are y'all really out here walking up to random woman?

MikeOck

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Cold approach is bullshyt. Your hit rate will be less than 10% and you'll have to waste a lot of time talking to 100 girls just to get 5 numbers and bang one.

If you want to approach efficiently (30-80% success rate) and not waste too much time on it, three rules:

1. Wait for indicators of interest (girl giving you eyes, coming to sit close to you etc)
2. Learn to spot indicators of availability (basically a girl who's dressed up but looks kinda idle)
3. As a last, desperate resort, hit on girls who are undeniably less attractive than you.

These factors make your approach a "warm approach," and you will get up to 80% success on getting a nice reception and a number.
 

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what if you are atrocious at reading body language, I don't know if women are weirded out by me or genuinely curious.
 

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Nope, I got other things to do during the day than go up to random women. Even if a chick is cute I dont feel like engaging in a convo cuz Im not a good bullshyt talker :martin:
If you walking around mid day trying to start randome convos with women it's weird and lame

But if you going about your buisness and you happen to be standing next to a cute chick..nothing wrong with talking to her
 

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Cold approach is bullshyt. Your hit rate will be less than 10% and you'll have to waste a lot of time talking to 100 girls just to get 5 numbers and bang one.

If you want to approach efficiently (30-80% success rate) and not waste too much time on it, three rules:

1. Wait for indicators of interest (girl giving you eyes, coming to sit close to you etc)
2. Learn to spot indicators of availability (basically a girl who's dressed up but looks kinda idle)
3. As a last, desperate resort, hit on girls who are undeniably less attractive than you.

These factors make your approach a "warm approach," and you will get up to 80% success on getting a nice reception and a number.

It depends on the shooter.

You could either be a Steph Curry or a Draymond Green.
Thanx... glad u responded.
Cause that was just bullshyt.
Ima say my shooting percentage is at least 75 -80%...
Obviously how many ur hitting after u bag them is gonna be way lower... but I'm never without an option to chill or fukk
 

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I don't really do it anymore but I have done heavy I was younger.

Be friendly but arrogant, become friends, tell her after a while you want to meet up to vent about your stressful life, get her drunk and smash... because women become very horny when they are drunk. But not too drunk, because no raping:ufdup:


This has worked for me a few times out of like a hundred cold approaches.
 

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Cold approach is bullshyt. Your hit rate will be less than 10% and you'll have to waste a lot of time talking to 100 girls just to get 5 numbers and bang one.

If you want to approach efficiently (30-80% success rate) and not waste too much time on it, three rules:

1. Wait for indicators of interest (girl giving you eyes, coming to sit close to you etc)
2. Learn to spot indicators of availability (basically a girl who's dressed up but looks kinda idle)
3. As a last, desperate resort, hit on girls who are undeniably less attractive than you.

These factors make your approach a "warm approach," and you will get up to 80% success on getting a nice reception and a number.
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Cold approach is bullshyt. Your hit rate will be less than 10% and you'll have to waste a lot of time talking to 100 girls just to get 5 numbers and bang one.

If you want to approach efficiently (30-80% success rate) and not waste too much time on it, three rules:

1. Wait for indicators of interest (girl giving you eyes, coming to sit close to you etc)
2. Learn to spot indicators of availability (basically a girl who's dressed up but looks kinda idle)
3. As a last, desperate resort, hit on girls who are undeniably less attractive than you.

These factors make your approach a "warm approach," and you will get up to 80% success on getting a nice reception and a number.


You got the right idea, but the last one is a waste of time (nobody needs to be gassing up ugly hoes)


All this thread tells me in the Art of the Hunt is lost.

Nikkas rather be scrolling through instagram pics of hoes instead of actually looking at and speaking to bad women in front of them.
 

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:childplease: grow up , and get some game young man.

These new dudes aint bout that life. Those days are over.

To be fair, I was never the best at cold approaching... but damn, even in the club back in the day you HAD to just go up to random chicks or be standing on the wall all night.

I remember a key moment in getting my game and confidence up was aiming to get rejected by a certain amount of girls versus getting a certain amount of numbers.

Once I realized that I had nothing to fear it was :wow:
 

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I had the same issue but I solved it: in order to calmly talk to a woman you like, destroy any value you see in her. Don't project yourself with her, don't see how she's beautiful, don't think about the fact she's exactly your type, etc. Talk to her like that girl you don't care about. This is how you maximize your chance. You'll be able to assert confidence and eventually dominance.
if she has no value then why would I bother with her in the first place:francis:
it's a paradox:hamster:
 

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Cold approach is all I know. I need that face to face interaction - to show me who im dealing wit
 

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How u gonna just have that ability to reduce a bytch u percieve to be a "bad bytch" down to regular bytch... u can try to fake it but energy is everything, shes gonna sense the energy
And this is why women both consciously and sub consciously test men...to weed out the pretenders.

Most women can weed out insecure,emotional dudes just by simply trolling them with a "your shirt looks ugly:usure: "

Or doing shyt like trying to switch up the location of the date.
 

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If men didn’t aproach women half of us wouldn’t be here. If you see something you like sometimes you just gotta go for yours. Closed mouths don’t get fed

But The Coli told me that nikkas get approached by dimes on a regular basis. :lupe:
 

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I seen a hoe I never seen before one elevator the other day. She was in there cleaning one of the units that does air bnb. Fist thing I said was, when you coming to my unit:shaq:

She was like why does it need cleaning? I said no, I keep my shyt pretty clean, but I got a long dikk:mjlit:

She didn’t look offended but more :gucci:

You win some and you lose some, but I’m in the field for real. Talking bout do nikkas really walk up to random women :why: nikka do crackheads run fast?
get it how you live :salute:
 
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