Are virgins really just people with low libidos?

[Carlton Banks]

I feel like if a person has a real desire for sex, they'll find a way to get it. Our libidos give us the power to make the necessary steps we need to take to accomplish this. shyt, you can pay for it with a woman of your choosing. If you don't have the balls to pay for something you want, how you gonna have the balls to actually fukk a girl??

 

[TRUEST]

Meh. It’s not a virgin thing.

Low libidos can arise from a variety of sources. When u seriously consider how much time goes into cultivating the bond necessary to get a girl to fucck and to keep fuccking, and the amount of time u actually have available, you’ll quickly realize what’s important and what’s not.

Also, it depends heavily on your point of view. when u seriously analyze the entanglements that can be tied to sex, you would be terrified. Most women u get with will have the most to gain from u. And as such, u ought to be extremely careful who u lay with. A fine ass woman doesn’t equal a good mother or partner.

Also it depends on your personal set of values. That is to say who u are.

I went on a few dates with this one girl not too long ago. Gorgeous. Fat ass and everything. But during the course of the different conversations we had I quickly realized there’s no way I’d be sticking my d1ck in her. But why? First she had 3 kids by different men. And refused to consider getting the procedure done. Second, she was hood. Her text messages read like that of a hood girl. 3rd, she’s one of those girls who thinks taking a shower the night before substitutes for a morning shower. To most of the coliworld, y’all woulda fuccked anyway, but that’s because y’all most likely teenagers or flat out idiots. Nevertheless ol girl picked up on my nonchalant vibes and dipped. In one of the conversations we had where we touched on the things we’ve noticed about each other, she even said to me “you’re not thirsty at all. I like to feel wanted.” She said this on our first date and also cause I seldom text and rarely call her.

So yeah, low libidos can come from simply being too aware of the many different consequences that can arise from unwise sexual relationships - and having the resoluteness of mind to unabashedly avoid them.

 

[humminbird]

people still have to want to have sex with them

 

[Complexion]

Sexual energy is at the basis of reality. Most people don't know how to use it or direct it and thats why their waist is a waste. Those that do - MJ and Nikola Tesla for example - create things that are out of this world and far beyond regular people by tapping into this abundant resource and sharing their gifts with the world.

Thing is their interpersonal relationships suffer immensely due to this energetic rerouting and this only adds on to feeling totally disconnected to the rest of the race as they feel no one else gets them. And they don't because they're built different.

Taking it back to the virgins:

They may crave the intimacy but are scared of the act of opening up and allowing someone to get close. Add in the ease of access to porn, the nature of coping mechanisms and self deception paired with a general lack of insight and you get really unhappy people.

Folks don't talk about this because trauma is the worlds secret weapon that holds society in check. Its also very effective which is why they use it again and again. The world breaks all of us. Some of us learn how to rearrange the pieces to become more than the sum of their parts but ultimately all any of us wants is the wholeness we lived in as children.

 

[Billie Jean]

Nikka what is your username

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

I’m a virgin and losing it is on my mind at an hourly basis so I guess I have a high libido if I’m always thinking about it, but I still wouldn’t pay for a prostitute or lose it to an overweight woman. We all have some kind of standard.

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

Meh. It’s not a virgin thing.

Low libidos can arise from a variety of sources. When u seriously consider how much time goes into cultivating the bond necessary to get a girl to fucck and to keep fuccking, and the amount of time u actually have available, you’ll quickly realize what’s important and what’s not.

Also, it depends heavily on your point of view. when u seriously analyze the entanglements that can be tied to sex, you would be terrified. Most women u get with will have the most to gain from u. And as such, u ought to be extremely careful who u lay with. A fine ass woman doesn’t equal a good mother or partner.

Also it depends on your personal set of values. That is to say who u are.

I went on a few dates with this one girl not too long ago. Gorgeous. Fat ass and everything. But during the course of the different conversations we had I quickly realized there’s no way I’d be sticking my d1ck in her. But why? First she had 3 kids by different men. And refused to consider getting the procedure done. Second, she was hood. Her text messages read like that of a hood girl. 3rd, she’s one of those girls who thinks taking a shower the night before substitutes for a morning shower. To most of the coliworld, y’all woulda fuccked anyway, but that’s because y’all most likely teenagers or flat out idiots. Nevertheless ol girl picked up on my nonchalant vibes and dipped. In one of the conversations we had where we touched on the things we’ve noticed about each other, she even said to me “you’re not thirsty at all. I like to feel wanted.” She said this on our first date and also cause I seldom text and rarely call her.

So yeah, low libidos can come from simply being too aware of the many different consequences that can arise from unwise sexual relationships - and having the resoluteness of mind to unabashedly avoid them.

All the time and energy to type this up you coulda been having sex virgin

 

[humminbird]

Sexual energy is at the basis of reality. Most people don't know how to use it or direct it and thats why their waist is a waste. Those that do - MJ and Nikola Tesla for example - create things that are out of this world and far beyond regular people by tapping into this abundant resource and sharing their gifts with the world.

Thing is their interpersonal relationships suffer immensely due to this energetic rerouting and this only adds on to feeling totally disconnected to the rest of the race as they feel no one else gets them. And they don't because they're built different.

Taking it back to the virgins:

They may crave the intimacy but are scared of the act of opening up and allowing someone to get close. Add in the ease of access to porn, the nature of coping mechanisms and self deception paired with a general lack of insight and you get really unhappy people.

Folks don't talk about this because trauma is the worlds secret weapon that holds society in check. Its also very effective which is why they use it again and again. The world breaks all of us. Some of us learn how to rearrange the pieces to become more than the sum of their parts but ultimately all any of us wants is the wholeness we lived in as children.

Can we talk more about this

 

[PCHMalibu]

It's not always tied to libido. Religious indoctrination plays a part and you also have people avoidant of sex and intimacy because they were violated as children.

 

[010101]

who he play for¿*

 

[RamsayBolton]

Sexual energy is at the basis of reality. Most people don't know how to use it or direct it and thats why their waist is a waste. Those that do - MJ and Nikola Tesla for example - create things that are out of this world and far beyond regular people by tapping into this abundant resource and sharing their gifts with the world.

Are you basing this off something you've read or is this just your opinion/theory? (Not that I disagree)

 

[Elim Garak]

Some people are a sexual that is true but it's all types of reasons someone could be a virgin.

 

[Carlton Banks]

I’m a virgin and losing it is on my mind at an hourly basis so I guess I have a high libido if I’m always thinking about it, but I still wouldn’t pay for a prostitute or lose it to an overweight woman. We all have some kind of standard.

You have social media? Check these girls bookings link

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

You have social media? Check these girls bookings link

I do, and I’ve checked the escort sites but prostitutes are nasty. Even the pretty ones who are just average looking. I think even a single mother would be more dignifying to lose your v card to, not that I’d touch one either.

 

[ignorethis]

They exist, my BF was one of them. She had deep insecurities because she consumed so much media revolving around female sexuality but didn’t know what it felt like to be horny or desire sex. She felt like something was wrong with her.

She liked men, she values male companionship and wanted to eventually have kids and a family. She wanted to be a mother more than anything, but she didn’t like sex.

She an amazing woman too, but Sex is basically a prerequisite to dating now. I mean she could have gotten a virgin church boy that would have been with her regardless of the sex issue, but she’s a woman and of course desires the same type of men every other women desires. Those men expect to have sex.

I think there are a lot of women just like her, but being a woman with no sex drive isn’t considered cool, sexy, or interesting so they get swept under the rug as far as representation in the media.