Are Black Men Losing Hope?

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I know plenty of black men that don't have records of any sort.

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sigh my fukking god. its nuts that we have to deal with this anti black male propaganda on our own fukking site.

where the fukk are the mods when this bullshyt is being said? these people need to be banned. anywhere else and that would be the case.
 

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sigh my fukking god. its nuts that we have to deal with this anti black male propaganda on our own fukking site.

where the fukk are the mods when this bullshyt is being said? these people need to be banned. anywhere else and that would be the case.

There are a lot of cacs, LSA trolls and non-Black men on the Coli. They always want to be a part of the conversations Black men are having.
 

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There are a lot of cacs, LSA trolls and non-Black men on the Coli. They always want to be a part of the conversations Black men are having.

nah man its not that they want to be a part of it. they want to throw wrenches and attack us. thats the only reason they would come to a forum like this and try to spread propaganda and lies about black people.

this is why we need to shut them down each time because if we dont theyll take over one of the few spaces that we actually have to talk openly.
 

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nah man its not that they want to be a part of it. they want to throw wrenches and attack us. thats the only reason they would come to a forum like this and try to spread propaganda and lies about black people.

this is why we need to shut them down each time because if we dont theyll take over one of the few spaces that we actually have to talk openly.

Yeah. That was the implication, breh. They aren't trying to join the conversations to be productive. It's all about undermining Black men when we meet up. That's been happening forever. Cacs, non-Blacks and wenches never change.
 

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What are you basing yourself on when you say that women are nit held accountable?

Everyday evidence and
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Tyrone and Treyvathian get "welcome home" parties, get taken on shopping sprees and have "welcome home" p*ssy waiting for them when they are freed. nikkas hookin' him up with a car, a spot to live, etc. Thomas comes out of college with $5K debt, nikkas ain't going to chip in to help help pay off that small loan so he can move on with his life.
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Bruh...

That happened to me coming out of college.

Didn't have loan debt (athlete scholarship), but the second my senior year ended...

0 jobs lined up
Broke up with my girl (translation: got dumped cuz I wasn't playing ball at the time and I low key simped:snoop:)

nothing but the clothes on my back and a cell phone that barely worked.

Friends I knew were too busy getting fukked up or having kids, so I couldn't couch crash...

Had to go back and live with moms for a year.

Applied to over 200 jobs in 2 months (in Los Angeles; where the job market sucks ass)... either wasn't qualified due to no experience or lack of "qualifications."
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Nothing.

A guy in his mid-20s living in his mom's place with no job or car?
So no females. :mjcry:

Never felt so shytty in my life.

Then my brother put me in contact with an agent, got me to Romania... and like the breh earlier said, traveling clears your mind of a lot of nonsense.

Been trying to be on my traveling shyt since.
 

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I think we as a collective are losing hope. The average Black man has few positive images to affirm himself too. The media shows him either as an untamable demon, a menace or a dikkless pupprt powerless to stop even the most basic of assaults. We are the last to get jobs, the first to get fired. There are new age movements like that target Black men in general, and there is an assault on Black masculinity. Music is no longer about substance, but it's about fulfilling a fantasy of a never ending party that few could ever achieve. Few Black men have fathers to come to for guidance. When a man says that he feels depressed or something less than positive, he is asked to 'suck it up' 'man up' 'stop being a puzzy' it is swept under the rug. There is a stigma on getting counseling in the Black community and really a stigma on mental issues in general. I hope dude can get some help but let's not act like he is alone in feeling this way, we just express it in different ways.

Breh, no disrespect;

We survived The Middle Passage, American Slavery, Jim Crow & the Crack Era.

We're doin' pretty good, comparatively. It's bad, for us. But, it's a farce that's it's the worst it's been.

I'm surprised we have all this info. and brehs, on thecoli, talk like this is the worst time, of all time, to be black in America.

We still have ways to go, but, give a breh his history and see what we've been through and achieved, then, tell him "This ain't nuthin'."
 

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Bruh...

That happened to me coming out of college.

Didn't have loan debt (athlete scholarship), but the second my senior year ended...

0 jobs lined up
Broke up with my girl (translation: got dumped cuz I wasn't playing ball at the time and I low key simped:snoop:)

nothing but the clothes on my back and a cell phone that barely worked.

Friends I knew were too busy getting fukked up or having kids, so I couldn't couch crash...

Had to go back and live with moms for a year.

Applied to over 200 jobs in 2 months (in Los Angeles; where the job market sucks ass)... either wasn't qualified due to no experience or lack of "qualifications."
:mjpls:
Nothing.

A guy in his mid-20s living in his mom's place with no job or car?
So no females. :mjcry:

Never felt so shytty in my life.

Then my brother put me in contact with an agent, got me to Romania... and like the breh earlier said, traveling clears your mind of a lot of nonsense.

Been trying to be on my traveling shyt since.

How was Romania?
 

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Depression is very real and that on top of stress can cause you to feel like shyt, lethargic and unmotivated. Sometimes u feel so bad that you end up doin sumthing that when you look in the mirror ur disappointed in yourself and full of regret. However admitting your faults and being optimistic of your future and staying positive can combat these issues, along with support from loved ones.
 
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