Anybody on child support?

[Wild self]

Yo these are the type of arguments I don't understand from these single mothers. And I'm not trying to go in on you but help me to understand this.

Do you not understand what being the custodial parent and having custody entails. I mean you all want to complain that you have to pay daycare and pay for this, or that etc...but you have fukking custody, it comes with the territory. So what if your payments doesn't even cover daycare, its not supposed too. That is what your own income is far. Your kid has to go to daycare because of your own situation, not because of the fathers.

Whats wild is you don't hear single fathers fortunate enough to get custody of their kids complain about the day to day cost of having them. And the majority of fathers don't even seek assistance from the mothers. If I was to ever win custody I know I wouldn't.

Don't bother. Arrogance chick and the manginas hate when you are right.

 

[Rawtid]

Wrap it up or better yet procreate with a white woman if you don't want headaches in life

I feel the same way about procreating with black men.

 

[Banned Account12]

my cousin just came home, he did like 6 months for that shyt

nikka started snortin blown and err thing

 

[MikeBrownsJob]

my cousin just came home, he did like 6 months for that shyt

nikka started snortin blown and err thing

 

[Binary]

My mom and my dad worked it out. She had to pay at one point but they ended up throwing it in the bushes and whoever I lived with would pay for my expenses till 18 If you approach it in a negative way, shyt will go down. If you approach it in a positive way, you get a scenario like my parents.

 

[JBoy]

Thank God I don't have to worry about that shyt

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

Yes! so what if she does. Children have DAILY expenses and if they are with the mom full-time, she's handling all that. Day care is due WEEKLY, you think life is on hold waiting for your MONTHLY payment? If your kid is with the mother full-time, then the mother is fronting you every month so the money you pay is hers.

So how much money should the woman be paying for her own fukking child? None perhaps?

Go 'head girl!

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

Step dad was paying child support, legal system quick to harass him if he was even a minute late.

He eventually got custody, and was supposed to receive child support. Woman rarely paid legal system didn't do a thing about it.

That's when I knew not to ever end up in that situation.

My fav child support memory was pointing out how BS it was in my 20 woman, 4 men Womens Studies elective in college. They were heated

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

I know what I'm about to say may be a shock to you, but women don't get themselves pregnant. So if it weren't for BOTH of you, daycare wouldn't even be a discussion. So because BOTH of you are parents, as the father you are responsible for HALF of the financial, spiritual, and mental well-being of your child. Regardless of how you feel about the mother or if the mother has full-custody.

And again, sadly enough A LOT of men think like you and it's sad. And for as much as yall brag about bagging dimes or jut being upstanding "good" men, ya'll meet some of the worst women in the world to the point you really thing women splurge at the mall instead of take care of their children.

How the fukk can someone be responsible for half of the child's overall well being when other person has full custody.

What kind of rawtardid argument is this?

The only way both parties can truly be responsible for half is to raise a kid in a standard 2 parent home.

 

[Wild self]

Step dad was paying child support, legal system quick to harass him if he was even a minute late.

He eventually got custody, and was supposed to receive child support. Woman rarely paid legal system didn't do a thing about it.

That's when I knew not to ever end up in that situation.

My fav child support memory was pointing out how BS it was in my 20 woman, 4 men Womens Studies elective in college. They were heated

See? Their arrogance and stubbornness is unparalleled. Glad that marriage rates and birth rates among the educated people are going down. Men need to gather up and make a Men's Rights Movement and demand the end of unfair laws that damage the financial futures of men and destroying the family structure.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Those who end up on child support are the lowest men in society.

I pay child support. I fukken hate my son's mom. If you need money get a fukken better job.

I ain't gonna lie, only some scumbag ass nikka would even say some shyt like that about the woman who takes care of his son.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

Every guy on SOHH is a baller with game and great taste with the ability to pull upstanding women. We are Hardonhoes, but damn it, some how we always get them pregnant.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

You nikkas thinking is backwards as fukk. Too much tv and Internet shyt.

In real life both parents are offered equal custody unless one of them has a demonstrable issue that would prevent them from being a good parent. Dudes that don't get custody either didn't want custody or they didn't show up in court to fight for custody. If you get a woman pregnant and allow her to have custody of your child than that's your fault not anyone else's.

As for CS dudes who only pay child support are getting off easy no matter what the mother is using the money on. If your child is being taken care of and all you have to do is send a couple dollars every month than you are making out way better than guys who are actualy there for their kids. Raising a child takes damn there all your time energy and money, giving up a piece of your check every month is chump change compared to what it really takes to raise a child.

nikkas wanna raly against marriage, but they still wanna fukk hoes, yet when them hoes get pregnant you nikkas wanna complain about what happens with the kid. If you don't like child support either get a vasectomy or find a respectable woman start a family with her and take care of your own damn kids.

 

[Sharp]

Cats who don't have kids aren't really qualified to speak on this.

Let me explain the ugly truth

Once you have a kid with a woman, you are at her mercy.

Keeping a 2 parent household.... do you really think you have complete control over that?

What are you going to do if this woman one day decides that she doesn't want to be with you anymore and take the kids?

Do you really think you're gonna win custody of the kids? And yes, they will make you pay child support while you are in court for this.

And just because a father pays child support doesn't make him a dead beat or irresponsible. I could give this woman money all day long to take care of my kids, she can still go to court and ask for child support. This is what some of you fail to understand, and I know it's because you don't have children.

Courts don't care what you've done. If you don't have receipts, it didn't happen. Then some of you will say "That's cause you picked the wrong women"

Once again, you say this because you don't have kids. Women change once they have kids. This is well known to all of us who have kids, who went from the priority to "oh my baby comes first".

Once that women decides to leave, you are at her mercy. It's that simple... and you will be paying child support. You'll be kissing ass to make it work, and to avoid child support, which sadly is what most dudes do.

Of course, we would all like to have great relationships and raise our kids as a family. But if you and that woman split, you gotta think really hard about being able to handle supporting the kids without getting the courts involved. Will she never flip on you? Can you just take care of your kids without giving her money and will she be okay with it? Are you paying her straight cash? Are you keeping receipts? 9 out of 10 times, when the parents aren't together it never ends well, meaning that you'll probably be on child support... feeling betrayed that you held it down for your kids and still got screwed.

I just feel it's better to avoid all of that upfront. Yall could still have an understanding, but she can't legally hurt you because it's all settled. And as a man who really cares about his kids, you will have an innate desire to take care of your kids regardless.

I pay child support, and I still spend bread on my kid, and I spend way more than she gets for child support... but I don't have to give that money to her. She gets her measly $700 a month. She can't ask for anything else or hold anything over my head.

I'm more stressfree than those dudes walking on eggshells hoping she doesn't put them on papers or the dude unhappy at home, but afraid to leave because she'll put him on child support.

Not me.

I celebrate brehs

 

[MeachTheMonster]

See? Their arrogance and stubbornness is unparalleled. Glad that marriage rates and birth rates among the educated people are going down. Men need to gather up and make a Men's Rights Movement and demand the end of unfair laws that damage the financial futures of men and destroying the family structure.

What's so unfair about the laws?

What if you had custody of the kid and the mother was only expected to pay $280 a month and offer no other type of support. Would that be fair to you?