are y'all really out here walking up to random woman?

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

That doesn't make sense because when a chick finds a man attractive she'll trip over herself to try to get his attention..shyt I've had
broads sitting near me, talking loud on fake phone calls,
broads bumping into the back of me in line, hover around me at work

they don't give a fukk and go for theirs so why shouldnt men?

And most women fantasize about an attractive guy stepping to them while they're out and about...don't let the bullshyt twitter talk fool you.

Okay and what you just spoke on was incidences where woman gave signals for you to approach. Thats not just cold approaching

 

[Take It In Blood]

I haven't cold approached a woman since I was a teenager. Times are different now, ain't tryna be #metoo'd out cheah

Most I might do is simp through Coli reps

 

[African Peasant]

That right there is good advice.... but it's too next level...
How u gonna just have that ability to reduce a bytch u percieve to be a "bad bytch" down to regular bytch... u can try to fake it but energy is everything, shes gonna sense the energy.
I say be ok with feeling like shes a bad bytch, or outta ur league..maybe until u realize there is no such thing....
U still approach her but just get comfortable with that pressure of talking to a female that uve put on a pedestal...
I'll give u an example...
Let's say u meet Beyonce or whoever ur favorite celebrity chik is....
Could u really destroy any value u see in her. Could u convince urself shes a regular chik... and talk to her like a female u wouldnt care about?

I see you your point and I tend to agree with you but to be honest this technic is really for extreme cases: people who lose their cool once they cross path with a beautiful chick they like. They can hold a normal conversation with any woman, except a woman they are attracted to.

Like you said, it's all about the energy: if you try to fake it, you're gonna get exposed, and a lot of women can sense that type of shyt.

But the point is to put yourself in that mindset: a woman is a woman. Some cats are able to keep their composure even though they admit being in front of a dime, but some cats like the homie said freeze. If you lose your calm whenever you face a woman you desire, you'll never be able to get one.

Beyonce is... Beyonce. She's a star. As a common man, it would be hard for you to engage her as a regular chick. But the problem is some of us will see a woman walking down the street, and even though she's a dime, will start seeing her like Beyonce. You will display the wrong energy.

People lose their cool because of the pressure they put on themselves: "If I don't make a good impression on her, I'll lose the woman of my life". Just keep in mind that she's a woman (she might be dumb, an airhead or super cool, you don't know) and even though she's a dime, she's not the only one in the town, if you can't have her, you'll have another chance with another one.

She's just a woman you met today and you like her, but you will meet another woman next month and you will like her too. She's expandable.

Just reduce her to what she really is: a woman.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I don't care to cold approach in a stereotypical way. I have too much pride and I don't want to boost women ego by doing typical approaches. The whole compliment and ask out thing is lame to me so I'd rather just start a conversation about whatever and see what happens.

It's way easier to start a conversation with a woman if you have something to talk about or a question to ask that can lead into a conversation. It's not like they're going to call the cops on you, run or be confrontational. Just stay away from women that clearly have an attitude and you should be good. Only internet nerds think they're going to get sued or accused of harassment for starting a conversation.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Yeah thats right that they might glance up here and there but the main focus us thr phone; not who walked up to me

If an attractive dude is close by they’ll notice

 

[Marco Zen]

I Do it everywhere...

I stay plotting...


True story I just left the grocery store..as i was in the checkout line ringing my shyt up I see a short cute honey out the corner of my eye walk by.. Nice lil slim thick petite body. Shawty had her hood on.... I see she goes to the other check out so I immediately start timing it.

Timing how long its gonna take her to ring up her 3 items vs my 15 items and if I'll be able to catch her as we walk out together ... Unfortunately i fukked up and forgot something in the cart that didn't get rung up so as I was digging it out she walked by behind me.. (Keep in mind I was at the gym before that still in my workout clothes)

There's an old guy that works there and on my way out he called me over and I was like what up... This nikka says "Aye man.. When you was looking thru your cart just now it was a young lady walking behind you looking you up and down and she literally said daaaamnnn checking you out but you didn't see her "


I was like how did she look???


He said "She was short, had a hood on her head"

By the time I got outside Shawty was gone

 

[mag357]

Ok now if a woman notices you, i get you approaching cuz there was a green light. The thing i don't agree with is walking up to a random woman who didnt notice you and spitting

Why wouldnt u agree with that?
If u see her and u think shes attractive and u want to have a chance with her.... why wouldnt u walk up to her with a smile and say "Hi"

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

I thought coli nikkas “intimated” women too much? How are these cold approaches going

#NoApproachCuzWeTooHandsomeGang

Females come to us not the other way around.

At The Top its Just Us

 

[mag357]

I see you your point and I tend to agree with you but to be honest this technic is really for extreme cases: people who lose their cool once they cross path with a beautiful chick they like. They can hold a normal conversation with any woman, except a woman they are attracted to.

Like you said, it's all about the energy: if you try to fake it, you're gonna get exposed, and a lot of women can sense that type of shyt.

But the point is to put yourself in that mindset: a woman is a woman. Some cats are able to keep their composure even though they admit being in front of a dime, but some cats like the homie said freeze. If you lose your calm whenever you face a woman you desire, you'll never be able to get one.

Beyonce is... Beyonce. She's a star. As a common man, it would be hard for you to engage her as a regular chick. But the problem is some of us will see a woman walking down the street, and even though she's a dime, will start seeing her like Beyonce. You will display the wrong energy.

People lose their cool because of the pressure they put on themselves: "If I don't make a good impression on her, I'll lose the woman of my life". Just keep in mind that she's a woman (she might be dumb, an airhead or super cool, you don't know) and even though she's a dime, she's not the only one in the town, if you can't have her, you'll have another chance with another one.

She's just a woman you met today and you like her, but you will meet another woman next month and you will like her too. She's expandable.

Just reduce her to what she really is: a woman.

It's crazy that it's a couple ways to look at it...
At least we trying to tell these dudes to get out there and talk to them... no matter what the philosophy is

 

[Womb Raider]

What?

If I see a woman I want I’m going to introduce myself and shoot my shot. She’s gonna accept it or reject it and then it’s over. I’ll be damned if I’m in the cut staring, wishing I knew someone who knew her.

It’s so easy for men who move like men nowadays. There’s barely any competition out here. We taking all the shots while timid motherfukkers are waiting for someone to hold their hand and escort them to the court like he’s a dainty southern belle.

Easy Money.

nikka you are trippin. I’m not against cold approaching but I’ve had my share of female dikkheads who make a scene out of literally nothing...nikkas not scared of talking to random bytches but it’s the social media and #metoo era...im all for shooting my shot but I like high percentage looks. Too many bytches out here with their heads up their asses to be pulling up like Henny Smith.

 

[Captain Crunch]

You internet nikkas man
What’s next, do folks really go to the club?

 

[CrimsonTider]

I haven't cold approached a woman since I was a teenager. Times are different now, ain't tryna be #metoo'd out cheah

Most I might do is simp through Coli reps

Virgin

 

[Shadow King]

This is one of those threads where ages need to be revealed, and I'm saying this from the contrasting feeling of the one in here. If OP is in his 20s this makes sense because the climate is just different now.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I don't know how old some of y'all are but cold approaches back in day were easier. Back in day when there wasn't as many cell phones,distractions women couldn't play the game of taking out their phone faking phone covo,acting like they are texting.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

THIS is the realest shyt ever wrote...
When these young niggsz be telling me they "holla'd" at a chick... and I be all excited looking for a good story..
word...."Where u meet her at?" ..."how was she acting?".. "she got friends?"

nikka be like "I dnt know man, she ain't DM me back yet"
nikka what

Most of my generation soft frfr


And dem them same nikkaz claim they steppers


Like wtf, you wont even say hi to a woman breh