Atlanta man kills stepson over quarantine spat

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Stepdad probably came into the picture later in the child's life when he had to much to unlearn being raised by a woman for so long.

There comes a point where boys on their way to becoming men stop fearing their mothers and she allows him to break appropriate boundaries for his age without any real consequences. That alone is already putting his life in danger. Raising your voice trying to make it deep like a man can only work for so long.

They lack the forward thinking to see the domino effect of consequences, always living in the moment. They also dont know much about what it means to be a man.

When a man comes into the picture and gives the boy the disciplinary energy he needs they're going to reject it, having all that self centered feminity socialized into them. The mother often undermines the male figure who's trying who's wrangle the boy into behaving correctly with her constant pity and babying.

I dont believe the boy deserved to be killed but It's a mixed bag of reactions when old boys and grown men clash. You gotta be ready for anything because it can go all the way down when you have a kid pretending to be a man trying to be the boss in front of the head of the house.

Knew a couple that had an argument between husband and wife and the wife had her kids living with him. The son jumped in the middle of the clash and knocked the stepfather unconscious.

Sadly they didnt have carpet and the fall he took to the back of his head having been knocked out in his feet caused some serious head injuries. Needless to say he kicked them all out when he got out of his coma and they're no longer a couple. Good old baby boy.
 
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Absolutely there's a point in time where introducing a father is too late in the child development process.

I don't understand the point of being stepfather to teenager or even preteen. Better yet, try not to become a stepfather

Regardless, the stepfather is at fault here. This is very unfortunate. The fact that he shot the kid multiple times, indicates that it's straight murder. Dude obviously never gave a fukk about the kid
 
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There’s been way too many justifications for the shooting of this kid in here. The article didn’t state he was armed with a gun or weapon so we have to assume that the stepdad resorted to pulling his gun out because of the scuffle...I’m sorry but in any event, if you pull out a gun on a kid (and not just any kid, your stepson), you’re a piece of shyt.
 
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fukk him. 16? You think you know the world? Run off galavanting to hang out then come back with the virus. Nah man, he asked for it. It’s sad he was a kid and thinking he untouchable but oh well.was it right? Maybe not but dude, you can’t put everyone’s life in danger because you think otherwise. Stay home and at 16 you still a snot nosed punk ass kid! You not a fukking man! Sad shyt
 

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R.I.P to the victim

the stepdad needs a fate worst than prison. Killing someone over some trivial shyt.. smh

Edit: just realized that this became physical, didnt see that at first. Thought this was simply a argument. Still sad
 
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Stepdad probably came into the picture later in the child's life when he had to much to unlearn being raised by a woman for so long.

There comes a point where boys on their way to becoming men stop fearing their mothers and she allows him to break appropriate boundaries for his age without any real consequences. That alone is already putting his life in danger. Raising your voice trying to make it deep like a man can only work for so long.

They lack the forward thinking to see the domino effect of consequences, always living in the moment. They also dont know much about what it means to be a man.

When a man comes into the picture and gives the boy the disciplinary energy he needs they're going to reject it, having all that self centered feminity socialized into them. The mother often undermines the male figure who's trying who's wrangle the boy into behaving correctly with her constant pity and babying.

I dont believe the boy deserved to be killed but It's a mixed bag of reactions when old boys and grown men clash. You gotta be ready for anything because it can go all the way down when you have a kid pretending to be a man trying to be the boss in front of the head of the house.

Knew a couple that had an argument between husband and wife and the wife had her kids living with him. The son jumped in the middle of the clash and knocked the stepfather unconscious.

Sadly they didnt have carpet and the fall he took to the back of his head having been knocked out in his feet caused some serious head injuries. Needless to say he kicked them all out when he got out of his coma and they're no longer a couple. Good old baby boy.


Salute this man. :salute:



You can tell alot of men on here have that same feminine energy.

"You didnt have to kill him"

People want to be able to wild out and overreact like women and only be slapped on the wrist. It doesnt work like that.

Im glad i grew up around men that'll fukk a kid up. Men teach you boundaries with other men. A lot of these farherless boys have never felt the strength of a man. That's why they lack respect.

As a man that owns my own house and land. Just putting myself in the stepdads shoes,smh anyone kicking my door in and attacking me is dead. Im dont cares if i can beat their azz. That's just how i was raised. You just dont bring that type of drama on someones land.


What bothers me is how Black cant agree on another. We're so apart on all issues.
 

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What? :childplease:


You kick in anyones door and attack them in there home, you deserved to be shot.
:russ:you right, i skimmed through the section in the OP and didnt even see that part of it. Thought it was just a argument, this still all sucks tho
 
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A lot of people in this thread are letting their hatred for single mums cloud their judgement.

You cannot talk about a kid not being receptive to good parenting when the POS showed that he had zero regard for his wellbeing.

When looking at parenting, people need to stop conflating their ego as a man with it. Discipline is an important part of parenting but so is showing the child love. You only do the the former, you're some punk trying to flex on a youth.
 

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There's a reason male lions killing all of the offspring when taking over a new pride (single moms lionesses).

:yeshrug:

Not justifying anything, but there's a lot we can learn from the animal kingdom. They moving mostly on natural instincts. I truly believe all of this stepmomma, stepfather dynamics are unnatural.
 

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There's a reason male lions killing all of the offspring when taking over a new pride (single moms lionesses).

:yeshrug:

Not justifying anything, but there's a lot we can learn from the animal kingdom. They moving mostly on natural instincts. I truly believe all of this stepmomma, stepfather dynamics are unnatural.

But you have been justifying this shyt and now you're looking towards animals for guidance :hubie:
 

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A lot of people in this thread are letting their hatred for single mums cloud their judgement.

You cannot talk about a kid not being receptive to good parenting when the POS showed that he had zero regard for his wellbeing.

When looking at parenting, people need to stop conflating their ego as a man with it. Discipline is an important part of parenting but so is showing the child love. You only do the the former, you're some punk trying to flex on a youth.


You guys are giving these kids too many passes and excuses just like this single mothers.

Doesnt matter the age or if your Jesus, if you kick in a mans door and attack him, youre probably going to die. Idk where yall from, but men dont take that of disrespect in their own homes. We just dont. Im my dad's best and he'd blast my azz if i go over there now and kick in the door.

I hate he had to die, but this is a lesso for other stepkids. These teens are wild, beating up teachers and just being totally disrespectful to adults. Kids need these hard lessons bcuz they just dont know men.
 
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