Attractiveness and how we and other view ourselves
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Music Fiend
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I guess the gist here is
Are you more or less surprised at the women/men that are attracted to you?
I guess its different for women too considering most cats will tke whats in front of em as long as it isnt unhealthy.
Men are a different story but still, my confidence has put me in nice situations. But I do think people find us more attractive than we think we are.
Are you more or less surprised at the women/men that are attracted to you?
I guess its different for women too considering most cats will tke whats in front of em as long as it isnt unhealthy.
Men are a different story but still, my confidence has put me in nice situations. But I do think people find us more attractive than we think we are.
Ha ha I hate when guys do that. I just had an experience with this and I regret even talking to that guy now. I was just being nice
roxxthe96er
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He saying 6'4 standin 4'6 lol
cyndaquil
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You mean to tell me a nikka suppose to think about it and take it personal if a chick rejectd him for being too good for her
fukk that
Aceofspades404
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SameI'm inclined to think I feel I'm less attractive than what people think. I've had some pretty attractive guys hit on me and the first thought that pops in my head is "why is he talking to me?". I always think they could do better so I never give them a chance.
So maybe they're seeing something I'm not
I be like "what the hell does he want with me?"
Then I be like " I am attractive"
But most of the time it's "yep, I'm gross"
Like I know I'm not ugly but I still feel ugly
I've never seen someone who is 6'4 have to continually reiterate that he's 6'4 but the coli seems to give @malcolmxxx_45 a pass. I honestly believe the nikka is a pathological liar
You blocked your own "blessing" because of your insecurities. At least thats what it sounds like
I've seen your holloween pic. You can't be that bad
No I'm not that bad but you're right it is insecurity and regardless of how much I work on myself it's hard to shake them.
Music Fiend
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Ha ha I hate when guys do that. I just had an experience with this and I regret even talking to that guy now. I was just being nice
I follow the proximity rule. If your in my space often and arent that aquainted with me then you like me or have some interest on some level. Unless it's a group thing.Hell I do it, women I don't find attractive I won't be in their space often or for long. Unless they are just cool people and we have rapport.
You mean to tell me a nikka suppose to think about it and take it personal if a chick rejectd him for being too good for her
fukk that
Too good for her?
No he shouldn't let rejection bother him regardless of the reasons for it.
ben anderson
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well like i always say. i wasn't a loser per say when i was fat, because i was a class clown. And the only reason i was funny/ acted like a fool was because i knew i was fat and ugly, and there would obviously be no way to get women. i wasn't a virgin, but i wasn't hitting anything "quality" i guess is the word before. the difference between being fat and in shape is like night an day. everyone treats you better. you yourself might be oblivious to it but you treat good looking people way better than you do fat/ugly people. and you might even realize that someone is attractive and intentionally try to treat them as you would someone unattractive because you don't want to come off as that kind of person, when in reality everyone is. i Can't sya i enjoyed being fat because i didn't it caused me a lot of pain and bad memories, however it did make it into the person i am today. it opened my eyes like a person on molly, to the way peple treat others in this world and i will not forget it. no matter how many peple tell you to get over it or " grow up" it will never go away. call it bitter or jaded
i could careless.You have no proof that I'm lyingI've never seen someone who is 6'4 have to continually reiterate that he's 6'4 but the coli seems to give @malcolmxxx_45 a pass. I honestly believe the nikka is a pathological liar
Your a pretty woman, don't sell yourself shortI'm inclined to think I feel I'm less attractive than what people think. I've had some pretty attractive guys hit on me and the first thought that pops in my head is "why is he talking to me?". I always think they could do better so I never give them a chance.
So maybe they're seeing something I'm not