Didn't yall just buy the mercedes?
yep. got tired of always being the one to initiate. fukk, i like to get a surprise dikk suck in the middle of the night every once in a while. come out of the room wearing some lacy shyt. seduce a nikka sometimes. she does NOTHING. zilch. nada. get in the bed....go the fukk to sleep. no kisses. no laying on my lap while watching tv. no hugging. no i love yous. i got tired of doing all the shyt by myself. so fukk it. i checked out too. but because i checked out, i have been checking out skirts lately, and i don't want to even start down that road. if i'm gonna be married, i'm going to be all in, or all out. can't fukk around on my wife.
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§ansprix;201074 said:Most of these dudes do not ever need to get married. No one wants to put in the work when it gets rough. OP, I commend you for giving it a last shot. I honestly don't think she's cheating, although that's always something to consider. I agree with Bamba. It sounds like there's no excitement between you two. Things have gotten too predictable, comfortable, and routine.
I think you need to COMMUNICATE to HER what you're feeling. Figure out how you can change it before it's too late. If she doesn't feel like there is a problem, after you've talked about it or does nothing to change.....then you have to decide what to do next. You really need communication tho, maybe even counseling. Don't give up until you've really tried all your options. Everyone is quick to just give up when it gets too hard. You owe it to yourself to not give up so easily.
if you have been feeling that way, why didn't you say something then?! she said because she didn't want to argue with me.
since when does a woman not speak her mind because she doesn't want to argue? that seems like more of a reason to nag a nikka about it. so they CAN argue and pour out their feelings. makes no sense to me....
i agree with everything you said, except counseling....fukk that.
when i talked to her this morning, i told her what i was feeling, and she said that she has been feeling like that too. so i'm likeif you have been feeling that way, why didn't you say something then?! she said because she didn't want to argue with me.
since when does a woman not speak her mind because she doesn't want to argue? that seems like more of a reason to nag a nikka about it. so they CAN argue and pour out their feelings. makes no sense to me....
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Do you have access to her phone bill?
If not get a sim card copier
breh, with all due respect (because i appreciate your input), i ain't doing that shyt. if i gotta do that, then i'm just gonna leave. fukk all that.
I don't see any signs of cheating..I see signs of a boring marriage. You guys need to reconnect with the feelings that brought you together in the first place. Instead, you've allowed yourselves to get too comfortable and lazy. Get a babysitter for your kid, and start dating again. Go to the movies, dinners, the park...buy her flowers for no reason. Try these things out before you do anything drastic. If she still acts cold and distant - THEN you have to start considering the possibility that she is just not that into you anymore.
Divorce is common, but that doesn't make it a desirable option - so you need to know that you really tried to save the marriage before going that way.
Best of luck.
so what came out of the convo nikka?![]()
what about all of the other days, weeks, and months that we are not travelling? what do we do then? ANYONE can have fun on a trip to Fiji together. can you have fun at home with no money in your pocket, a pizza, and the remote control? But i couldn't really get into a lot this morning. i was on my way to work. but this evening....
Didn't yall just buy the mercedes?

yep. and it'll be my p*ssy wagon if i have to leave....![]()

yep. and it'll be my p*ssy wagon if i have to leave....![]()


