I worked for Cablevision and Time Warner in NYC and honestly I would check all those housewives from Long Island and those bytchey white girls from brooklyn very quickly. They are the most entitled demographic I dealt with, they believe they are above the rules and policies when they are inconvenienced. After a while dealing with angry customers you learn to not take it personal and just do your job according to policy. I used to wake up with anxiety on certain days because I knew it was going to be war in the office. My advice, learn to get a thicker skin and not give a fukk about their feelings to a certain extent, let them know you are in control of the calll and if they want their problems fixed they have to listen to you. Always remain in control, do not let these angry people control you.
I still carry hate toward call center work from cable companies because people are just entirely nasty, I seen PLENTY of women cry while the phone was on mute because they are being abused by either a nasty old white woman or a white person in general. They judge you on your name and voice immediately and unfortunately many people cant mask their name and are unable to speak white enough.( think a hood brooklyn joint talking on the phone troubleshooting your tv LOL).
Anxiety every other day due to metrics and expectations of arguments with callers made me not want to speak on the phone after work. My final straw was when I clocked into work and for the whole 8 hours every single call was nasty and argumentative and at that moment I gave no fukks and didn't bend or give any credits or forward to supervisors and just stuck it to them hard. The level of stress and arguments you go through wasn't worth the money they were paying me, I would rather make less money than deal with that day in and day out. It is a common to have people collapse from the stress and EMTs have to come pick them up from the floor due to the stress and high blood pressure you will eventually get it.