Are men really ment to be tied down to one female ?

[Originalgangsta317]

I don't believe anybody was made to just be with one person

 

[mortuus est]

OP do you mind if we just turn this to a post random bytches thread. this shyt is about to flop breh

lol i dont mind breh, happy with the posts

 

[Malta]

All of those are social concepts we've placed ourselves. Look how people act. just like animals. Territorial. Always trying to attract a mate. Fight for that attention. Will kill. Easily.
Explain to me how having one mate is natural. The whole purpose for being on earth is to reproduce. The male as much as possible and the female a limited number since she has a limited number of eggs and has to carry a baby in her womb.

There are animals that mate for life though

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

Monogamy is unnatural for both men and women. But it was seen as beneficial in raising kids and advancing civilization so that's why humans do it

Not true Monogamy is not unnatural. other species do it.

However humans can be both monogamous and polygamous.

 

[PortCityProphet]

We've invented and enshrined social concepts, networks, and institutions because we are social beings as a constitution of our biology, and being social is literally the lifeblood of our existence. Most animal and insect species exist autonomously, and dont have meaningful contact with others. Could you imagine never talking or kicking it with another human being for the rest of your life? You'd go mad.

And we dont kill easily...out of 300+ million people there are roughly 10k homicides per year, and that comes with a lot of human-to-human contact, and when people die we have ceremonies, and often the people who are left behind are never the same. We think and feel too deeply.

Our consciousness and the human mind is almost beyond our comprehension because its so complex. So to answer your question. Yes, monogamy is natural, and yes not being monogamous is natural, because our mind sets our personal interest and what is natural and preferable to our own individual self, mentally, spiritually, biologically as humans. We're not controlled by a primitive instinct.

Ask yourself, is reproducing your whole purpose? Is that what you wake up with as a day-to-day goal? Not just having sex (and even with that you make a mental distinction between who is pleasurable to bang and who isnt), but having a baby? Cmon, son. Im trying to keep this convo practical rather than existential, but the complexity of the human mind is the answer, and we are not "animals".

Its friday night, time to get liqued.

What do you think is the purpose of being on earth? Just because the brain is complex doesn't mean we aren't animals. And other animals are social as fukk. Herds, colonies, prides etc

 

[Doobie Doo]

Fela's Queens/Wives

http://globalfusionproductions.com/...sunla-nigerian-photographer-felas-inside-man/

Fela died from AIDS that was the end of his chapter/
And that's the dude you wanna name your post after

 

[Scientific Playa]

Fela died from AIDS that was the end of his chapter/
And that's the dude you wanna name your post after

the point of my post is that some men live the way they want

Did Wilt Chamberlain Really Sleep With 20,000 Women?

Fela may still have been alive today with the breakthroughs in medical science.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

dont take this the wrong way

but i think us men are just designed differently

a lot of men do not create relationships if they have sex with another woman, a lot of men can also be in a relationship to their main lover but also have sex with 10 females in a week and not feel a thing for them and still go back to their lover

now ofcourse theirs females that can do this too, but the number of men that can do this and do really do this is alot morre

i feel like most men just generally like to conquest

on my way home i see so many females that i would have sex with but being in a relationship with someone i know is my other half, i dont take part in the game

i dont think we are hypocrites but we are just designed with diffrent moral laws

im not the most articulate person here but i hope someone knows what im saying and can go into greater detail.

i dont want to cheat on my lady, this is just something that hit my thoughts hard this evening

There is something not right about it. I think men and women could have multiple sex partners but for men to indulge in your every sexual whim seems like it can be a natural and biological disaster
I really can put my finger on it but a man having A LOT of sexual partners seems unnatural, now hear me out...

If you think purely biological and human survival.
So you attempting to fukk everything and in sight is going to backfire. Look at venereal diseases they've been around forever and can be a natural "equalizer".

Humans are tend to be strongest in groups. A small Family unit, clan, tribe or what ever you want to call it stronger than a one male human. If you think you can just run up and fukk a female within that group, mostly like the males are going to challenge you and you will most likely loose. So that is another limitation.

If we were out in the wild. A lone male attempting to go from group to group trying to spread his seed would not last that long.

 

[Music Fiend]

I think we are meant to be tied to one person seriously. I know the animal concept and get it, but we arent conditioned today to go out into the world on our own and deal with life.

If animals could be diagnosed, I'm 100% sure a lot of them have mental issues so to speak. I think we all need company as well as companionship with people we know deeply. Being an animal, I dont think we can truly trust our own perceptions of the world so we need other people, preferably another woman to have that vulnerability with.

I dont think that means you can only have sex with one person. I dont mind a chick whos sexually free if she owns what she does and has no reason for doing it besides she likes sex and likes men. But the stark majority of women sleeping around have other motives. Whether its to catch a baller nikka, or lack of seelf-esteem or basically looking for love or attention from anyone who will give it.

 

[Hijo de luna]

If monagamy was natural we wouldn't be so turrrble at it

 

[StickStickly]

dont take this the wrong way

but i think us men are just designed differently

a lot of men do not create relationships if they have sex with another woman, a lot of men can also be in a relationship to their main lover but also have sex with 10 females in a week and not feel a thing for them and still go back to their lover

now ofcourse theirs females that can do this too, but the number of men that can do this and do really do this is alot morre

i feel like most men just generally like to conquest

on my way home i see so many females that i would have sex with but being in a relationship with someone i know is my other half, i dont take part in the game

i dont think we are hypocrites but we are just designed with diffrent moral laws

im not the most articulate person here but i hope someone knows what im saying and can go into greater detail.

i dont want to cheat on my lady, this is just something that hit my thoughts hard this evening

But being attracted to those ten woman and wanting to have sex with each one is different than actually having sex with them. People confuse desire with necessity.

 

[KingMalik]

Monogamy isn't natural for men. It's natural for women.

In order for this family stuff to work, Women have to trick convince some man to be a father and work to take care of her. That can't happen if everybody is having sex with everybody. Because nobody is gonna stick around to raise a kid that could be anyone's b*stard, and nobody wants to take care of a woman that 1,000 men done had already.

For what it's worth, polygamy isn't completely natural for men either. The top 1% of men would get all the puzzy, and the other men would be SOL (of course, it's not that much different now).

 

[StickStickly]

Monogamy isn't natural for men. It's natural for women.

In order for this family stuff to work, Women have to trick convince some man to be a father and work to take care of her. That can't happen if everybody is having sex with everybody. Because nobody is gonna stick around to raise a kid that could be anyone's b*stard, and nobody wants to take care of a woman that 1,000 men done had already.

For what it's worth, polygamy isn't completely natural for men either. The top 1% of men would get all the puzzy, and the other men would be SOL (of course, it's not that much different now).

If monogamy is natural for women, why do so many married women have affairs? Women crave sex, not as much as men, but they still feel it and want it. Monogamy works for families and kids especially in societies where kids need many resources to succeed, but it may not necessarily work for the individual desires or needs, man or woman.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

There are animals that mate for life though

Idiots. All of them.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Monogamy isn't natural for men. It's natural for women.

It's absolutely not natural for women. The desire to stray is just triggered differently for women. It can be mental or some shyt rather than being physical. I don't know if there's a male equivalent to a fat ass. We all know that shyt drives us wild but I don't know of any physical feature that does the same for women.