Are Black Men Losing Hope?

[theflyest]

damn

I went ahead & just went to his youtube page & just looking at the titles of his videos. It's depressing as hell listening to this guy

 

[AntiVenom]

I'm totally comfortable admitting that we have shortcomings at Black men.

We've got to be more responsible. We've got to value education more. We've got to be fathers to the children we create. We've got to protect our women. The whole nine. Black men are out here saying the same things all the time. People like Farrakhan have been taking Black men to task for decades.

It's the Black woman who always wants to shift blame as if she's a child. Where is the Black woman's equivalent of Farrakhan taking Black women to task?

this post is the truth.

How? When? Where?

never.

There are pros and cons to everything. If African American women didn't have so many kids, blacks would be less than 12% of the population.

better to have a smaller cohesive and cooperating population than just a larger population any day.

 

[godkiller]

better to have a smaller cohesive and cooperating population than just a larger population any day.

I disagree. The Native Americans have a "small and cohesive" population. Oh wait, that population is so small and marginalized now they're practically extinct. The most powerful countries and peoples in the world also tend to have the largest populations. Notice that the American population is largest in the Americas. Notice that the Russian population is largest in Europe. Notice that the Chinese population is largest in Asia. The list goes on. If African Americans are even 1/3rd--33%--of the population, the entire society changes to accommodate that growth. That's why those professionals whom support eugenics always target minorities in their writings.

 

[AntiVenom]

I disagree. The Native Americans have a "small and cohesive" population. Oh wait, that population is so small and marginalized now they're practically extinct. The most powerful countries and peoples in the world also tend to have the largest populations. Notice that the American population is largest in the Americas. Notice that the Russian population is largest in Europe. Notice that the Chinese population is largest in Asia. The list goes on. If African Americans are even 1/3rd--33%--of the population, the entire society changes to accommodate that growth. That's why those professionals whom support eugenics always target minorities in their writings.

the natives were actively destroyed and have similiar cointelpro agencies that brought them done. not to mention natives arent really that cohesive man.

look at the jews. they probably have fewer numbers than the natives and are able to pull together to get shyt down. weve got the numbers now and it really doesnt mean shyt. i honestly believe in quality over quantity but we can agree to disagree.

 

[Youseenmywork]

No one wants to give their all to someone to have it thrown in their face. Both women and men are susceptible to that, that's why you have to vet people and know how to be in a relationship. While women may judge you according to what they need to have, men will judge you on what you look like. I can sympathize with someone provided that they can see that they can be marginalized and be the cause of someone else's marginalization. But many dudes here just want to talk about how women have wronged them and never want to acknowledge how they have wronged women or do so begrudgingly.

@Yup this is the coli( you have to take it with a grain of salt) ive talked many men in this lifetime that have let a good women go. In our society thoe dosent make women own up to anything because you dont have to. Its more women willing to play victim than to say IM JUST WRONG . Society is always willing to throw men under the bus. Then you combine that with men dont mind being average and living average lives ...they dont even try to be alpha males anymore ...which is sad .

Yup beauty will always be objectified. Men love beautiful women that will never change. Honestly its what we see first it that outter shell. Even when GOD created adam adam MARVELLED at all the things and this world GOD created ...cause it was sooo beautiful. Now you meet plenty of women that are beautiful and dont have a personality ...cause they havent found other wonderful things to add to themselves. Its beautiful to watch a women try to make herself more intresting outside of having a vagina and trying to develop a personality. Im not 24/25 im older so what i find beautiful now i probaly wouldnt have at 24. To me personally women marginalize to take power away from men. Thats why honestly you not suppose to talk about game in front of women cause when you do it makes sound like your bitter, hateful, dont get women , etc. You get marginalized EVEN when you know what you talking about . for instances i can say ...

"When a girl find out you dont wanna fukk her she starts telling you all her hoe activity ...lol. why is that"

@Yup women just wont you to internalize game that dont wont you to speake on it ...i could be wrong thoe.

or i could say " affection dosent equate to attraction, penetration dosent equate to commitment...but what do i know"

 

[HoloGraphic]

I've been watching a lot of philosophy stuff online about stuff like this, Elliott Husle and RSD Tyler. They talk about masculinity as a spiritual term, being grounded in the present moment and your body, life is about cultivating and controlling your energy and then turning that out into the world.

This guy definitely needs to check this stuff out

 

[godkiller]

the natives were actively destroyed and have similiar cointelpro agencies that brought them done. not to mention they arent really that cohesive man.

And any group that voluntarily lowers its own population does their enemy's work for them. Cointelpro agencies didn't destroy the Natives. Colonialism did.

look at the jews. they probably have fewer numbers than the natives and are able to pull together to get shyt down. weve got the numbers now and it really doesnt mean shyt. i honestly believe in quality over quantity but we can agree to disagree.

Jews are not a race They're more like a religion. Now they have Israel, breed like rabbits there and are ethnically cleansing Palestine to accomodate more Jews. In earnest, they believe in numbers too. That's what they're working towards, as all dominant groups have historically done and all wise ones achieve.

 

[AntiVenom]

And any group that voluntarily lowers its own population does their enemy's work for them. Cointelpro agencies didn't destroy the Natives. Colonialism did.



Jews are not a race They're more like a religion. Now they have Israel, breed like rabbits there and are ethnically cleansing Palestine to accomodate more Jews. In earnest, they believe in numbers too. That's what they're working towards, as all dominant groups have historically done and all wise ones achieve.

alright man. like i said we'll have to agree to disagree.

 

[Mr. Manhattan]

seems like most Coli members are

 

[mamba]

Shahrazad Ali and Julia Hare are probably the only two Black women who hold Black woman accountable, consistently.

 

[AntiVenom]

Shahrazad Ali and Julia Hare are probably the only two Black women who hold Black woman accountable, consistently.

diamonds in the rough.

 

[Yup]

@Yup this is the coli( you have to take it with a grain of salt) ive talked many men in this lifetime that have let a good women go. In our society thoe dosent make women own up to anything because you dont have to. Its more women willing to play victim than to say IM JUST WRONG . Society is always willing to throw men under the bus. Then you combine that with men dont mind being average and living average lives ...they dont even try to be alpha males anymore ...which is sad .

Yup beauty will always be objectified. Men love beautiful women that will never change. Honestly its what we see first it that outter shell. Even when GOD created adam adam MARVELLED at all the things and this world GOD created ...cause it was sooo beautiful. Now you meet plenty of women that are beautiful and dont have a personality ...cause they havent found other wonderful things to add to themselves. Its beautiful to watch a women try to make herself more intresting outside of having a vagina and trying to develop a personality. Im not 24/25 im older so what i find beautiful now i probaly wouldnt have at 24. To me personally women marginalize to take power away from men. Thats why honestly you not suppose to talk about game in front of women cause when you do it makes sound like your bitter, hateful, dont get women , etc. You get marginalized EVEN when you know what you talking about . for instances i can say ...

"When a girl find out you dont wanna fukk her she starts telling you all her hoe activity ...lol. why is that"

@Yup women just wont you to internalize game that dont wont you to speake on it ...i could be wrong thoe.

or i could say " affection dosent equate to attraction, penetration dosent equate to commitment...but what do i know"

What are you basing yourself on when you say that women are nit held accountable?

 

[mamba]

What are you basing yourself on when you say that women are nit held accountable?

When are women held accountable on par with men in this society? We see it play out all the time, especially when it comes to relationships.

Women cheats on boyfriend or husband--people rationalize it, saying "maybe her needs weren't getting met, her man wasn't puttin it down in the bedroom, he takes her for granted, etc." Man cheats on girlfriend or wife--"he's the scum of the earth, I hope she takes him to the cleaners, be betrayed his family, etc."

 

[Youseenmywork]

When are women held accountable on par with men in this society? We see it play out all the time, especially when it comes to relationships.

Women cheats on boyfriend or husband--people rationalize it, saying "maybe her needs weren't getting met, her man wasn't puttin it down in the bedroom, he takes her for granted, etc." Man cheats on girlfriend or wife--"he's the scum of the earth, I hope she takes him to the cleaners, be betrayed his family, etc."

I could go in deeper but you get the
just of what i was going yo say ...

 

[Rocket Scientist]

i agree women dont bring happiness...but having a good woman by your side that gets you and is supportive helps with the lows.

Exactly not all women are bad.This is what I,Reincar,Kevm preach in That gem thread.Unfortunately in 2014 bad seems to outweigh good.