Time to level up brehs and brehettes....
1. Spend your energy on things that matter to you.
Ask yourself what you value rather than just doing things because you are supposed to. This is your
life, and there is nothing that you must do. Everything is a choice, even when you think it is not.
2. Don’t be afraid of change.
So many of us look at our current situation as being permanent, when the only thing that is guaranteed in life is change.
Move with the flow of life rather than resisting it. Be ready to move on when it is time.
3. See judgment for what it is.
When you do something different, it is likely that you will face criticism. But understand that other people’s words mean nothing about you.
When someone criticizes or judges your choices, they are only showing their own misunderstanding. It is an insecure person who judges another person’s choices.
4. Rethink “success.”
“Success” is an arbitrary term, with no meaning on its own. What is the point in being “successful” if it is at the expense of your own happiness? Spending less time working and worrying about material gain can free up your energy for things that really matter to you.
5. Don’t be a slave to “security.”
I have met so many people who live mediocre lives, because they think that their situation is “secure.” And yet this is an illusion. Anyone can lose a job at any time, and limiting your experience in order to try and avoid this does not make any sense.
Trust in your own ability to problem-solve, rather than allowing fear to prevent you from taking risks.
6. Don’t be afraid of failure.
Just like “success,” “failure” is also an arbitrary term that has no meaning. Trial and error is how we inherently learn, so making mistakes will be inevitable.
Things might not always go as planned, and you may change your course as you go. This is all a part of the process and nothing to worry about.
