Anyone else kinda meh about dating these days?

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Make up sex is the best freakiest nastiest sex you can have...
Sometimes wifey can be very difficult to deal with but im sure I can too...
But thats besides the point
The secret is to apologize and tell ya lady what she wanna hear when she mad plus you gotta savagely fukk her brains out after feeding her grilled salmon rice and avocados few shots of Henny
Grab her by the neck Tell her that you love her and all is welll....
Until she has another bi polor episode
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You hit the nail on the head ironically most women are in the middle of the road

I don’t think it’s ironic; that’s how most things are.
Two extreme poles, but a whole lot of room in the middle.

And really, the problem on this topic is just that - most people in the game are in the middle.

A few people are outchea with their chit together, actively worth being somebodies’ partner
and looking for that...and on the other hand there are a few people out here who ain’t chit,
ain’t trying to be chit, and are only outchea scavenging to use somebody.

But there is a large chasm in between those poles - and that’s where most of us are
because we change when our situations change.

This is where you get:

- “I’m ready and I found someone who isn’t ready, but I can wait until they’re ready”
- “I’m ready and I found someone who isn’t ready, so I’ll just fucc them while I look for someone ready”
- “I’m ready and I found someone who is ready, but (huge deal breaker)”
- “I hate dating, but that’s how you find someone and I’m ready to find someone”
- “I hate dating, but I’m bored and at least it’s something interesting to do”
- “I love dating just because I like to go out, I’m not really looking for anything”
- “I love dating just because I like to go out, I’m not really looking for anything - but I found someone I
like and I wanna keep them, but they aren’t ready”
- “I just wanna fucc”
- “I just wanna fucc, but I fucced someone who is ready and might be a great catch, so I’ll keep
them in case I become ready someday”
- “I’m not sure what I want, except I don’t want to be played”
- “I’m not sure what I want, except I don’t want to be lonely”
 

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I don’t think it’s ironic; that’s how most things are.
Two extreme poles, but a whole lot of room in the middle.

And really, the problem on this topic is just that - most people in the game are in the middle.

A few people are outchea with their chit together, actively worth being somebodies’ partner
and looking for that...and on the other hand there are a few people out here who ain’t chit,
ain’t trying to be chit, and are only outchea scavenging to use somebody.

But there is a large chasm in between those poles - and that’s where most of us are
because we change when our situations change.

This is where you get:

- “I’m ready and I found someone who isn’t ready, but I can wait until they’re ready”
- “I’m ready and I found someone who isn’t ready, so I’ll just fucc them while I look for someone ready”
- “I’m ready and I found someone who is ready, but (huge deal breaker)”
- “I hate dating, but that’s how you find someone and I’m ready to find someone”
- “I hate dating, but I’m bored and at least it’s something interesting to do”
- “I love dating just because I like to go out, I’m not really looking for anything”
- “I love dating just because I like to go out, I’m not really looking for anything - but I found someone I
like and I wanna keep them, but they aren’t ready”
- “I just wanna fucc”
- “I just wanna fucc, but I fucced someone who is ready and might be a great catch, so I’ll keep
them in case I become ready someday”
- “I’m not sure what I want, except I don’t want to be played”
- “I’m not sure what I want, except I don’t want to be lonely”

I gotcha OG most things can fall along normal bell curve distributions from stats, I say ironically because it's the women largely oblivious to the fact that they are probably "average". Every bytch think she at the least cute, meanwhile we got #uglygang all-stars on the coli
 

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I gotcha OG most things can fall along normal bell curve distributions from stats, I say ironically because it's the women largely oblivious to the fact that they are probably "average". Every bytch think she at the least cute, meanwhile we got #uglygang all-stars on the coli
Propaganda. There is money in women being propped up in the looks department. For men not so much because we aren't sought after for our anesthetics so much as our utility.
 

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I'm only looking for something physical, and my dating profile is worded to indicate that. I'm just looking for fun, and if a LTR comes out of that, then I'll see where it goes. But the whole dating scene, online and off, has me jaded. I just don't care. I'm not out of the game but my effort is not what it was when from 25-35.
 

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You tripping is still cute good women out here

The bolded is debatable and contingent on your definition, but I definitely see why when for generations have flat out groomed, or just dated younger. In my temp hospitality there's this 17 year old brehette who's always happy to see me but we usually don't work the same shifts. She's bubbly and likes being around me. She's cute and slightly religious though I know she'll ditch it once she starts college. I know groomers would wait till 18 swoop and fukk her senseless so they can imprint her to them/their ilk.

Propaganda. There is money in women being propped up in the looks department. For men not so much because we aren't sought after for our anesthetics so much as our utility.

Once you realize you're mostly a resource/utility to most women it's hard to desire them past sex, because most don't offer much if any non sexual value.
 
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