are y'all really out here walking up to random woman?

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yes, yes they are.

and they think it's perfectly normal and sane behavior on top of that.
 

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I have before, yes. However I usually wait for choosing signal, which PUA say is a no no. Doesn't matter for me bc I tend to get choosing signs a lot anyway, so it's easier to talk to a wide variety of women in any circumstance...usually. it's infinitely harder to talk to girls while 100 percent sober but I've done it and have pulled, no problem. The main thing though is if I see a girl who is drop dead gorgeous in my mind, like im instantly attracted.to her, I freeze up BAD. Other girls, whether attractive or not in their own right, I can talk to with relative ease because there is nothing on the line. The ones that girl me visceral responses though? :usure:. I hardly EVER get those responses, but when I do man I'm :merchant: immediately. Will never forget being in Walmart a year or so ago and randomly seeing the girl of.my dreams. The feeling I got was :dwillhuh: and :damn: at the same time. Never been so scared in my life to talk to a girl. I swear it was akin to those dragon Ball super episodes where Goku/Vegeta sense a presence so strong it frightens them...like when they felt Jiren's energy for the first time :noah:. I knew right away the fear in me was really my heart knowing right away she is exactly what I want, and that I needed to talk to her. For some reason she didn't see me, so it would have took a cold approach...I chickened out...:francis:
Bro... you know how ppl always say "shoot ur shot"..
Cause it's really like that...
When I see a female that is exactly what I'm looking for at the moment...
It's like trying to hit the big shot in the game..
U know u gotta have the right energy and come up with the best convo or something.
Some ppl like that pressure, some dont...
But to even get close to having the guts to take that shot... u gotta practice...
And then u gotta take that clutch shot in a big game and miss it...
And once u miss it, u lose.... but u realize u didnt die, nothing really bad happened. Maybe alil embarrassment...
Ull start getting more comfortable taking those big shots/talking to those "dream girls"
 

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If men didn’t aproach women half of us wouldn’t be here. If you see something you like sometimes you just gotta go for yours. Closed mouths don’t get fed
Granted that you’re not approaching with some bullshyt the worst that’ll happen is a “no thanks” and/or “I have a boyfriend”. However most girls wish men would approach more because even when they’re into you most of the time they refuse to make the first move.
 

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Cold approaching is better because it's all about 2 random ppl feeling each others energy in a random place and the confidence of a man to come up to a woman. And women luv confidence over everything
Being in a mutual setting tho? What u mean by that...?
To cold approach a person, ofcourse u need to be in a mutual setting already
By a mutual setting he’s probably referring to a job, school or anywhere else where they congregate on a regular basis where they can build a rapport prior to making him a move.
 

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By a mutual setting he’s probably referring to a job, school or anywhere else where they congregate on a regular basis where they can build a rapport prior to making him a move.
Ohh... gotcha gotcha...
Yea, go ahead and get #metoo'd the fukk outta a pay check or a degree...
Cold approaching On the street u can pretty much take ur L and walk away financially unscathed
 

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Granted that you’re not approaching with some bullshyt the worst that’ll happen is a “no thanks” and/or “I have a boyfriend”. However most girls wish men would approach more because even when they’re into you most of the time they refuse to make the first move.

Mannn women are too into they phone nowadays to care about if a dude walks up to them
:francis:
 

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Bro... you know how ppl always say "shoot ur shot"..
Cause it's really like that...
When I see a female that is exactly what I'm looking for at the moment...
It's like trying to hit the big shot in the game..
U know u gotta have the right energy and come up with the best convo or something.
Some ppl like that pressure, some dont...
But to even get close to having the guts to take that shot... u gotta practice...
And then u gotta take that clutch shot in a big game and miss it...
And once u miss it, u lose.... but u realize u didnt die, nothing really bad happened. Maybe alil embarrassment...
Ull start getting more comfortable taking those big shots/talking to those "dream girls"
No doubt. Like I said I pull but I'm usually casual about it. Those dream girls.i be seeing like once or twice a year it feels like haha. The girls I pull are attractive, don't get me wrong , but I hardly ever feel that visceral attraction. I'll work on it. Thanks.
 

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Granted that you’re not approaching with some bullshyt the worst that’ll happen is a “no thanks” and/or “I have a boyfriend”. However most girls wish men would approach more because even when they’re into you most of the time they refuse to make the first move.
I’ve heard from so many women that men don’t approach any more. Than cats on the coli will say it’s just not the men that they want to approach. But this thread is proof. Most nikkas don’t wanna approach and would rather wait for the right social setting or shoot their shot online
 
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