As A Man How do u make amends with never being married or having kids?

[wickedsm]

Most men have they first kid before thirty

So are you saying 30 is old?

 

[Unknown Poster]

30 isn't old, especially not for men

I'm 32 and feel 21.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

So are you saying 30 is old?

LolI hell no

 

[DrX]

30 is old for a black man...depending on what type of life u had and your experiences....ill say many black men are left traumatized by the system of white supremacy by age 35 max.

 

[LastEmperor2k2]

Nah
I just don't have any crab in the barrels friends or people who hate women and black women and shyt

Of course I know that but a lot of these people I actually know from college and from coworkers.

Of course every couple has their issue but the coli acts like they are never getting married and you are a sucker if you are in a relationship.

Or maybe just the people who are married or in happy relationships don't vocalize it enough

Coli is full of pathetic bitter men who hate women because they're insecure and scared of being hurt

 

[C-NICE]

30 is old for a black man...depending on what type of life u had and your experiences....ill say many black men are left traumatized by the system of white supremacy by age 35 max.

this shyt so blasphemous I had to respond what kind of people you know b

 

[DamienWayne]

I was married at 31, daughter at 31.

There is no timetable on marriage and children though, too many people rush into these things and are unprepared for them and become shytty spouses and bad parents.

I think there is a natural sense of "i`m getting older, i want to settle down" that is a healthy thing if you want a family. I gotta say, i had a good time in my 20's, but at 30 after having an unsatisfying 3 year relationship, i knew i wanted to find a partner and start building a family.

I was so glad i finally got outta that bad relationship, because i was able to find the woman of my dreams and have an amazing family to come home to every day because i refused to continue to be unhappy

Teach me Breh after my five year relationship I can't take anyone else seriously.

 

[Momentum]

30 is old for a black man...depending on what type of life u had and your experiences....ill say many black men are left traumatized by the system of white supremacy by age 35 max.

Melanin powers keep us youthful

 

[Professor Mac]

This new generation is so GD pussified... Lol

 

[Cynic]

Focus on your craft /art/calling until you achieve your goals but I'd start with having an income vehicle separate from your passion.

Most artists don't get that part and end up broke because they ignore the business part.

Build a company/grow it >>> hire effectively >>> hand it off >>>focus on your craft.

 

[Hungerpain]

One thing I will say is that America did alot of black men dirty on the whole American Dream shyt.
Especially if you was raised in the northeast and Midwest.
nikkas hearts colder than the winter.
If you live in the South you playing the game on easy mode and you don't even know it.

 

[International Playa]

Most dudes marry women at least 2- 5 years younger than them, at 30 a dude will most likely be dating 24-26 year olds.

Recently turned 30, most girls I been smashing in the last two years have been 20-22 years old.

If you look after yourself as a dude, 30 should be your prime, you got a crib, foreign whip, fat savings account, you will be eating non stop,

 

[Dirty Mcdrawz]

false, for a black man thats like 50 esp depending where youre from....atleast thats how alot of us feel....alot of us a beat down and war torn by 30....

Uh no...

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Please take this dude's thread making privileges away

We working on it

 

[Youseenmywork]

Thecoli is going is going to raise seedless generation of men

nikkas are being trained on her to hate damn near every demographic of women,overthink absolutley every damn thing....its a such thing as being too smart for your own good when it comes to finding love....thecoli creating a bunch of smart nikkas to stupid to settle,and too miserable to ever be happy....Some of yall need to break away from that,these lessons wasnt meant for you

It more complicated than this breh but go ahead and cook.