You know what's funny. I purposefully didn't go down the path of saying, "You shouldn't lie to women because we need to respect our women!" because brehs would just dead my shyt by saying I'm just simping.
Although, that's a part of me growing up a little, I do believe that...
that's actually not my overarching point.
A woman telling the truth about how many men she's slept with has no bearing on my point that the goal should be "less stress for my coli brethren."
Me proselytizing to women about the benefits of telling the truth about her past is not helpful for my point. (Funny thing, though, I'd imagine women may lie about their body count because immature nikkas may or have condemned her as a slut regardless of knowing the context.)
All I'm saying is being upfront about what you want can actually save you time and energy.
Think about it...you said "selling the dream" could mean saying we are going to dinner but taking a detour towards the house on some, "welp, since we're here."
nikka, how about being upfront and she's thinking the same thing as you and you didn't even have to waste the gas or fake planning to drive in the direction of the restaurant in the first place!
I'm spending a week's conversation talking about life, bullshyt, jokes and how I'm going to give her some grade A dikk and finding my way to her crib.
The other option is spending a week's conversation talking about forced shyt just to sweep her off her feet, fake looking up restaurants, and working on the best way to "welp" fall into the p*ssy after the detour.
The truth is like Geico with relationships. It'll save you 15% on the bullshyt you would have lied about.