If monogamy is natural for women, why do so many married women have affairs? Women crave sex, not as much as men, but they still feel it and want it. Monogamy works for families and kids especially in societies where kids need many resources to succeed, but it may not necessarily work for the individual desires or needs, man or woman.
This.Of course not.
But then, women aren't really meant to be tied down either.
Humans != naturally monogamous.
Two-way road, breh.


but fukk it do what you wanna as long as you keep your health and well being a priorityYou can raise kids without a nuclear family unit. It's not essential for society. You're referring to marriage here, not monogamy. Marriage is a social contract to bring two families' resources together for survival or wealth. Overtime marriage has evolved into involving love or whatever, but the point is base desires: sex and intimacy, you can get that from multiple people. Men want sex, women want Intimacy. I think this can be achieved with two people or three. Society has brainwashed women into thinking they are the clingier sex and are the drivers of monogamy. A century from now that won't even be so because the rules are changing. Pretty soon you'll get that society you desire because women will accept we aren't monogamous either.Again, monogamy is for women. You're not men. You can go fukk as many men as you want but, when you get pregnant, you look stupid because you have no one to father your child and no husband to take care of you. This is not a problem for us. Its a problem for you. Men abandon their children everyday. That's what marriage was created for, to force (or shame) men into sticking around once funtime was over.
No. We're animals 1st and foremost. Marriage and one partner is a social concept not a biological one. And when you create social concepts that go against your natural instincts you create a problem.
You can raise kids without a nuclear family unit. It's not essential for society. You're referring to marriage here, not monogamy. Marriage is a social contract to bring two families' resources together for survival or wealth. Overtime marriage has evolved into involving love or whatever, but the point is base desires: sex and intimacy, you can get that from multiple people. Men want sex, women want Intimacy. I think this can be achieved with two people or three. Society has brainwashed women into thinking they are the clingier sex and are the drivers of monogamy. A century from now that won't even be so because the rules are changing. Pretty soon you'll get that society you desire because women will accept we aren't monogamous either.
Like an earlier poster said, yeah maybe women don't want to go out and just fukk for fukking sake. They want an experience. This doesn't always involve years and years with the same man, where passion drops after a few years. Just accept that. I think it would tear so many of yalls worldview apart if you were to accept the fact that women aren't naturally monogamous either.
Also women didn't create or force marriage. Your patriarchal society created by men and enforced by men for several millennia made it this way. Don't blame us. We've been second fiddle to the rules for a long time. We didn't create them. We just play by the rules made by you.
You can raise kids without a nuclear family unit.
Again, monogamy is for women. You're not men. You can go fukk as many men as you want but, when you get pregnant, you look stupid because you have no one to father your child and no husband to take care of you. This is not a problem for us. Its a problem for you. Men abandon their children everyday. That's what marriage was created for, to force (or shame) men into sticking around once funtime was over.
You can raise kids without a nuclear family unit. It's not essential for society. You're referring to marriage here, not monogamy. Marriage is a social contract to bring two families' resources together for survival or wealth. Overtime marriage has evolved into involving love or whatever, but the point is base desires: sex and intimacy, you can get that from multiple people. Men want sex, women want Intimacy. I think this can be achieved with two people or three. Society has brainwashed women into thinking they are the clingier sex and are the drivers of monogamy. A century from now that won't even be so because the rules are changing. Pretty soon you'll get that society you desire because women will accept we aren't monogamous either.
Like an earlier poster said, yeah maybe women don't want to go out and just fukk for fukking sake. They want an experience. This doesn't always involve years and years with the same man, where passion drops after a few years. Just accept that. I think it would tear so many of yalls worldview apart if you were to accept the fact that women aren't naturally monogamous either.
Also women didn't create or force marriage. Your patriarchal society created by men and enforced by men for several millennia made it this way. Don't blame us. We've been second fiddle to the rules for a long time. We didn't create them. We just play by the rules made by you.
Get all the sex we want without societal pressure to marry. No nagging wives. Sign me up. 