Anyone else kinda meh about dating these days?

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how many women ask you to put a condom on? :sas1:

had a breh ask me that...and I had a :ohhh: moment

Damn near none of them do...even the ones who are in a relationship w/ another breh
...and im not talking about hoodrats


I've only had one woman ask and that was ten minutes into it :mjlol:
 

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All of this.

I'm coming out of a LTR and still picking up the pieces emotionally, but I'm right back in the dating game.

All up on the apps and juggling a little 3 piece rotation right now, because that's all time affords between work and parenthood.

I'm confused how some of y'all sound as if you just gave up on dating, though. You can still build your success and date, don't need to be one or the other.

You hit the nail on the head ironically most women are in the middle of the road

I was coming in to say something like this, but you put it better than I would have

I have two FWB/NSA that I'm rotating, and that's enough for me right now

This is facts, but number 2 suiting me more at this point in time.

In fact anything other than those 2 is uncooperative and auto Bush.



Yeah I agree. The main thing with these "middle of the road" women is that they are the GOAT time wasters

- The girls who don't want to kiss until the 4th date? thats them
- The girls who have emotional walls up and it's all on you to break down those walls up? That's them
- The girls who are always "bored" and you gotta be a 24/7 stand up comedian to make them happy? That's them
- The girls who like make up sex more than normal sex? That's them


I remember years ago talking to this girl who was pretty as fukk, but she was a time waster. Deadass told me, "I like dates where I can wear my heels to a nice restaurant". At the same breath telling me she's a "good girl" and likes to take months before intimacy

:camby:
 

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Y’all need to broaden your horizons and start fukking with pawgs dating is a chore cuz y’all fukking with Black Women.
White bytches are the WOAT partners. Just because they put on that fake smile and that passive aggressive, fake “nice” personality, it fools you slew footed, soft shoeing c00ns every single time :mjlol: Dumb nikkas never learn…
 

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Yeah I agree. The main thing with these "middle of the road" women is that they are the GOAT time wasters

- The girls who don't want to kiss until the 4th date? thats them
- The girls who have emotional walls up and it's all on you to break down those walls up? That's them
- The girls who are always "bored" and you gotta be a 24/7 stand up comedian to make them happy? That's them
- The girls who like make up sex more than normal sex? That's them


I remember years ago talking to this girl who was pretty as fukk, but she was a time waster. Deadass told me, "I like dates where I can wear my heels to a nice restaurant". At the same breath telling me she's a "good girl" and likes to take months before intimacy

:camby:

 

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I took the advice of the OGs above me and just decided on getting myself right, and building up my empire. When I’m ready, I’ll get back in to try and find a wife.

Honestly, I’m more than likely going to try to work things out with my BM. She’s made some changes, and since I got a kid with her, I’m like I might need to make it work with her. As long as she keeps improving, I think i want her back. There was a reason I chose her to begin with. She was there from the start when we were both grinding it out as 21/22 year olds.

Why did you two separate?
 

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Never be thirsty and always be ready to walk away. Women are like sharks they can smell thirstiness and desperation. It seems like the more you want something the harder it is to get it. When you don’t want it and let it happen it comes easier.
To be more precise, "When you don't think about it and let it happen it comes easier.
 

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Left a bad relationship a few months ago and while it would be nice to enjoy my prime (freshly 28) I have too much going on personally right now to supplement dating/sex inherently being my void since day one.

I'm on the cusp of potentially raising my income and improving my quality of life but my hours will be unpredictable/unsociable and blue collar work doesn't offer the typical "moneymaking" uniform or prestige so that realm of life may look dark for a while.
 

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White bytches are the WOAT partners. Just because they put on that fake smile and that passive aggressive, fake “nice” personality, it fools you slew footed, soft shoeing c00ns every single time :mjlol: Dumb nikkas never learn…

Dont sleep on them. White women will show up to your house ass naked in a trench coat or bring food to you at 3am if you ask :manny:
 
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