Regardless of our different perspectives, I don't hate any of the brehs/brehettes who disagree with me. I also hope I'm never mistaken as trying to "convert" or convince people.
Nothing more fulfilling than discussing shyt, and respecting each other's opinions and knowing the goal isn't to prove wrong.
If we are able to go back and forth w/o turning it into "Well, fukk YOU!", respect x 1,000,000
Regardless of our different perspectives, I don't hate any of the brehs/brehettes who disagree with me. I also hope I'm never mistaken as trying to "convert" or convince people.
Nothing more fulfilling than discussing shyt, and respecting each other's opinions and knowing the goal isn't to prove wrong.
If we are able to go back and forth w/o turning it into "Well, fukk YOU!", respect x 1,000,000
Regardless of our different perspectives, I don't hate any of the brehs/brehettes who disagree with me. I also hope I'm never mistaken as trying to "convert" or convince people.
Nothing more fulfilling than discussing shyt, and respecting each other's opinions and knowing the goal isn't to prove wrong.
If we are able to go back and forth w/o turning it into "Well, fukk YOU!", respect x 1,000,000
There's levels. Y'all fake woke nikkas get offended everytime a white person says nigggggger, some people legit don't give a shyt. People call names who gives a fucck? Lil Wayne getting his money.
Then you fake woke niggggas talking bout yall selling your values for wealth okay and? Just because ya boss doesn't openly call you a niggggger doesn't mean he don't think you shiit.
Then you want reperations from the same evil no good people. What happened to your value system? Oh but thats diffrent right?
Bottom line is you woke nigggas is goofy as fucck and have no clue what you want.
My G you’re making yourself look stupid. How is Rocky the situation a wakeup call? Not no religious wake up call or some janky friends wake up call but ASAP Rocky How is that a wakeup call? What does his previous comments have to do with him in jail in Sweden. Damn this shouldn’t be this hard to understand smh
I knew if I even thought to somehow address any one particular person, it would devolve into...honestly, a reply like yours.
I was being dead ass. Debate/dialogue is a fukking drug to me. Considering many of my perspectives are DEFINITELY not the Coli consensus, I'm rarely called a c00n or other type of shyt because I think the people I engage with get a sense of respect in our dialogue.
Passive aggressive? Not at all. Want to know why you can tell I was genuine in that post?
I looked at @Nicole0416 replying "I understand, I appreciate you explaining that to me." And I sent her rep. And then I thought about other people wandering into the thread, seeing some ignorant and hostile back and forths and then seeing me and her exchange and thinking that same energy like, "He showed her!"
NAH. I know damn well I didn't WIN against her or have her think like me. I know she is still very strong in her view and she is just saying she understands what I was presenting and not necessarily agreeing. Same way where in many of her explanations, I absolutely understood what she means yet I don't always agree.
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Second proof?
The day most Coli nikkas respond to my posts like the way you did, that's probably the last day I'm on the fukking Coli. As stated, debate is a drug for me and part of that "fix" is being able to maintain respect throughout that debate. If that's not happening, I'm not being fulfilled. That post that you thought was passive aggressive? Nah nikka, that was me future proofing my ability to discuss shyt with nikkas without them thinking, "Oh, that's that nikka DPres, condescending ass nikka, fukk his thought, let me troll!"
I'll give you the last reply on this if you want it.
That’s ok if they don’t because truth is nobody changing their minds anyway. Me saying it in some better dialogue won’t change that. I rather just be who I am and hopefully everybody else does the same. Some going to like me some going to dislike me either way we will all be fine. It’s just a messageboard.
I appreciate your post too my man but real stuff how would better dialogue in your opinion really help when all of our minds are basically made up? Again respect for your post.
"It's not about race. Black folks need to stop complaining about racism and work harder."
Weeks later gets fired from job due to devils conspiring.
"Those guys should've just complied. If you pull your pants up and don't dress like a gangbanger the cops won't bother you."
Gets racially profiled and pulled over by cops the next week.
If they admit they were wrong and are willing to change their views people can be saved. A lot of people adopt the negative tropes about black people due to a lack of knowledge. Everyone didn't have "woke" parents or good teachers so "boot-strapping" and respectability politics can seem like the solution to black problems.
People are what they are..
We are the same as we have always been. You are still the same person as when you were 8 years old, just that adult responsibilities and time have come in, but you are still that same kid you once were.
No need to violate - bc I take that as an offense as if women can't be rational in these types of discussions or have the inability to do so. Which clearly, I'm not doing, and neither is he. You're taking that a little bit too far. He's not a poster that gets down like that. You can disagree with him without resorting to insults, especially if he's coming from the right place and trying to be diplomatic.
Person A is born and raised in a household that severely lacks intellectual growth.
That household suffers from that lack of an environment of cultivation because of the dysfunctional and racist institutions' damage on the community that houses the family of Person A.
Years of abuse, isolation and the degradation of that community bring about a new "normal".
This new normal that Person A is raised in is influenced by the racial bias exhibited by the
teachers
(who have ethically and immorally low expectations for Person A and his/her peers),
law enforcement agents (who patrol the community with a suspicious eye and treat person A and his/her peers like they are uncivilized and violent hoodlums from birth) and
politicians (who praise harsh police policy and family destroying prison sentences)
Person A's new normal has culminated in Person A being tragically indoctrinated with self hating viewpoints.
Society has made every attempt intentionally/unintentionally to show person A that people who look like person A are ignorant, dangerous and destined for low status/hierarchy.
Person A's behavior is unsurprisingly colored by YEARS of self hating views.
^ See THIS is where almost all of us agree. Unfortunately, this is the crossroad between 1) those who use the above mentioned trajectory to understand how Person A developed self hating behavior and opinions as a result of MANY overwhelming variables outside of Person A's control and 2) those who seem to completely disregard how uncontrollable variables can influence a human being from birth and decide that somehow Person A has DECIDED to be a "c00n" and DECIDED to be an ignorant "agent" of white supremacist agendas.
My opinion is that those who are able to effortlessly throw the word "c00n" at almost anything another black person does/says/thinks that is not as hard-lined as the self-appointed arbiter of "the right way to be black" is contributing to the splintering of the black base just as much as anyone else they are judging.
The C-word shouldn't be used by a Black person against another Black person with rare exceptions.....
It shouldn't be used just because a Black person is in a relationship with a non-Black person. To me, that utter bullshyt and disrespectful!
Also, just because a Black person has a Black significant other doesn't mean he or she is exempt from being a C-word, the way said word is currently being used and defined.
As far as someone possessing self hatred, how does someone know how someone else feel about him/herself? Did the person who is labled the C-word know what the C-word means? Does said person confess or profess to be such a word?
It is possible for anyone to be self hating, regardless of who they are, who they are with or without..It isn't right nor fair to automatically assign that word to a specific individual based on their lifestyle or life choices, but exempt everyone else from said word just because their lifestyle or life choices may be more agreeable..
We know that "race" is a social construct. Who constructed it? So, if one agrees on the racial construct, then they also agree with the constructor meaning they think the same way and we all know constructed and practices said construct..
If whoever has an issue with someone based on lifestyle choices or possessing a different opinion, then it is best to simply not deal with that person! To disrespect someone without provocation, yet command respect from that same person is hypocritical!
I can't force anyone not to use that word, but I personally don't believe in calling someone that disgusting word, especially because of who they are with or having a different opinion than myself...
It's all good! I never inferred that you do use it. Tbh, you can use it if you want along with anyone else. I don't use it because I don't agree on how it has been redefined and currently being used.
EDIT:
I've posted this many times before. I'm very proud of this article I made and it hits the same question mentioned here.
Before all of the brehs that are SO CONCRETE that anyone who has a different or softer perspective than them are c00ns, please reconsider how damaging that type of divisive perspective is.
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