Anybody on child support?

[Lavish]

dudes having hands in there pockets all because they wanted to go raw

im sorry but if you on child support...alot of you dont take sh!t seriously.

one of my boys goes raw all the time...I asked him isnt he affraid...he says "no she's on the pill"

nevermind, herpes, and HIV and all other stds...his response was she's on the pill....nevermind that she may not even be on the pill

n!ggas are at the dumbest point when it comes to puzzy...

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Then take custody of that son. Marry the woman and take custody of HER ass, too. Take MORE responsibility so that the govt takes LESS .

Uncle Sam will not be check into your financials for tax purposes every april.

Now here's the tricky bit. Take the wife on a not-very-thoroughly-planned vacation to Istanbul...

AQ aint out?

 

[JoseLuisGotcha]

Got separated and was giving my ex $1,000 a month for my 2 sons under-the-table (but I was keeping records). After she lost her job the next year, she tried to get Govt assistance. Then the Govt got involved and said I had never paid her for 18 months. (Since we had split up)

*Lawyered up*

Provided my records, didn't have to pay the back child support the Govt wanted. She got denied assistance. Then we went to mediation, and got legally divorced, and I took the same offer Mac Pat got. I pay the boys health insurance ( Ive always had family insurance so nothing changed) and got my support reduced to $670 month, on paper legally.

So her fukkin up and tryna stay home, and live off me and the govt backfired on her ass. I pay ExpertPay, its something you can setup online. It comes right out of my account on my paydays.

I use the extra money that I had for my sons to keep em fresh. Haircuts, clothing etc... so she still doesn't spend the support on that shyt. BUT I have a regimen that she wont follow, and the boys gotta be maintained.
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Really don't mind paying, it's basically rent, utilities and food for my kids.




If you had your kids in marriage and not b*stards, when you divorce, the state does the child-support. You can't just do that bring pampers over and fukk your baby moms bullshyt.

but at your family breaking up if your the same kalik from sohh i remember you used to post pics of your kids and stuff shyt seemed gravy sad to see stuff like this and it makes me more hesitant to settle down

 

[Taadow]

*sets up equipment*



*doesn't even scratch, just lets it play*

 

[Kalik]

still an automatic L

:blindandcool:

but at your family breaking up if your the same kalik from sohh i remember you used to post pics of your kids and stuff shyt seemed gravy sad to see stuff like this and it makes me more hesitant to settle down

Yeah thats me... family oriented guy. I'm good man, met a better woman, and getting married again. Don't let a woman hold your life hostage. I don't plan to be that old nikka you see married 4 times and broke tho. Hopefully have a baby girl by my new chick, and make this family shyt work.

 

[MikeBrownsJob]

Most women on the onset will always give the tagline "I know you are a good dude and would take care of your kid. I wouldn't want to be one of those women if we broke up and put you on child support etc.."

Then you break up, and everything changes. I was giving mines money every month after we broke up, my people told me to keep records, but me thinking things were cool, I was being ignorant about it, we almost got back together and then broke up again(check the worst things you have said to a girl thread). 3 months later she filed child support.

She had a lawyer and the whole 9 and everything. I didn't think I needed one, but boy was that a mistake. She lied and claim I hadn't helped her with anything, they hit me with $3000 in back child support, and wanted me to pay $800 a month. This was all in the back room with a mediator. I could accept that or take my chances with the judge, I took my chances with the judge because the mediator was totally bias, amplified by salary at the time with "projected OT" and hit me as hard as she could.

Went in front of judge, at that moment I was steaming, because I was basically being railroaded. Judge was more sensible though. She kept the $3000 back child support because I had no proof I was paying but chopped down the monthly payment into half and required I provide the healthcare coverage.



All in all I would suggest filing on yourself if you and the baby moms aren't together. I was going to file on myself but she seemed cool on the money I was giving her so I didn't think it was necessary. I was ignorant back then I know better now.

I went through that so none of you would have to. Heed the advice brehs.


They can refile every 3 years, I keep thinking mine will because my salary is 3x's what I was making before. But whenever we come across each other I try to look as modest as possible, even borrowing someone elses car to go so she doesn't think I'm ballin when she sees mine. In the meantime she has had another kid and has another dude on CS. Guess it has become a hustle for her.

I ain't never read so much real shh on the-coli. If I had the money I would cover half for you breh.
@Kalik with the real shh too.

 

[Mr swag]

Its actually $485 and I was 22 making around 35k a year. I live in Texas.


Let me also mention they never asked her what her living conditions were, how much money she made, or if she even had a job. At that time she lived with her mother, and did not work. So if they were being fair, my living situation was a lot better than hers, and since my income was 100% of what was being used to take care of the child I felt I should have custody. They didn't want to hear that shyt from me though, and instead sided with her sad story.

Wow I just started a job making 45K.

Mine will be like 700

I'm not having kids

 

[Illuminatos]

Got separated and was giving my ex $1,000 a month for my 2 sons under-the-table (but I was keeping records). After she lost her job the next year, she tried to get Govt assistance. Then the Govt got involved and said I had never paid her for 18 months. (Since we had split up)

*Lawyered up*

Provided my records, didn't have to pay the back child support the Govt wanted. She got denied assistance. Then we went to mediation, and got legally divorced, and I took the same offer Mac Pat got. I pay the boys health insurance ( Ive always had family insurance so nothing changed) and got my support reduced to $670 month, on paper legally.

So her fukkin up and tryna stay home, and live off me and the govt backfired on her ass. I pay ExpertPay, its something you can setup online. It comes right out of my account on my paydays.

I use the extra money that I had for my sons to keep em fresh. Haircuts, clothing etc... so she still doesn't spend the support on that shyt. BUT I have a regimen that she wont follow, and the boys gotta be maintained.
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Really don't mind paying, it's basically rent, utilities and food for my kids.




If you had your kids in marriage and not b*stards, when you divorce, the state does the child-support. You can't just do that bring pampers over and fukk your baby moms bullshyt.

 

[Kalik]

Was doing $500 a son.... off the rip. That was a # I was comfortable with.

 

[twan83]

Tell me what you going through?

ya but i receive it

what im going thru is she not in their lives so no worries here

kids are happier with just me in their life cuz i take good care of them and give them all the love they need and then some

 

[Mr swag]

Got separated and was giving my ex $1,000 a month for my 2 sons under-the-table (but I was keeping records). After she lost her job the next year, she tried to get Govt assistance. Then the Govt got involved and said I had never paid her for 18 months. (Since we had split up)

*Lawyered up*

Provided my records, didn't have to pay the back child support the Govt wanted. She got denied assistance. Then we went to mediation, and got legally divorced, and I took the same offer Mac Pat got. I pay the boys health insurance ( Ive always had family insurance so nothing changed) and got my support reduced to $670 month, on paper legally.

So her fukkin up and tryna stay home, and live off me and the govt backfired on her ass. I pay ExpertPay, its something you can setup online. It comes right out of my account on my paydays.

I use the extra money that I had for my sons to keep em fresh. Haircuts, clothing etc... so she still doesn't spend the support on that shyt. BUT I have a regimen that she wont follow, and the boys gotta be maintained.
=====

Really don't mind paying, it's basically rent, utilities and food for my kids.




If you had your kids in marriage and not b*stards, when you divorce, the state does the child-support. You can't just do that bring pampers over and fukk your baby moms bullshyt.

How much u make a year and what state????

 

[Kalik]

How much u make a year and what state????

Florida... won't say my income. But I have a career + side shyt, that ex knows about.

 

[Mr swag]

Florida... won't say my income. But I have a career + side shyt, that ex knows about.

don't be scared man


I make 45K


I'm just tryin to get an idea of what I would pay

 

[Kalik]

don't be scared man
I make 45K
I'm just tryin to get an idea of what I would pay

About 50k on the books... What they do is a parenting guideline. Based on how many nights the kids sleep at your place. I get them every Tuesday and biweekly Friday evening to Mon mornning.

They then calculate, how many nights that is out the year. Deduct Health, Dental, insurances.. and then give you a dollar amount based on income.

 

[beenz]

Was doing $500 a son.... off the rip. That was a # I was comfortable with.

isnt' it better to have the offical child suppor thru the court? that way they take the bread out for the kids pre-tax?????

also, how does it come out ur check? does it show a deduction that reads "child support" like how my check has a deduction that says "blue cross ppo"?