As A Man How do u make amends with never being married or having kids?

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African Peasant said:
30 is not late, not at all. However, at that age you should start making preparation. My father had me at 30; I am his first kid.

But don't wait to be 40 to have your first kid. You need to grow up with your kid.

If you don't have a particular problem, 35 should be the limit you give yourself. If you have your first kid at 35, you'll be 65 when he/she turns 30. It's a good thing.
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Obama married Michelle at 31, had his first kid at 37, he turned out just fine
 
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Youseenmywork said:
...because more than one else way to contribute to society than having a wife and kids. It just a thought.
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Why contribute to a society that ends for your bloodline here? You theoretically should be an anarchist because you are living for nothing but yourself.
 
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Its pretty sad man, most men want children, a lovely wife and a legacy. But ever since white liberal males flipped the natural family structure upside down...thats over. Now str8 men are punished. and this is babylon anyway. Most woman by 30 are all ran through and hate men. They got so much DNA in their mouth, they could clone atleast 15 men

Their bodies are tinted from experimental sex, having abortions, drug and alcohol abuse. What man (besides a cuck) want to reproduce with that? the answer is simple...none

This society Imo isn't really set up for family life. So getting married and not having children is probably in the cards for not only me but several other men. Unfortunately its too many pitfalls plus age and location factor in. I'm not going to blame woman but alot of them were affected by social conditioning. They're not mentally stable enough to be wives or mothers anymore. Its not even their fault. They cant even help it anymore, its just what society has them turned into.

Plus its a financial burden. That combined with the fact your lady could mentally metamorph into a whole new fukking person in a span of 24 hours. She might be michelle obama Tuesday and rihanna Wednesday. Woman are fickle, all it take is her seeing a movie and shell get in a trance and fall in live with the main character. Then start fukking any man that resemble the made up character. Women are fukked up in the head. U never know who they are.

you might lose everything. Money, kids ya house. then she'll fukk your homeboy in your kid bed, while you have to stay in a studio apartment in the hood...crying you're self to sleep everynight. Downing a bottle of Jack Daniels, staring at a pistol...contemplating the meaning of life

Thats a real scenario, oh WE ALL KNOW somebody that got fukked over for child support or alimony. Do it even make sense anymore to have a wife or child? I don't know anymore

Plus once u hit 30, the market is flushed when it comes to other 30 year old woman. Most of them are all fukked up. Mentally, emotionally. And she don't have the tight body or cute bubbly aura of a young girl. Her t*ts ain't perky anymore, they're all saggy, her posture is bad and her demeanor is all negative n shyt from the baggage. Teeth all yellow n shyt like she ate a pack of newports, bags under her eyes...wearing grandma jeans...her swag and confidence is all depleted n shyt.

If you're 30 and not married, its probably best just to take the L and adjust your life goals.
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for me there is no benefit of getting married which is just signing a pointless contract, or having children. it really is that simple breh.
 
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African Peasant said:
Started at 30 ? It's an illusion !

At that age, most women have past their prime and the number of partners approaching them for a long term relationship (marriage) is decreasing in quantity and quality. They know it. Plus, the biological clock is tickling. Many women now try to rationalize it, but deep down they know what time it is.

The fear of ending up alone really hit them at that moment.

Men are facing another problem : at 30, he needs to hurry up to catch a "good young girl" avoid the risk of ending up with a "thot". But the capacity of seduction of a man at that age is higher than the capacity of a woman at the same age. It's basically the opposite situation of their early 20's where the woman is the queen.
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It's amazing how we all try to rewrite simple biology. Women are diffrent animal
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Why contribute to a society that ends for your bloodline here? You theoretically should be an anarchist because you are living for nothing but yourself.
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My bloodline :lolbron:. I plan to help men understand their value and manhood. It's what I wanna do with the time I have on the earth. It's a lot of young men that are growing up with single moms and many other problems. This society is tearing down manhood by the day. I be a diffrent kind of voice for men ....or should I say a gut feeling of men.

I refuse to let a man or a women tell that I'm useless because I'm 32 no wife and no kids or a failure for that matter. I'm leave positivity imprint on this world. That vision to me is bigger than me.
 
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Youseenmywork said:
It's amazing how we all try to rewrite simple biology. Women are diffrent animal



My bloodline :lolbron:. I plan to help understand their value and manhood. It's what I wanna do with the time I have on the earth. It's a lot of young men that are growing up with single moms and many other problems. This society is tearing down manhood by the day. I be a diffrent kind of voice for men ....or should I say a gut feeling of men.

I refuse to let a man or a women tell that I'm useless because I'm 32 no wife and no kids or a failure for that matter. I'm leave positivity imprint on this world. That vision to me is bigger than me.
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I respect that.
 
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Youseenmywork said:
It more complicated than this breh but go ahead and cook.
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Explain?i dont think it is,anything or anyplace that comes up with a 100 reasons a week to dislike women,mistrust women,rallies against relationships and marriage isnt the best place for some of these nikkas.

It aint just thecoli,its social media and society in general,but on places like thecoli its definitley am amplified:pachaha:...and to keep it funky alot of nikkas out here simply arent built to be as picky as a place like this will tell them they should be,and alot of cats out here dont have the heart to really live a "hoh" lifestyle through til the end....nikkas wastin they time only to end up back at square one,as the women they eventually will settle down with ANYWAY,adds more baggage,babies, bodies and miles to her resume:mjcry:.

The world aint built for everybody to be "in the know" and be happy,,some nikkas need to be apart of that naive square life,living in the matrix when it comes to the opposite sex:wow:
 
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