I never came out as officially atheist, but I did question several things pertaining to religion. As a black teen in the deep south in MS it was a rude awakening to them that I had this thought process. I still remember it like it was yesterday I was @ restaurant with my parents, brother and a friend of the family. They kept asking me why I never go to church and how I was going to "save my soul". I preceded to explain to them that to live right has nothing to do with attending church. You can be a helpful and productive human being without religion. The gave me the salty look and my brother...in his 30s @ the time was disgusted. Keep in mind he's done way more dirt in his life that I can ever dream of doing. Pr-martial sex, kids out of wedlock, cursing, domestic violence, police record etc. I felt like I was on my own planet and I had came to visit these people. Nowadays I just go with it to avoid conflict of shytting on my family's belief system.