As A Man How do u make amends with never being married or having kids?

[DrX]

By living my fukking life, especially in trump's America. kind of fukking question is that

u dont ever get deperessed ...knowing you wont have a bunch of kids that rush when u open the door and a loving wife to make u supper?

i picture myself at 40 in a run down studio apartment somewhere.... laying on the floor staring at the ceiling....ready to die....

And its sad because I always wanted a big family, but im a realist...its just not going to happen....but it hurt deep down

 

[Apollo]

For the coming Armageddon i'm rolling dolo.

Don't need to make amends I'm straight with how I live my life and I don't give a fukk about anybody's opinion on how I live it.

 

[Phitz]

not u juicy...u gonna be a fresh pure 30

She can clone 15 arab men

 

[DrX]

She can clone 15 arab men

chill breh...shes solid

 

[NotaPAWG]

u dont ever get deperessed ...knowing you wont have a bunch of kids that rush when u open the door and a loving wife to make u supper?

i picture myself at 40 in a run down studio apartment somewhere.... laying on the floor staring at the ceiling....ready to die....

And its sad because I always wanted a big family, but im a realist...its just not going to happen....but it hurt deep down

Brush, you're not a realist..you clearly suffer from depression

 

[Phitz]

chill breh...shes solid

You paying her homage is your business, not mine. I'll carry on my observations and express them as I choose.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

breh im not on that art shyt right now....im on this late night reflecting ...making amends...trying forgiving my self and regretting my past

theres a time and place for everything...this is my current mood

next art thread, i will drop a one piece so you can see for real. the art industry is snobby and full of pompous fakes. so the advice i threw you take heed, you will have to getting better at your craft and bolder, having passion is cool but your work has to show this. i know you know that, ... you got some ill pieces thats real talk.

im still way ahead though, and know there is way more to go.

 

[King Musa]

Brush, you're not a realist..you clearly suffer from depression

Don't talk back to a black man like that you white whore

 

[African Peasant]

Its pretty sad man, most men want children, a lovely wife and a legacy. But ever since white liberal males flipped the natural family structure upside down...thats over. Now str8 men are punished. and this is babylon anyway. Most woman by 30 are all ran through and hate men. They got so much DNA in their mouth, they could clone atleast 15 men

Their bodies are tinted from experimental sex, having abortions, drug and alcohol abuse. What man (besides a cuck) want to reproduce with that? the answer is simple...none

This society Imo isn't really set up for family life. So getting married and not having children is probably in the cards for not only me but several other men. Unfortunately its too many pitfalls plus age and location factor in. I'm not going to blame woman but alot of them were affected by social conditioning. They're not mentally stable enough to be wives or mothers anymore. Its not even their fault. They cant even help it anymore, its just what society has them turned into.

Plus its a financial burden. That combined with the fact your lady could mentally metamorph into a whole new fukking person in a span of 24 hours. She might be michelle obama Tuesday and rihanna Wednesday. Woman are fickle, all it take is her seeing a movie and shell get in a trance and fall in live with the main character. Then start fukking any man that resemble the made up character. Women are fukked up in the head. U never know who they are.

you might lose everything. Money, kids ya house. then she'll fukk your homeboy in your kid bed, while you have to stay in a studio apartment in the hood...crying you're self to sleep everynight. Downing a bottle of Jack Daniels, staring at a pistol...contemplating the meaning of life

Thats a real scenario, oh WE ALL KNOW somebody that got fukked over for child support or alimony. Do it even make sense anymore to have a wife or child? I don't know anymore

Plus once u hit 30, the market is flushed when it comes to other 30 year old woman. Most of them are all fukked up. Mentally, emotionally. And she don't have the tight body or cute bubbly aura of a young girl. Her t*ts ain't perky anymore, they're all saggy, her posture is bad and her demeanor is all negative n shyt from the baggage. Teeth all yellow n shyt like she ate a pack of newports, bags under her eyes...wearing grandma jeans...her swag and confidence is all depleted n shyt.

If you're 30 and not married, its probably best just to take the L and adjust your life goals.

This description is scary because it's true. One girl I really like fits the description perfectly, beside the demeanor. She's 30. She's not married. It's sad, she's a very nice girl.


When it comes to men, 30 is not the death sentence. If you got your stuff together : you have a stable situation and a normal body. you can eat like crazy. But it's better to start thinking about a family.

When it comes to marriage, you can and you must marry a 23 years old. Not a 30. You need a young woman for your kids... and for yourself. 30 + are easy to bag, because they are desperate but they have a lot of baggage, physically and emotionally. Plus, it's better for the woman to have her first kid in her 20's.

If you hit that age, it's time to start searching. If you're not married after 35, it's a problem.

 

[NoCones]

If you're 30 and not married, its probably best just to take the W and keep stackin.

thanks breh, will do

 

[Phitz]

This description is scary because it's true. One girl I really like fits the description perfectly. She's 30. She's not married. It's sad, she's young girl.


When it comes to man, 30 is not the death sentence. If you got your stuff together : you have a stable situation and a normal body. you can eat like crazy. But it's better to start thinking about a family.

When it comes to marriage, you can and you must marry a 23 years old. Not a 30. You need a young woman for your kids.

If you hit that age, it's time to start searching. If you're not married after 35, it's a problem.

Looking at the current divorce rate in North America, what if you're divorced after 35? or by 35? then what?

 

[African Peasant]

Looking at the current divorce rate in North America, what if you're divorced after 35? or by 35? then what?

It's depend whether you have kids or not. If you're divorced by 35 with no kids, it's a problem. It's like you never been married. It's also depends on your financial situation : if you're in a better position financially, the situation will be less complicated. If your finance are not that straight, things will start to get dangerous. The problem is that the pool of the women you can pick from is being reduced.

 

[DrX]

Brush, you're not a realist..you clearly suffer from depression

have nothing to do with depression....clearly im not alone...many other posters are having similar thoughts

 

[DrX]

alotta dudes in this thread a sad deep down...but put on a front

that whole "fukk bytches im stacking and getting p*ssy nikka"

thats bullshyt man...not having a family leaves a hole into u the size of the grand canyon

 

[Eddy Gordo]

have nothing to do with depression....clearly im not alone...many other posters are having similar thoughts

Then go outside. Bag some dumb 23 year old. Marry her and have some kids. It's not that complicated.