months. The courts certainly don't, and neither does she. They don't even suspend the CS for those months.

And again I am not saying the money I contribute shouldn't go towards groceries but it should not be expected to be 50% of the grocery bill for the house either. Nor transportation. Those are basic things her mother should be able to cover on her own.

Its funny that people want to argue that everything should be split when it comes to the kid. But let us get on a custody battle and see if these same people preach the samething.