Approach A Chick On POF. She Said She Doesnt Date Her Race?

If You Dont Find Your Race Attractive......Is That Self Hate?

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We don't need careers. We need black people to get educated to come back and start businesses. Having our best and brightest go out and work for white organizations doesn't benefit us.
How does that go against anything I mentioned.......

There still needs to be more black doctors, scientists and engineers........

How many Brehs here really go to black doctors or even see medical personnel often in high ranking positions, there are some there but not enough......
 

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you can have preferences but the person who said that shyt is clearly self hating. absolutely refusing to consider a member of your own ethnic group as a mate is not the same as preference. clearly shes got some psychological issues.
 

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i agree but who's fault is it?

i hate to be an ol "if i can do it you can do it ass nikka" but why dont you and I hate ourselves? Truth be told I was made fun of for being a #midnightboy growing up more by African and Carribean friends than I was by white people. I grew up seeing the same shyt on TV / in the media that everybody else did, my brother seemed to like light skins > blacks and I have a vivid memory of calling him out on that bs when I was still in elementary school.

Why is it that I'm still arrogant when it comes to my appearance and wouldnt trade my darkskin for anything else. Too much pride for this kinda fukkery

Some people are just weak minded I think and susceptible to brainwash. Tends to be the same people I see all religious and shyt that have this sort of complex. Go figure.
Regarding bold whats wrong with "if I can do you can do it"? Esp when people are from similar environments. That's always been a problem to me because some dudes want to hold on to their crutches but don't have no ailments.

QUOTE="Serious, post: 10904896, member: 78"]First you need cats to actually matriculate through advanced higher learning....

How many brehs were in your advanced science and math classes.....

Remember all the of cats you see, will be a direct reflection of the future, because those are future doctors,scientist, engineers etc.....

shyt is a numbers game, there's needs to push away from sports and into academics, because the numbers just aren't there. Not everyone will go on to the professional level of sports, which is very cut throat within itself, but through hardwork, some one can essentially become an engineer or the like in a very rewarding career...[/QUOTE]We could use more doctors and the like but if you are talented enough no need to give up your dream though. I see that also when some people are just that deal.

Again, the keyword is if. If we can convince black people to start working together we have a shot. Personally there's not enough of us who have the goal if pushing the importance of black business ownership. Even within the group I work with there's still the idea that black people working among ourselves is somehow racist.

Until we somehow come up with a way to get rid of that Stockholm syndrome, we'll stay stuck in the condition that we're in. Personally I'm going to stick to my own personal goal. Start and grow my business, hire black men and women, donate money to causes that benefit the my people, and work on attaining political power.
Black people work together everyday so we already have that. Most don't have that goal but you so you show them how its done then pump it. You can't control nothing but what you do and show people through the work you do what can be possible. I don't know why people continue to speak on others when they themselves aren't an example of what they trying to push. Its just more credible that way period.

We don't need careers. We need black people to get educated to come back and start businesses. Having our best and brightest go out and work for white organizations doesn't benefit us.
We need all kinds of things because everybody can't be a boss with a business.
 

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What else is there to do? You can't force your beliefs onto someone. My point is to worry less about others and lead by your example.

to be real with you. you need to practice what you preach. because your telling dude to fall back because he cant change her mind right?

well then why dont you fall back because you not changing his mind either.

he's allowed to vent if he wants, just as much as that wench is allowed to wench.
 

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to be real with you. you need to practice what you preach. because your telling dude to fall back because he cant change her mind right?

well then why dont you fall back because you not changing his mind either.

he's allowed to vent if he wants, just as much as that wench is allowed to wench.
I'm also not calling him names or judging him for what he likes/doesn't like. Big difference. We just have differing opinions & he's stating why he feels the way he feels and I'm giving my point of view vs calling someone out of their name because you disagree with their choices.
 

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I'm also not calling him names or judging him for what he likes/doesn't like. Big difference. We just have differing opinions & he's stating why he feels the way he feels and I'm giving my point of view vs calling someone out of their name because you disagree with their choices.

Theres actually not much of a difference at all. Your main premise was that he can't change her mind so its a waste if time essentially by worrying about her choices.

Same applies to you mama, your wasting your time because this is how he feels and the name calling is how he chooses to handle the situation. Why concern yourself with his name calling when its not going to stop him from name calling. "Life is too short" for that right?

See how i did that. Your doing the exact same thing that hes doing and you dont even know it.

Why dont practice what you preach and stop trying to change how he chooses to handle this situation because life is too short and hes still going to behave the same way he has been.
 

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Theres actually not much of a difference at all. Your main premise was that he can't change her mind so its a waste if time essentially by worrying about her choices.

Same applies to you mama, your wasting your time because this is how he feels and the name calling is how he chooses to handle the situation. Why concern yourself with his name calling when its not going to stop him from name calling. "Life is too short" for that right?

See how i did that. Your doing the exact same thing that hes doing and you dont realize it.

Practice what you preach and stop trying to change how he chooses to handle this situation.
I'm not concerning myself. This is a forum site, so discussions happen on here. I didn't make a thread blasting someone for who they choose to date :manny:
 

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I rarely see other races say that.
They don't. Black men are particularly discriminated against in online dating. Tinder is useless for nikkas. POF and OKC as well unless you fukk whales.
 

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I'm not concerning myself. This is a forum site, so discussions happen on here. I didn't make a thread blasting someone for who they choose to date :manny:

Thats right this is a form site. And threads also get made for these "discussions" to take place. so how about you take your own advice and fall back because this is a forum people make threads and discuss what they want to discuss.
 

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Thats right this is a form site. And threads also get made for these "discussions" to take place. so how about you take your own advice and fall back because this is a forum people make threads and discuss what they want to discuss.
Fall back on what? I'm not telling people what they can talk about, dude. I'm just saying that I disagree with their approach. They are free to do what they want.
 

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We got black men saying no dark butts and we got black women saying no black men.

How our people have fallen....
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Fall back on what? I'm not telling people what they can talk about, dude. I'm just saying that I disagree with their approach. They are free to do what they want.

Ok. And hes not telling her who she can and cannot date hes just saying he disagrees with her approach to dating
 
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