Are you usually nice when rejecting women?

[7th Letter Specialist]

I used to pull the "My plate is already full" (my roster is filled) as a deflection tactic. Most were turned on even more.

Her: "Well, you can fit me in"

That's when you hit her w/: Nah can you fit ME in?

 

[Heafcliffe]

Wouldn't know. Was always the "dumped," not "dumpee."

 

[DaRealness]

To answer the OP, if she's annoying then no. I'm not nice about it. Recently some chick kept messaging me all the time on whatsapp to the point it got overbearing and I had to tell her to find something better to do and blocked her. What pissed me off is that the person who gave her my number didn't even ask me if it was alright to do that.

 

[Vandelay]

i dont flat out reject people. I've been rejected and it's not a good feeling. I'll take it easy entertain/chill together for a bit at the moment. But i'll probably just wont ask for their number or if i do get it I just don't reach out afterwards.

PROBLEM WITH THAT IS... I often do the same to women i really really like. Sometimes i overthink the shyt and talk myself into thinking i have no shot or dont deserve her or she's probably just being nice and isnt really interested in me.

Guilty of both myself.

For the latter, as much as women and society say its creepy to be a little thirsty with your approach, as I've gotten older, I do it anyway at times because people have told me they didn't know I was interested and my window closed...even my current damn girlfriend told me she didn't know I liked her like that because I didn't really pursue her.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Do you go for a softer approach when a woman shows interest in you but you have none in her?

The way most women do it i either just ignore it or laugh it off. Playing dumb to their advances is the easiest way

 

[Luke Cage]

When I was in college I was rejecting women on a daily

Good for you breh.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Lady I rejected was a ham beast. Used to always have makeup and a new hairdo every other week. Rejected her and that was that.

 

[Dad]

No.

I gauge their emotionally maturity from the jump. So I don’t have to worry too much about their feelings.

I addimidtally believe in maintaining peace within myself and to do that I HAVE to create boundaries. The way they interpret the break up isn’t my business. But I gotta do what I gotta to do maintain. Self preservation is the key to life.

 

[intruder]

Guilty of both myself.

For the latter, as much as women and society say its creepy to be a little thirsty with your approach, as I've gotten older, I do it anyway at times because people have told me they didn't know I was interested and my window closed...even my current damn girlfriend told me she didn't know I liked her like that because I didn't really pursue her.

Oh yeah i almost never show thirst. I may express some mild interest but just enough to keep them wondering wether they're reading this right. Been burned enough times to know not to jump in head first

 

[BXKingPin82]

"No, I gotta girl.
Like my wifey."

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Oh yeah i almost never show thirst. I may express some mild interest but just enough to keep them wondering wether they're reading this right. Been burned enough times to know not to jump in head first

I even be scarce w/ that. I be cordial af. I'm an a$$hole

 

[Devilinurear]

Only backfired on me once. One girl sent her brother to beat me up after i ghosted her.

Lol he came through?

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Only backfired on me once. One girl sent her brother to beat me up after i ghosted her.

did u fukk her breh?

 

[mbewane]

I try to keep it respectful and whatnot. Obviously because I've been rejected tons of time and I know it isn't a nice feeling. Second I a lot women are more used to doing the rejection than being rejected and some REALLY take it as a personal insult.

 

[Luke Cage]

did u fukk her breh?

No, that was the reason she got ghosted. We dated for a while but everytime we got intimate we'd fool around a little until she was like , "no, i'm not ready etc".
Didn't pressure her though, i just eventually stopped fukking with her completely and moved on.