Are you truly over your ex?

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Man I been wit my ex for 4 years, I just found out she cheated on me once wit some dude.. I broke off the relationship so we stopped talking for like 4 months..

We just started talking again and fukking and now she telling me how she always crying and miss me, I can't front I miss her and still love her, even on the 4 months off..when I was fukking with other hoes I still had feelings for my ex..

I told myself I won't take her back fukk a relationship but lately Idk brehs, when we be chilling I kinda feel like starting it back up..

But here's the catch I cheated on her once on some after the club shyt but I never told her till this day.. that's why I kind of want to give her a second chance cause I did it to.. but she don't know I cheated..

So should I tell her the truth and say I cheated and get back Together Or should I take it to the grave and don't say nothing never?

I could just keep fukking and shyt without the title but I low-key don't want to see her wit nobody else lol..

Help me brehs What would you do?

I be playing the victim like aww you cheated you not loyal I can't do the relationship thing..but I really want to be with her,but at the same time she did cheat so I shouldn't get back wit her.. I really don't know what to do b.
 

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Never been in love, so I'm good :jawalrus:

I still think about some chick I was dating almost everyday tho, but I think it's mostly lust.

Like I wanna get in them draws :shaq:
 

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Man I been wit my ex for 4 years, I just found out she cheated on me once wit some dude.. I broke off the relationship so we stopped talking for like 4 months..

We just started talking again and fukking and now she telling me how she always crying and miss me, I can't front I miss her and still love her, even on the 4 months off..when I was fukking with other hoes I still had feelings for my ex..

I told myself I won't take her back fukk a relationship but lately Idk brehs, when we be chilling I kinda feel like starting it back up..

But here's the catch I cheated on her once on some after the club shyt but I never told her till this day.. that's why I kind of want to give her a second chance cause I did it to.. but she don't know I cheated..

So should I tell her the truth and say I cheated and get back Together Or should I take it to the grave and don't say nothing never?

I could just keep fukking and shyt without the title but I low-key don't want to see her wit nobody else lol..

Help me brehs What would you do?

I be playing the victim like aww you cheated you not loyal I can't do the relationship thing..but I really want to be with her,but at the same time she did cheat so I shouldn't get back wit her.. I really don't know what to do b.


Bruh, some things you just take to the grave with you.
 

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I'm not in love with him anymore but I'm still dealing with the effects of our relationship and I know for a fact that I'm not ready to move on to someone else even though it's been a year. Plus he still contacts me and I haven't been able to cut him off. I know that until I'm completely ready to remove him from my life I won't be able to give anything to another person.
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Man I been wit my ex for 4 years, I just found out she cheated on me once wit some dude.. I broke off the relationship so we stopped talking for like 4 months..

We just started talking again and fukking and now she telling me how she always crying and miss me, I can't front I miss her and still love her, even on the 4 months off..when I was fukking with other hoes I still had feelings for my ex..

I told myself I won't take her back fukk a relationship but lately Idk brehs, when we be chilling I kinda feel like starting it back up..

But here's the catch I cheated on her once on some after the club shyt but I never told her till this day.. that's why I kind of want to give her a second chance cause I did it to.. but she don't know I cheated..

So should I tell her the truth and say I cheated and get back Together Or should I take it to the grave and don't say nothing never?

I could just keep fukking and shyt without the title but I low-key don't want to see her wit nobody else lol..

Help me brehs What would you do?

I be playing the victim like aww you cheated you not loyal I can't do the relationship thing..but I really want to be with her,but at the same time she did cheat so I shouldn't get back wit her.. I really don't know what to do b.

:mjlol: keep it moving breh....
 

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There is only one woman who I can say I really loved looking back. There were women before her and a couple after but she was the only one I legit loved... If we didn't just go cold turkey and stop talking to each other and move on with our life I dont think we would ever have been out of each other lives or happy.

Am I over her?

Completely, but I'll always have a bit of love for her. I'd never get back with her under any circumstances nor do I have ant desire to, but I'd be a liar if I said she'll always have a small part of my heart.
 

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Man I been wit my ex for 4 years, I just found out she cheated on me once wit some dude.. I broke off the relationship so we stopped talking for like 4 months..

We just started talking again and fukking and now she telling me how she always crying and miss me, I can't front I miss her and still love her, even on the 4 months off..when I was fukking with other hoes I still had feelings for my ex..

I told myself I won't take her back fukk a relationship but lately Idk brehs, when we be chilling I kinda feel like starting it back up..

But here's the catch I cheated on her once on some after the club shyt but I never told her till this day.. that's why I kind of want to give her a second chance cause I did it to.. but she don't know I cheated..

So should I tell her the truth and say I cheated and get back Together Or should I take it to the grave and don't say nothing never?

I could just keep fukking and shyt without the title but I low-key don't want to see her wit nobody else lol..

Help me brehs What would you do?

I be playing the victim like aww you cheated you not loyal I can't do the relationship thing..but I really want to be with her,but at the same time she did cheat so I shouldn't get back wit her.. I really don't know what to do b.
Dont say anything
 

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Man I been wit my ex for 4 years, I just found out she cheated on me once wit some dude.. I broke off the relationship so we stopped talking for like 4 months..

We just started talking again and fukking and now she telling me how she always crying and miss me, I can't front I miss her and still love her, even on the 4 months off..when I was fukking with other hoes I still had feelings for my ex..

I told myself I won't take her back fukk a relationship but lately Idk brehs, when we be chilling I kinda feel like starting it back up..

But here's the catch I cheated on her once on some after the club shyt but I never told her till this day.. that's why I kind of want to give her a second chance cause I did it to.. but she don't know I cheated..

So should I tell her the truth and say I cheated and get back Together Or should I take it to the grave and don't say nothing never?

I could just keep fukking and shyt without the title but I low-key don't want to see her wit nobody else lol..

Help me brehs What would you do?

I be playing the victim like aww you cheated you not loyal I can't do the relationship thing..but I really want to be with her,but at the same time she did cheat so I shouldn't get back wit her.. I really don't know what to do b.
Similar situation. Best advice I can give you is do what your heart tells you to do and not care what society says you should do. If you really love this chick and y'all can get to the bottom of why the cheating occurred you can fix things. But only proceed if you're both mature about communication etc. Cheating sucks but it doesn't always have to be a death sentence in a relationship.
 

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Yeah I am. fukk that cheating "reformed" thot:ahh:


Had I been on the Coli when I was younger I would have seen the signs of a thot miles away




Wants to change her life now which is why she's attending church:rudy: doesn't wanna fukk because she's different now:rudy:says I'm too good for her:rudy:then turns around and hooks up with her ex again:rudy:




Being young and naive of course it hits me like a dagger and fukked me up for the following 3 years:damn: Because of her I still have trouble expressing my feelings and making friends because I'm afraid of being hurt:mjcry:





But fukk that hoe we bout to be on the come up:blessed:
:sas1: HOH is always accepting new members breh
 

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Man I been wit my ex for 4 years, I just found out she cheated on me once wit some dude.. I broke off the relationship so we stopped talking for like 4 months..

We just started talking again and fukking and now she telling me how she always crying and miss me, I can't front I miss her and still love her, even on the 4 months off..when I was fukking with other hoes I still had feelings for my ex..

I told myself I won't take her back fukk a relationship but lately Idk brehs, when we be chilling I kinda feel like starting it back up..

But here's the catch I cheated on her once on some after the club shyt but I never told her till this day.. that's why I kind of want to give her a second chance cause I did it to.. but she don't know I cheated..

So should I tell her the truth and say I cheated and get back Together Or should I take it to the grave and don't say nothing never?

I could just keep fukking and shyt without the title but I low-key don't want to see her wit nobody else lol..

Help me brehs What would you do?

I be playing the victim like aww you cheated you not loyal I can't do the relationship thing..but I really want to be with her,but at the same time she did cheat so I shouldn't get back wit her.. I really don't know what to do b.

How old are you?

Really this shyt comes down to you. If you put a stranglehold on the relationship tomorrow, like "we're either together or we're not" she'd be liked yes! Until that happens, y'all are always going to be holding serve.

If you're not ready to start that plan down the aisle, I would let the shyt go right now.
 

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How old are you?

Really this shyt comes down to you. If you put a stranglehold on the relationship tomorrow, like "we're either together or we're not" she'd be liked yes! Until that happens, y'all are always going to be holding serve.

If you're not ready to start that plan down the aisle, I would let the shyt go right now.
28 yea you right I'm definitely not ready to marry her.. I need to let it go honestly but it's hard, and we got a crazy connection..being in love is a bytch man..
 
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