Approaching woman at the gym?

[☃ ೋ]

Unless they spark up conversation with you first, dont.

 

[☃ ೋ]

Do it as she is leaving. I had a dude ask me out on my way to my car. I wasnt interested but he was considerate enough not to do it while I was doing my squats. He was polite too and its quite flattering to know he waited until it was more convenient.

What's the follow up story to this, y'all still going out?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Unless you catch eye contact more than once, dont approach them.

If you are always at the gym at the same time, and catch eye contact. You can introduce yourself.

Maybe this

Unless she comes up to me I normally don't do it.

But there are people that go there just to fukking socialize. If they in the weight/cardio area I don't usually see it but at the concession stands and areobics room (when no one is in there) I see it a lot.

 

[Marco Zen]

The same way I do anywhere else.

 

[Marco Zen]

Do it as she is leaving. I had a dude ask me out on my way to my car. I wasnt interested but he was considerate enough not to do it while I was doing my squats. He was polite too and its quite flattering to know he waited until it was more convenient.

Idk about that one

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I've been trying to figure out the best way to go about this?

No direct approach
Small talk

 

[8WON6]

Wait for them to approach you. Also, most good looking women I've seen at the gym that looked like they were there alone and single would have a boyfriend scoping her out from across the damn gym. The boyfriends pretty much get off () on the "she's with me" *arm over her shoulders* shyt.

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

If you are a gym head you will start to see the same people time and again.

Talk to everyone! Or at least acknowledge them. Head nods, daps whatever, even the fat women.

You see the girl you like do the same to her. She will be more comfortable knowing you are just a friendly person.

I usually waited until I saw them outside the gym, leaving or coming in.

If you are in Shape and nice looking that helps a lot too.

Beware that everyone in the gym that's a regular will find out y'all fukking. I don't know how it happens I guess it's body language but people know.

I had to switch gyms a couple times.

 

[Y2Dre]

Im not single no more
But when I was

My strategy was
Never go up to some new chick


Make sure you seen her atlest 2 weeks in that hoe..
Don't even say shyt to her till then
Don't even smile at her
Then when time pass
Step up
Introduce yaself
Make some jokes about the normal crazy people that are usuals there
(Like any weird or creepy dudes)
Tell her a story about some weird incident u had in the gym one time (if u don't have one make one up)
Then tell her how u was gone to approach her sooner
But u been seeing how lames in the gym always hounding women
And u didn't want to come off like them
Then get the digits
Text her like 5 days later
Then start the convos
Before u get a date

Overlooked post but this how you do it without coming off as a creep.

The Gym is a sacred place to make #gainz and improve your health, not the club.

You in the gym constantly shooting your shot--the shyt WILL catch up to you.

Then you the weirdo nikka at the gym.

 

[FSP]

I consider myself to be a part-time approacher, but I never approach at the gym. shyt is mad cringey but the hoes do be lookin like a snack

Actually there is an exception that is if she works there.

 

[EmpressKali]

What's the follow up story to this, y'all still going out?

"My name is such and such. Thank you I'm flattered but I have a boyfriend. Enjoy your workout. Peace"

 

[EmpressKali]

If you are a gym head you will start to see the same people time and again.

Talk to everyone! Or at least acknowledge them. Head nods, daps whatever, even the fat women.

You see the girl you like do the same to her. She will be more comfortable knowing you are just a friendly person.

I usually waited until I saw them outside the gym, leaving or coming in.

If you are in Shape and nice looking that helps a lot too.

Beware that everyone in the gym that's a regular will find out y'all fukking. I don't know how it happens I guess it's body language but people know.

I had to switch gyms a couple times.

Not when she is coming in. Even if I do exchange numbers with you I dont want to have to see you at the gym for the next couple hours. Id feel obligated to say hi and shyt and thats annoying. Do it as she is leaving.

 

[FSP]

Do it as she is leaving. I had a dude ask me out on my way to my car. I wasnt interested but he was considerate enough not to do it while I was doing my squats. He was polite too and its quite flattering to know he waited until it was more convenient.

You squat?

 

[EmpressKali]

You squat?

I used to but not that I am a member of planet fitness and they just have smith machine I cant do a proper one but I still use it to simulate a squat.

 

[FSP]

I used to but not that I am a member of planet fitness and they just have smith machine I cant do a proper one but I still use it to simulate a squat.

Why you be going to that gym for old folks? With a booty that squats