he can control it though breh. His kid should be in the best of schools and in a safe neighborhood.
That's why I say the kid should live with him and not her. He can't control what she does with the money once it's paid off. He just have to hope and pray that she does what's right. I have a daughter that lives with me, and every blue moon on the weekend she will go with her mother. Every damn time Monday comes, I get a call telling me that my daughter didn't go to school today because of any one of these reasons
A. She didn't have time to get her hair done
B. I woke up too late
C. My car got a flat tire
D. I don't have any gas money
E. I was blocked and my bf couldn't find the key until after school started.
And yes, these are the bullshyt excuses I get from my baby momma.
So to alleviate all that, she lives with me. I work every weekend from 4pm-12am so she usually spends that time with my parents if my wife has to work. You can't control the enviroment that your child lives in unless you're there 24/7.