Approaching woman at the gym?

[EmpressKali]

Why you be going to that gym for old folks? With a booty that squats

Ehh its cheap close to my house and the equipment is good enough for my resistance level.

 

[Off the Onion]

Im not single no more
But when I was

My strategy was
Never go up to some new chick


Make sure you seen her atlest 2 weeks in that hoe..
Don't even say shyt to her till then
Don't even smile at her
Then when time pass
Step up
Introduce yaself
Make some jokes about the normal crazy people that are usuals there
(Like any weird or creepy dudes)
Tell her a story about some weird incident u had in the gym one time (if u don't have one make one up)
Then tell her how u was gone to approach her sooner
But u been seeing how lames in the gym always hounding women
And u didn't want to come off like them
Then get the digits
Text her like 5 days later
Then start the convos
Before u get a date

Very good advice! How did the date turn out for you?

 

[EmpressKali]

Very good advice! How did the date turn out for you?

Im a woman and I dont think that was good advice. Too calculating and long winded. Dont need to be.

 

[Off the Onion]

"My name is such and such. Thank you I'm flattered but I have a boyfriend. Enjoy your workout. Peace"

Do you actually have a boyfriend?

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

if you honestly don't have a real interest or question or concern, don't do it. and i'm talking about she just looks really good type of interest in her. when you're in a place where you're getting your body right, you should have your mind right; you don't need to bullshyt anything. to think about how to do it or what to say takes the intuition out of it (which would be natural) and turns it in a preloaded program (also known as bullshyt mode, to me)

 

[Off the Onion]

Im a woman and I dont think that was good advice. Too calculating and long winded. Dont need to be.

What should have he said?

 

[EmpressKali]

Do you actually have a boyfriend?

yes.not exactly hard to get

 

[EmpressKali]

What should have he said?

What a normal person would say or do. Its not brain surgery.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Im not single no more
But when I was

My strategy was
Never go up to some new chick


Make sure you seen her atlest 2 weeks in that hoe..
Don't even say shyt to her till then
Don't even smile at her
Then when time pass
Step up
Introduce yaself
Make some jokes about the normal crazy people that are usuals there
(Like any weird or creepy dudes)
Tell her a story about some weird incident u had in the gym one time (if u don't have one make one up)
Then tell her how u was gone to approach her sooner
But u been seeing how lames in the gym always hounding women
And u didn't want to come off like them
Then get the digits
Text her like 5 days later
Then start the convos
Before u get a date

what if you are that weird or creepy dude?

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

Do it as she is leaving. I had a dude ask me out on my way to my car. I wasnt interested but he was considerate enough not to do it while I was doing my squats. He was polite too and its quite flattering to know he waited until it was more convenient.

@Off the Onion Look at this, dont do it at all

 

[Off the Onion]

@Off the Onion Look at this, dont do it at all

?

 

[tater]

I don't talk to guys at the gym because I just want to workout and if things don't go well, I don't want things to be weird and I go there all the time. BUT! My cousin met his wife at the gym, so go for it. All she can say is no...

 

[philmonroe]

I've been trying to figure out the best way to go about this?

Dont do it because you're insecure and the shyt going to show period. If you wasn't insecure I'd tell you to just do it and if she says no Kim. Don't worry about the people that will say the junk about people coming there to workout only as if everybody just allllll about the workout. Common sense just isn't so common I see

 

[Black Magisterialness]

The gym is one place where trying to get on is simply a bad move...finish your sets and keep it moving, breh.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Approach women at the most socially unacceptable place to approach women, brehs.