Anyone else kinda meh about dating these days?

[Slic Ric]

Giving online dating a shot coincided with my breaking away from the lingering depression that has overshadowed my life for years now. It's feels like a switch has been flipped for me, because my social life has been incredible this summer.

Could you go into detail on this breh?

Facts. Unfortunately almost every girl is entertaining multiple dudes to some extent. Women dont want to seriously date anymore because they can get that red carpet treatment from every new dude. Instead of planning to try and build something real. Even 5-6s on IG got full dms.

This pretty much it,

Had a chick last summer I was actually thinking of dating and slowing down with, this summer cant even imagine being in that frame of mind to wanna "date" or fake get to know

 

[Uncle Trill]

Yall just fakkits gah damm

Great contribution to the discussion breh

Is there maybe a forum for young teens you can go to instead? adults are talking.

 

[Koli_Kat]

Bought one of these awhile back and called it a day on the dating circus .

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I'm not one to judge but the fact that you dropped rent money on a sex doll is

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

A lot of women don't really want to date.. they just want activity partners and to waste your money. They consume too much social media and aint worth wining and dining. And I don't date any chick who is entertaining multiple dudes.

is there much to be said after this

 

[Arcavian]

I just let it come to.me nowadays
I ain't forcing nothing ever again just cold approaching.

I pull them easily but It doesn't go where I want sometimes and it feel like such a waste of everything.

Use to give bytches 2 weeks but I pulled it back to a week cause I get in my feels when shyt don't work out


I be pulling bad lil hotties so it hurt to let go sometimes lmao.fukk yall

I pulled a bad one last week but she use to dudes simping over her and that aint me so i had to cut her off when the ex came back

 

[havoc]

I definatley have way less sex now than I did at 18



I got my own home and scared to fukk new nikkas on the bed me and my baby daddy used to share

Being a ho with morals is

 

[shutterguy]

I remember seeing these waaay back when I was in middle school, on HBO.

this shyt seem cumbersome AF. How is hitting this fun? Seems like it would be fukking a dead body.

I'm not one to judge but the fact that you dropped rent money on a sex doll is

All jokes, I don't have one, if I did there would be a thread on it in JBO. I have had companies inquire about photo work of dolls. Looking at the specs, most of those dolls are between 70-120lbs, whole different ballgame than your average fleshlight/pocket p*ssy, would most definitely be cumbersome compared to those. Some peeps are happy with beating off, some want sexdolls, busting a nut either way.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

I don’t really “date” anymore. Every relationship feels like a waste of your time when things end, and things eventually will end.

As much as I wish I could find the “perfect” women for me and start a family with her, that shyt is way easier said than done. Women are just too emotional and difficult to please. You can do a million things right in a relationship and they’ll focus on and leave you over one thing you did wrong. I just can’t do it anymore.

Best thing I ever did was befriend this thot and her stripper friend. I just text them every other weekend asking if they wanna chill, smoke and do whatever. I enjoy this situation a lot more than taking women out to dinner and pretending to be interested in their hobbies and career

I was dating someone recently. Had a bunch of great dates, sex was great. She was all over me. I made a joke about her being the hardest working lazy person I've ever met because she didn't set the automatic seat adjustment on her car but was complaining about her uncle not fixing her seat and I guess it triggered her insecurities and she bushed me. Literally the whole energy changed over night. She ghosted me. Can't even have a conversation with her.

I took time to plan out thoughtful dates and just like that it was over.

Had another girl I invested like 8 months in and things didn't work out. The investment of money, time, emotions, it's just becoming way too much and it's just an extreme letdown when it ends. I'm just kinda at the point where I'd rather fukk women with no attachment because relationships are way too difficult. I'm jaded honestly because I really liked both....honestly I loved the one girl who I spent 8 months talking to.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

I gave up trying to date a couple of years ago and haven’t looked back. I occasionally get the longing to try again, will get to talking to women at my job on a casual tip, hear their mindsets and what they’re currently putting their significant other through (while seeing NOTHING wrong with how they’re acting and taking ZERO accountability for their role in the turbulence in the relationship), and I’m quickly snapped back to the reality and reason I gave up dating to start with.

Before I say this, let me begin by saying. I do NOT hate women. No one has hurt me. I just came to a sudden realization and had an epiphany one day. Everything just became so clear to me. Women are a distraction and a drain on resources. Those resources to include money (the most obvious one and most talked about), time and peace of mind (the most important ones to me). They’re literally never satisfied. The more you give em, the more they want. Always manufacturing some shyt in their head to be upset or in crisis mode about. And I just eventually grew tired of that shyt. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze anymore. Women these days don’t wanna please and be a helpmate to a man like women’s past. These bytches wanna BE men. Smh. Y’all can have it. I turned in my player’s card. I had my fun. fukked and dealt with PLENTY of women in my youth and wouldn’t have ANY of those hoes back if they came gift wrapped and holding 10 stacks. I don’t miss ANY of them hoes. They were nothing but headaches and constant drama. I’m good. I choose solitude. I choose peace. I choose keeping my resources in the green instead of letting some nothing ass bytch with nothing but used p*ssy, bad energy and another nikkas b*stard kids drain me to the red….

 

[JQ Legend]

Getting to know people sucks, I wish I could just skip to the "know" part sometimes lol. Everything seems like a chore with dating tbh. I don't know what happened it used to be fun for me.

So basically what you saying is u had a spark when u started?

 

[JQ Legend]

Bought one of these awhile back and called it a day on the dating circus .

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You trolling but these joints starting to look realer

 

[FreedMind]

Could you go into detail on this breh?

I hate to meander, which I'll absolutely do when talking about something as personal as this, so I'll try to keep it short.

I was depressed for years, and I tried many things short of prescription medications to heal. No matter what I did, my confidence was utterly shot. I tried to fake confidence, or tried telling myself I would have a good day, but I felt helpless. Without my self confidence, my social life suffered greatly. I also didn't want to date because I felt I'd be an enormous burden that no one deserved (or would even want) to deal with.

It's been a painful few years. For whatever reason, I've started to come together as a person recently. My confidence finally feels like it's back, and I've been making a lot of friends who seem to actually value me. Plus, I'm also dating again, albeit I'm already falling back, or at least de-prioritizing it.

 

[King]

I stopped actively dating for about 3 or 4 years -- I only went out with 3 women during that period, and I quickly ended things/ made myself completely unavailable.

I only recently made myself my first online dating profile, and holy shyt is love a terrible emotion. I enjoyed dating again, but I've already deleted my profile and the app.

Giving online dating a shot coincided with my breaking away from the lingering depression that has overshadowed my life for years now. It's feels like a switch has been flipped for me, because my social life has been incredible this summer.

I'm sure I'm mostly benefitting from people in general being more receptive now that we don't have to stay inside every night (which looks to be coming to an end soon.)

This just inspired me to actually respond to my matches on online dating

I can’t really fukk with my current living situation but I could go on dates

 

[King]

I hate to meander, which I'll absolutely do when talking about something as personal as this, so I'll try to keep it short.

I was depressed for years, and I tried many things short of prescription medications to heal. No matter what I did, my confidence was utterly shot. I tried to fake confidence, or tried telling myself I would have a good day, but I felt helpless. Without my self confidence, my social life suffered greatly. I also didn't want to date because I felt I'd be an enormous burden that no one deserved (or would even want) to deal with.

It's been a painful few years. For whatever reason, I've started to come together as a person recently. My confidence finally feels like it's back, and I've been making a lot of friends who seem to actually value me. Plus, I'm also dating again, albeit I'm already falling back, or at least de-prioritizing it.

Damn this sounds exactly like me, still not over the confidence hump yet

 

[Bossino]

The busier I get the more I want 2 things

1. A legit wifey type

2. No strings attached p*ssy

Anything in the middle is a complete waste of time for me. If you're not the wifey mother of my kids type, or you don't want easy sex, its automatic bushes. Those "middle of the road" women are invisible to me. It's weird, but it's true

You hit the nail on the head ironically most women are in the middle of the road